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Anonymous wrote:Moving a kid between A/B/C/D from U9-11 is normal. If you choose to leave a club based on that kind of movement, that's on you not the club "dropping" your kid. A kid that gets dropped completely out of a club at those ages is probably due more to the demeanor of the parent.
I'm not talking about moving a kid from team to team. Some clubs (BRYC) drop young players entirely. I'm not saying these kids are such hot stuff, but if the club is willing to take the parents' $2000 at u9, surely the kid is owed a few years' worth of loyalty by the club.
So they have one team per age group, hold tryouts and not everyone makes the team?
You might consider a different club if you are not suited to a competitive environment because everything about that scenario says that nothing is guaranteed.
And paying $2000 simply pays for the year and nothing more. Talk about entitled.
They have three teams at the younger age groups. I would not expect a club like that to drop kids at u10, and I think it's lousy. That's why I'm saying it here -- to let people know what they're getting into. Are you saying you think cutting u10s after taking them at u9 is ok, when the club is fielding 3 teams?
And FYI, my kid doesn't play for BRYC, never tried out for BRYC. So it's not about me and whether I or my kid is suited to a competitive environment.
Translation: This is all hearsay and you really know nothing based on any actual facts that you have witnessed yourself, you are just blustering what somebody "told you".
Surprising, just surprising.
Well, I was told directly by the parents. Not sure why they would lie about the fact that BRYC cut their kids.
Not many people proudly proclaim that "their kid wasn't good enough" so they have to place blame somewhere. Did they lie? I don't know, where they objective? Likely not.
And since they really cant be terribly objective about something that was hurtful to them, it isn't really fair to run down an entire club over something that you yourself did not witness.
There are instances of coaches not bringing kids back because of their parents and in most clubs that is usually what it would take at that age for full out 'cut" from the club.
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And guess what? Now this parent is on your team and you'll get to see it firsthand. My guess is this parent is already complaining on the sidelines....
Saying that your kid was cut is the same as proclaiming that he or she was not good enough. Like I said, not sure why one would say that if it weren't true. And they're not my kid's teammates now. Just neighbors.
Nobody said it isn't true but it is dubious. And to state it as if it is standard practice at BRYC is misleading and irresponsible.
With the birth year change some kids may have been caught in a numbers game. Perhaps this kid would have been on a B team but due to low numbers there were not enough kids to have a full team so they decided better to cut the kids loose and find a better situation.
Again, you don't know anything about the situation so it is best to really not talk about it as if you do. What you are doing is slamming a club with no facts.
I do not have a kid at BRYC but I have been around youth soccer and know that this is not how most clubs operate regardless. Most of the negativity that you read in these boards is more sour grapes than objective truth.