Dating at gender-lopsided universities

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Anonymous wrote:You want your boys to date? Have them reject MAGA and respect women. It’s really not that hard.

Except it’s not about that. It would be nice if things were so tidy. They aren’t.

There are plenty of middle of the road boys who respect people. Who play some video games but not a ton. Who are reasonably fit. Who are in college or college bound. Normal people. Who are having trouble meeting people and can’t figure it out. Don’t turn them into the enemy.

They aren’t “the enemy” but they are, as a whole, violent, problematic, and toxic. They have a lot they need to figure out and own up to before they should even consider a relationship.

Oh, there you are. Continuing to label men in these broad (and largely false) terms is the problem. YOU are the problem.
DP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You want your boys to date? Have them reject MAGA and respect women. It’s really not that hard.

Except it’s not about that. It would be nice if things were so tidy. They aren’t.

There are plenty of middle of the road boys who respect people. Who play some video games but not a ton. Who are reasonably fit. Who are in college or college bound. Normal people. Who are having trouble meeting people and can’t figure it out. Don’t turn them into the enemy.

They aren’t “the enemy” but they are, as a whole, violent, problematic, and toxic. They have a lot they need to figure out and own up to before they should even consider a relationship.

Says they aren't the enemy.

Then describes them as an enemy who needs to surrender unconditionally.

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The PP knows all about toxicity.

[Anonymous]

My daughter is a freshman at a state school and no one she knows is hooking up with anyone. This is a sample of maybe 10 girls, all well adjusted, pretty, social. They hang out with only girls so far. They would go out with boys but no one is asking.

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Anonymous wrote:I do agree with some of the conclusions here. I have both boys and girls, so you won't catch me bashing either.

My daughter would love to be "asked out" in the old-fashioned way. Dinner, coffee, whatever. She's sick of "talking to" guys.

My son is definitely a bit afraid to ask out a girl and either be shot down or shamed. He has friends who are gay and bisexual, but he admits to being confused about whether it's OK to pursue a girl who has said she's bi.

I don’t really understand sort of extreme reactions like this.

My two sons attended DCPS and while they shrugged at some of the social engineering, neither felt oppressed or overwhelmed by the messaging. Maybe in the scheme of things DCPS isn’t that crazy.

Neither has ever had an issue reading social cues and asking women out…sometimes a rejection happens but I guess they ask out normal people because there is no public shaming.

I don't think he'd get shamed, either, but HE thinks he would!

I totally agree.

The guys (thanks to social media in my opinion) think they are going to be mocked and shamed if they make a misstep.

Social media has destroyed dating relationships.

Social media, and more specifically influencers and podcasters are feeding your children crap information.

It is the female centered influencers, mostly.

I have boys, and I listen to guy focused social media, which is mostly right leaning.

Almost all of them are telling young men to get off video games, stop watching porn, exercise, get a job, go to church, learn about the world and make yourself worthy of the young women you want to be with, with a bunch of sports and things like aliens and moon landing conspiracies thrown in.


The girl social media is heavily skewed to cutting out any guy from your life who is not hard left.

Just read the Facebook posts of your adult female friends and neighbors. They say the exact same thing. I can't tell you how many times women post here and on their identifiable Facebook pages things like "I would divorce my husband if I found out he was conservative/voted for Trump."

That polarization by women is not good for dating or for society at large.

My girls do not want to date maga guys and has nothing to do with social influencers. It affects their lives and they have the right to want to date soneone closer to their ideals rather than soneone who wants five kids and a trad wife. Are you suggesting otherwise?

There are very few red hat MAGA men at top 20 colleges. Most young men are center left if you press them on issues. I don’t think politics is the problem.

Eh… they may not wear the hats, but that’s where their hearts and votes are. But it’s the same for white women, so not really a big deal.

It’s not for either…why would their hearts support idiotic policies like tariffs, cutting funding for their own colleges and other policies that completely work against their interests?

They aren’t morons like farmers who can expect a bailout when they elect someone who is destroying their livelihood.

DP the white women did not vote for HRC. They voted for Trump. Go look at the data.

Yeah…the data shows that white college women voted for Harris.

Also, this was specifically about top 20 schools. Like 90% of the top 20 schools were 80%+ for Harris. Even Vanderbilt was like 60%+.

You can’t get to those numbers without a lot of white men and women.

The honesty of those polls is highly questionable.

That sure sounds scientific. I mean, have you been to top 20 school campuses?

What's highly questionable is your post.

Says the person who provided zero citations to back up her claims. Where are your sources? Please provide citations when spitting out numbers. Especially when calling out others for not automatically taking your word for it.
DP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You want your boys to date? Have them reject MAGA and respect women. It’s really not that hard.

Except it’s not about that. It would be nice if things were so tidy. They aren’t.

There are plenty of middle of the road boys who respect people. Who play some video games but not a ton. Who are reasonably fit. Who are in college or college bound. Normal people. Who are having trouble meeting people and can’t figure it out. Don’t turn them into the enemy.

They aren’t “the enemy” but they are, as a whole, violent, problematic, and toxic. They have a lot they need to figure out and own up to before they should even consider a relationship.

Wow. I sure hope you don't have sons. Or any children, for that matter.

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No doubt she has daughters who she has completely brainwashed with this garbage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is a freshman at a state school and no one she knows is hooking up with anyone. This is a sample of maybe 10 girls, all well adjusted, pretty, social. They hang out with only girls so far. They would go out with boys but no one is asking.

No one is asking because of people like a PP, who claims that all guys/men are evil, violent, terrible people. The reality is that the vast majority of men are great people. People like the man-hating PP hate hearing that.

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Anonymous wrote:I do agree with some of the conclusions here. I have both boys and girls, so you won't catch me bashing either.

My daughter would love to be "asked out" in the old-fashioned way. Dinner, coffee, whatever. She's sick of "talking to" guys.

My son is definitely a bit afraid to ask out a girl and either be shot down or shamed. He has friends who are gay and bisexual, but he admits to being confused about whether it's OK to pursue a girl who has said she's bi.

I don’t really understand sort of extreme reactions like this.

My two sons attended DCPS and while they shrugged at some of the social engineering, neither felt oppressed or overwhelmed by the messaging. Maybe in the scheme of things DCPS isn’t that crazy.

Neither has ever had an issue reading social cues and asking women out…sometimes a rejection happens but I guess they ask out normal people because there is no public shaming.

I don't think he'd get shamed, either, but HE thinks he would!

I totally agree.

The guys (thanks to social media in my opinion) think they are going to be mocked and shamed if they make a misstep.

Social media has destroyed dating relationships.

Social media, and more specifically influencers and podcasters are feeding your children crap information.

It is the female centered influencers, mostly.

I have boys, and I listen to guy focused social media, which is mostly right leaning.

Almost all of them are telling young men to get off video games, stop watching porn, exercise, get a job, go to church, learn about the world and make yourself worthy of the young women you want to be with, with a bunch of sports and things like aliens and moon landing conspiracies thrown in.


The girl social media is heavily skewed to cutting out any guy from your life who is not hard left.

Just read the Facebook posts of your adult female friends and neighbors. They say the exact same thing. I can't tell you how many times women post here and on their identifiable Facebook pages things like "I would divorce my husband if I found out he was conservative/voted for Trump."

That polarization by women is not good for dating or for society at large.

My girls do not want to date maga guys and has nothing to do with social influencers. It affects their lives and they have the right to want to date soneone closer to their ideals rather than soneone who wants five kids and a trad wife. Are you suggesting otherwise?

There are very few red hat MAGA men at top 20 colleges. Most young men are center left if you press them on issues. I don’t think politics is the problem.

Eh… they may not wear the hats, but that’s where their hearts and votes are. But it’s the same for white women, so not really a big deal.

It’s not for either…why would their hearts support idiotic policies like tariffs, cutting funding for their own colleges and other policies that completely work against their interests?

They aren’t morons like farmers who can expect a bailout when they elect someone who is destroying their livelihood.

DP the white women did not vote for HRC. They voted for Trump. Go look at the data.

Yeah…the data shows that white college women voted for Harris.

Also, this was specifically about top 20 schools. Like 90% of the top 20 schools were 80%+ for Harris. Even Vanderbilt was like 60%+.

You can’t get to those numbers without a lot of white men and women.

The honesty of those polls is highly questionable.

That sure sounds scientific. I mean, have you been to top 20 school campuses?

What's highly questionable is your post.

Says the person who provided zero citations to back up her claims. Where are your sources? Please provide citations when spitting out numbers. Especially when calling out others for not automatically taking your word for it.
DP

You are embarrassing yourself. You know that top 20 college students went massively for Harris.

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Anonymous wrote:I do agree with some of the conclusions here. I have both boys and girls, so you won't catch me bashing either.

My daughter would love to be "asked out" in the old-fashioned way. Dinner, coffee, whatever. She's sick of "talking to" guys.

My son is definitely a bit afraid to ask out a girl and either be shot down or shamed. He has friends who are gay and bisexual, but he admits to being confused about whether it's OK to pursue a girl who has said she's bi.

I don’t really understand sort of extreme reactions like this.

My two sons attended DCPS and while they shrugged at some of the social engineering, neither felt oppressed or overwhelmed by the messaging. Maybe in the scheme of things DCPS isn’t that crazy.

Neither has ever had an issue reading social cues and asking women out…sometimes a rejection happens but I guess they ask out normal people because there is no public shaming.

I don't think he'd get shamed, either, but HE thinks he would!

I totally agree.

The guys (thanks to social media in my opinion) think they are going to be mocked and shamed if they make a misstep.

Social media has destroyed dating relationships.

Social media, and more specifically influencers and podcasters are feeding your children crap information.

It is the female centered influencers, mostly.

I have boys, and I listen to guy focused social media, which is mostly right leaning.

Almost all of them are telling young men to get off video games, stop watching porn, exercise, get a job, go to church, learn about the world and make yourself worthy of the young women you want to be with, with a bunch of sports and things like aliens and moon landing conspiracies thrown in.


The girl social media is heavily skewed to cutting out any guy from your life who is not hard left.

Just read the Facebook posts of your adult female friends and neighbors. They say the exact same thing. I can't tell you how many times women post here and on their identifiable Facebook pages things like "I would divorce my husband if I found out he was conservative/voted for Trump."

That polarization by women is not good for dating or for society at large.

My girls do not want to date maga guys and has nothing to do with social influencers. It affects their lives and they have the right to want to date soneone closer to their ideals rather than soneone who wants five kids and a trad wife. Are you suggesting otherwise?

There are very few red hat MAGA men at top 20 colleges. Most young men are center left if you press them on issues. I don’t think politics is the problem.

Eh… they may not wear the hats, but that’s where their hearts and votes are. But it’s the same for white women, so not really a big deal.

It’s not for either…why would their hearts support idiotic policies like tariffs, cutting funding for their own colleges and other policies that completely work against their interests?

They aren’t morons like farmers who can expect a bailout when they elect someone who is destroying their livelihood.

DP the white women did not vote for HRC. They voted for Trump. Go look at the data.

Yeah…the data shows that white college women voted for Harris.

Also, this was specifically about top 20 schools. Like 90% of the top 20 schools were 80%+ for Harris. Even Vanderbilt was like 60%+.

You can’t get to those numbers without a lot of white men and women.

The honesty of those polls is highly questionable.

That sure sounds scientific. I mean, have you been to top 20 school campuses?

What's highly questionable is your post.

Says the person who provided zero citations to back up her claims. Where are your sources? Please provide citations when spitting out numbers. Especially when calling out others for not automatically taking your word for it.
DP

You are embarrassing yourself. You know that top 20 college students went massively for Harris.

It’s clearly YOU who is embarrassing yourself by pulling percentages out of your rear with absolutely no citations to back them up. Only stupid people do that.

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Anonymous wrote:I do agree with some of the conclusions here. I have both boys and girls, so you won't catch me bashing either.

My daughter would love to be "asked out" in the old-fashioned way. Dinner, coffee, whatever. She's sick of "talking to" guys.

My son is definitely a bit afraid to ask out a girl and either be shot down or shamed. He has friends who are gay and bisexual, but he admits to being confused about whether it's OK to pursue a girl who has said she's bi.

I don’t really understand sort of extreme reactions like this.

My two sons attended DCPS and while they shrugged at some of the social engineering, neither felt oppressed or overwhelmed by the messaging. Maybe in the scheme of things DCPS isn’t that crazy.

Neither has ever had an issue reading social cues and asking women out…sometimes a rejection happens but I guess they ask out normal people because there is no public shaming.

I don't think he'd get shamed, either, but HE thinks he would!

I totally agree.

The guys (thanks to social media in my opinion) think they are going to be mocked and shamed if they make a misstep.

Social media has destroyed dating relationships.

Social media, and more specifically influencers and podcasters are feeding your children crap information.

It is the female centered influencers, mostly.

I have boys, and I listen to guy focused social media, which is mostly right leaning.

Almost all of them are telling young men to get off video games, stop watching porn, exercise, get a job, go to church, learn about the world and make yourself worthy of the young women you want to be with, with a bunch of sports and things like aliens and moon landing conspiracies thrown in.


The girl social media is heavily skewed to cutting out any guy from your life who is not hard left.

Just read the Facebook posts of your adult female friends and neighbors. They say the exact same thing. I can't tell you how many times women post here and on their identifiable Facebook pages things like "I would divorce my husband if I found out he was conservative/voted for Trump."

That polarization by women is not good for dating or for society at large.

My girls do not want to date maga guys and has nothing to do with social influencers. It affects their lives and they have the right to want to date soneone closer to their ideals rather than soneone who wants five kids and a trad wife. Are you suggesting otherwise?

There are very few red hat MAGA men at top 20 colleges. Most young men are center left if you press them on issues. I don’t think politics is the problem.

Eh… they may not wear the hats, but that’s where their hearts and votes are. But it’s the same for white women, so not really a big deal.

It’s not for either…why would their hearts support idiotic policies like tariffs, cutting funding for their own colleges and other policies that completely work against their interests?

They aren’t morons like farmers who can expect a bailout when they elect someone who is destroying their livelihood.

DP the white women did not vote for HRC. They voted for Trump. Go look at the data.

Yeah…the data shows that white college women voted for Harris.

Also, this was specifically about top 20 schools. Like 90% of the top 20 schools were 80%+ for Harris. Even Vanderbilt was like 60%+.

You can’t get to those numbers without a lot of white men and women.

The honesty of those polls is highly questionable.

That sure sounds scientific. I mean, have you been to top 20 school campuses?

What's highly questionable is your post.

Says the person who provided zero citations to back up her claims. Where are your sources? Please provide citations when spitting out numbers. Especially when calling out others for not automatically taking your word for it.
DP

You are embarrassing yourself. You know that top 20 college students went massively for Harris.

+1

“Smart people don’t like me.”
-Trump

[Anonymous]

Only around 1/3 of students at DS's school are women. He just...doesn't date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is a freshman at a state school and no one she knows is hooking up with anyone. This is a sample of maybe 10 girls, all well adjusted, pretty, social. They hang out with only girls so far. They would go out with boys but no one is asking.

Similar to my son. He hangs out with guys, playing intramurals and watching sports, etc.

[Anonymous]

DD at an SLAC says all the straight males say they are “polyamorous” and the straight girls have to be okay with them seriously dating multiple girls at the same time. Yuck. She’s going to wait for the real world to start dating I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DD at an SLAC says all the straight males say they are “polyamorous” and the straight girls have to be okay with them seriously dating multiple girls at the same time. Yuck. She’s going to wait for the real world to start dating I guess.

This is a weird thing to lie about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DD at an SLAC says all the straight males say they are “polyamorous” and the straight girls have to be okay with them seriously dating multiple girls at the same time. Yuck. She’s going to wait for the real world to start dating I guess.

This is a weird thing to lie about.

Ha! You obviously don’t have a DD at an SLAC currently. It is wild. It might help if I name the institution, but I won’t. You can guess.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DD at an SLAC says all the straight males say they are “polyamorous” and the straight girls have to be okay with them seriously dating multiple girls at the same time. Yuck. She’s going to wait for the real world to start dating I guess.

This is a weird thing to lie about.

Ha! You obviously don’t have a DD at an SLAC currently. It is wild. It might help if I name the institution, but I won’t. You can guess.

please name it so DD can avoid! she's looking at SLACs and now I'm worried about the vibe.