PSA-Hoco

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't read this post as suggesting that kids invite people they don't genuinely like or want to spend time with on some level - no one should do that, and it is ok to have boundaries and decide who you want to spend free time with. I think the point is to give some thought to whether there are kids you like spending time with in some capacity that need a group to go with.

Bingo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't read this post as suggesting that kids invite people they don't genuinely like or want to spend time with on some level - no one should do that, and it is ok to have boundaries and decide who you want to spend free time with. I think the point is to give some thought to whether there are kids you like spending time with in some capacity that need a group to go with.

This one gets it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hoco is important to some and it is sad that some kids don't feel that they can go because they haven't been included.

Life is hard and we don't have to tailor ourselves to your kids anxieties. That's THEIR problem, not ours.

So tired of being told I have to accommodate other people's dysfunction.

We already knew you were an ass. No need to come back and tell us over and over again.

NP, but is anyone else seeing the irony in the posters asking for kindness calling the other posters "ass"

Do F off. I don't owe you kindness when you come here and call kids who might be struggling socially at 14 and 15 dysfunctional. A kind thing to do, what I do, is to try to include them and show them they can be loved. I don't owe you a kindness for being an ass to them. So yes, you are an ASS. And you deserve to be called out for it.

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[jsteele]

Probably time to put this thread to rest.