Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

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I can't believe JLO went back to this mess, but I guess she wanted to seize the opportunity to show the world that Ben wanted her more than the woman he married.

I wasn't surprised she went back to him. She's always been obsessed with him. After all, she has dumped 2 serious relationships to be with Ben.

Once in 2002. (dumped her then-husband Cris Judd to be with Ben)

Almost 20 years later in 2021, she dumps A-Rod to be with Ben. After only 3 months of getting back with Ben, she moved across the country from Miami to LA (and dragged her kids with her + enrolled her kids to be in the same school as Ben's kids) to be closer to Ben.

And she still wanted to marry him after their cancelled 2003 wedding. Even after she found out he cheated on her with strippers days before wedding. She's never acted so nuts about any other guy she's previously been with.

And her mom is nuts too. On Hoda and Jenna’s show, she said she prayed for 20 years that Ben and Jennifer would get back together.

I don’t know how any mom who would want her daughter to go back to the guy who dumped her 72 hours before the wedding. Ben humiliated her.

J Lo’s mother liked Ben because he was her gamble buddy in Vegas.

Nah. She just has a crush on a tall dark A lister.

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Jen followed Ben around Georgia during their first break up too. It's sad how little self worth she has

https://ew.com/article/2003/09/23/affleck-and-lopez-reunite-georgia-courthouse/

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One of the love notes J Lo shared is hilarious



Co-written by her husband, Ben Affleck, the snippet offers a brief glimpse of a letter the actor may have written to his now-wife in 2002.

“Life’s tough, but you’re sweet,” reads the note.

“Thanks for the gift. Hope you like the flowers. You told me you could never have enough. I believe you.”

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Anonymous wrote:I think Garner would do anything for Ben and if given the opportunity remarry him.

I think she’d have a fourth kid with him if she could. She’s hinted at that in the past that she enjoys it but Ben had enough with 3. She was totally down for having another boy

No, it was exactly the opposite. Even when Samuel was just a baby and she was doing press for some movie, she said Ben wanted another child but she was done. She said it multiple times, and he was on the record as saying he wanted more.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil. They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely has sour grapes about Garner.

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships.

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad

But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so.

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family.

According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly.

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.

I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil. They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely has sour grapes about Garner.

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships.

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad

But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so.

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family.

According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly.

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.

I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting.

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Anonymous wrote:A story finally appeared about John Miller, Garners current boyfriend/fiancee.

Apparently they are on the outs now due to Ben.

https://www.geo.tv/latest/560408-ben-affleck-ruins-jennifer-garner-john-miller-relationship-amid-jlo-divorce

The insider spilt to In Touch Weekly that Garner and the Cali Burger CEO “have been on a break” from their romance amid Affleck and Lopez’s divorce.

“Jen’s had so much going on with Ben, it just took a toll,” the insider shared. “And she and John ended up going their separate ways. It wasn’t her choice.”

The source claimed that the Gone Girl star has been leaning on Garner for “advice and support” which has been “a big source of annoyance for John.”

Miller “doesn’t enjoy competing with her ex-husband for her attention,” the insider noted.

They went on to add that even though Miller likes Affleck and “tries to be understanding, but there’s only so much a guy can take.”

Friends of Garner are blaming her split from Miller on Affleck as he has “basically made Jen into his personal therapist once he started having issues with J. Lo.”

Damn I thought JG was smarter than this.

Just because Ben is a bad idea, doesn't mean that Miller is a good one.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil. They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely has sour grapes about Garner.

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships.

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad

But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so.

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family.

According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly.

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.

I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting.

+1 Supporting her messed up ex for the sake of their mutual children isn't at all the same thing as compromising herself for him.

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John Miller should run away from all these crazy movie people.

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Please please help me understand why anyone cares.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil. They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely has sour grapes about Garner.

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships.

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad

But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so.

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family.

According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly.

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.

I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting.

+1 Supporting her messed up ex for the sake of their mutual children isn't at all the same thing as compromising herself for him.

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Anonymous wrote:Please please help me understand why anyone cares.

These are some of the biggest celebrities in the world having the some of the most messed up relationships. None of them are camera shy, there is so much material to work with, so many twists and turns. It doesn't really get any better than this. How can anyone not care?

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Anonymous wrote:Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil. They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely has sour grapes about Garner.

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships.

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad

But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so.

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family.

According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly.

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.

I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting.

+1 Supporting her messed up ex for the sake of their mutual children isn't at all the same thing as compromising herself for him.

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Agree. At the point where she drove him to rehab, his alcohol abuse was so severe that he could have died, either from drinking himself to death or the physical effects of alcohol withdrawal. I think she just wants to keep him as healthy as possible so that her kids have a father.

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Anonymous wrote:Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil. They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely has sour grapes about Garner.

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships.

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad

But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so.

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family.

According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly.

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.

I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting.

+1 Supporting her messed up ex for the sake of their mutual children isn't at all the same thing as compromising herself for him.

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Agree. At the point where she drove him to rehab, his alcohol abuse was so severe that he could have died, either from drinking himself to death or the physical effects of alcohol withdrawal. I think she just wants to keep him as healthy as possible so that her kids have a father.

+1 agree

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Anonymous wrote:A story finally appeared about John Miller, Garners current boyfriend/fiancee.

Apparently they are on the outs now due to Ben.

https://www.geo.tv/latest/560408-ben-affleck-ruins-jennifer-garner-john-miller-relationship-amid-jlo-divorce

The insider spilt to In Touch Weekly that Garner and the Cali Burger CEO “have been on a break” from their romance amid Affleck and Lopez’s divorce.

“Jen’s had so much going on with Ben, it just took a toll,” the insider shared. “And she and John ended up going their separate ways. It wasn’t her choice.”

The source claimed that the Gone Girl star has been leaning on Garner for “advice and support” which has been “a big source of annoyance for John.”

Miller “doesn’t enjoy competing with her ex-husband for her attention,” the insider noted.

They went on to add that even though Miller likes Affleck and “tries to be understanding, but there’s only so much a guy can take.”

Friends of Garner are blaming her split from Miller on Affleck as he has “basically made Jen into his personal therapist once he started having issues with J. Lo.”

Damn I thought JG was smarter than this.

Just because Ben is a bad idea, doesn't mean that Miller is a good one.

He had an acrimonious divorce and doesn't seem he and his ex, a celebrity violinist, are friendly. Don't know why everyone is assuming he's such a great guy.