Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:His cozying with Garner brought her over the edge.

Her cozying with Violet seemed intentionally petty.

The emotional maturity of both partners here is below zero

[Anonymous]

We all know he dumped her..again.

He’s allowing her to save face by filing first so she doesn’t go on the war path

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

Why? They're both incapable of a long term relationship. She's just as much to blame as him - especially the 2nd time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:His cozying with Garner brought her over the edge.

100% This wasn't planned from them both. Violet was just dropped off at college. They wouldn't have wanted the negative attention and stress for her. She was mad

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

Why? They're both incapable of a long term relationship. She's just as much to blame as him - especially the 2nd time.

not PP, and I don't even like JLO but I feel sorry for her because this is very painful. He clearly dumped her, while she went all in - really in (not like him). She should have known better and not do xyz, but still, the punishment is brutal. Romantic life doesn't get much worse than where she is now.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:His cozying with Garner brought her over the edge.

100% This wasn't planned from them both. Violet was just dropped off at college. They wouldn't have wanted the negative attention and stress for her. She was mad

Good point!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:His cozying with Garner brought her over the edge.

100% This wasn't planned from them both. Violet was just dropped off at college. They wouldn't have wanted the negative attention and stress for her. She was mad

I think so too and good for her. She's no prize but he seems much worse. He's a miserable jerk-manbaby who will never be happy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

Why? They're both incapable of a long term relationship. She's just as much to blame as him - especially the 2nd time.

not PP, and I don't even like JLO but I feel sorry for her because this is very painful. He clearly dumped her, while she went all in - really in (not like him). She should have known better and not do xyz, but still, the punishment is brutal. Romantic life doesn't get much worse than where she is now.

It's true! Feel the same.

[Anonymous]

I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

[Anonymous]

A-Rod is probably somewhere laughing at this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

Why? They're both incapable of a long term relationship. She's just as much to blame as him - especially the 2nd time.

not PP, and I don't even like JLO but I feel sorry for her because this is very painful. He clearly dumped her, while she went all in - really in (not like him). She should have known better and not do xyz, but still, the punishment is brutal. Romantic life doesn't get much worse than where she is now.

She got a tattoo for the man. This woman treats her body like the Holy Grail and she tattooed his name on her. (While he of course only used her initials).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I feel bad for her.

I would feel awful for her if she hadn't been such a controlling narcissistic braggart about her "true love." If she had gone to ground and quietly focused on strengthening her marriage and respected her partner's desire for privacy. But she commodified their relationship, so I don't feel bad for her at all. Even if I think he should have left her alone to begin with.

He knew ahead of time she purposely seek tabloid attention to stay relevant. He even talked about it before marriage. He knew what he was getting into with the relationship. She seems happy most of the time, he does not.

I think the end was when he was at the Grammys (?) and looked bored and she chastised him when a picture was being taken.

Sad they held a candle for each other for so many years and couldn’t make it work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Yeah I agree. Why in the world did he play into her delusions? It's not fair to just blame her when he was right there hyping it up to make her feel secure

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Anonymous wrote:Glad it's moving forward. I don't think the prenup matters. She's the far higher earner, and I don't think he'll go after any of her money.

Why did she make sure to file today before the 2 year anniversary if he isn’t after money?

Their actual anniversary was in July, so it is past 2 years. Today is the anniversary of their big ceremony, but they were already legally married at that point.

I also don't think Ben will go after her money. He has plenty of money and I think he is the type of guy who would find it emasculating to go after his ex wife's money.

[Anonymous]

They wasted so much cash. Think of all the good they could have done, just with the cost of the Georgia wedding, not even mentioning the $60m house. Jesus, Mary and Joseph.