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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ben said he fell in love with Garner in 2002 on the set of Daredevil.  They actually first met in 2000 on the set of Pearl Harbor.

He was already newly and secretly with Lopez at the time Daredevil was shot in early-mid 2002 as J Lo was married to Cris Judd. Garner was also married to Scott Foley during early 2002. Somewhere in this mix, Garner leaves her husband Foley for her costar Michael Vartan. J Lo leaves her husband Cris Judd for Ben Affleck in June 2002. Ben Affleck leaves Jennifer Lopez for Garner in late 2003.

Lopez definitely  has sour grapes about Garner. [/quote]

I wonder if he actually meant Elektra. He appeared as Daredevil in Garner's Elektra movie, which filmed in spring/summer 2004. That timing works better with their various relationships. [/quote]

No he said Daredevil which came out in 2003 and was shot in 2002.

Everybody involved are cheaters.

He was cheating on Lopez with Garner Garner was cheating on Foley with Affleck , and  Lopez was cheating on her husband Judd with Ben. He slept with 2 married Jennifers and made them leave their husbands for him. Not bad 
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But how does Michael Vartan fit in there? Supposedly Jen G left Foley for Vartan. Was that relationship just to coverup her relationship with Ben? I don't think so. [/quote]

Garner is messed up too, perhaps less so than Jen and Ben. She let her longterm stable relationship fall apart to bolster her ex husband who cheated on her and left their family. 
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According to In Touch, not the most reliable of sources. The most consistent thing about Jen G is that she is really devoted to her kids. She knows that Ben’s sobriety is a huge positive for her kids, one of whom is just 12. She has put up with a ton (that drive through photo- legendary), and no doubt sacrificed opportunities personal and professional *for her kids’ dad*

I don’t think Jen G wants to be with Ben romantically, but she’s definitely very committed to supporting his well being.

I doubt we will get much information and it’s going to be a boring divorce, which is great for them but not so much for gossip. If we have to go back and fight about 2002 it seems pretty silly. [/quote]

I will shout this from the rooftops --a woman compromising herself, her relationships, and her kids' stability to support the antics of an addict (Ben doesn't act sober) is NOT behaving in her kids' best interest. Although Ben's sobriety is a positive for everyone, Garner is not responsible for it. She needs to provide a safe place for them away from the Affleck-Lopez circus.

Ben can call his sponsor for support.
Ben can see his kids another time, after he gets more balance.
Garner is codependent.
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I think she’s been steadfast in supporting her kids’ stability. And I don’t see her supporting his antics. She is a family member who is supportive of his sobriety. How do you know he doesn’t call his sponsor? I don’t think she indulges him. My point was I don’t think she is romantically involved with him, this is the same relationship they’ve had since splitting. [/quote]

+1 Supporting her messed up ex for the sake of their mutual children isn't at all the same thing as compromising herself for him. [/quote]

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