Jennifer Lopez has officially filed for divorce

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Right? He love bombed her, grew bored and even pettier than usual, and slid out the side door of their marriage.

She is 100% better off. Hopefully she figures that out sooner than later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Yeah I agree. Why in the world did he play into her delusions? It's not fair to just blame her when he was right there hyping it up to make her feel secure

I think he's bipolar. It's pretty common among addicts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They wasted so much cash. Think of all the good they could have done, just with the cost of the Georgia wedding, not even mentioning the $60m house. Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

That wedding employed (I assume) a lot of people. It will be ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Yeah I agree. Why in the world did he play into her delusions? It's not fair to just blame her when he was right there hyping it up to make her feel secure

I think he's bipolar. It's pretty common among addicts.

Oh, please. So many men are like this but don't have Ben's opportunities. They chase you incessantly, and truly believe it, then when they win you over they gradually get bored and move on. My question is: Is Ben back with JG???

[Anonymous]

Sad thing is that I don't think they're done. They are going to be like Burton and Taylor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good for her! Now he can end his PR campaign of embarrassing her publically.

What kind of things has he been doing to embarass her publicly (I haven't been following this at all, just knew that they were separated)?

He didn't acknowledge her birthday, bought his own house on that very day, and has travelled the world with his ex all while technically married and even wearing his ring on occasion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Right? He love bombed her, grew bored and even pettier than usual, and slid out the side door of their marriage.

She is 100% better off. Hopefully she figures that out sooner than later.

She’ll land on her feet. He’ll always be a sick, miserable man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sad thing is that I don't think they're done. They are going to be like Burton and Taylor.

Nope. Ben is done.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Yeah I agree. Why in the world did he play into her delusions? It's not fair to just blame her when he was right there hyping it up to make her feel secure

I think he's bipolar. It's pretty common among addicts.

Oh, please. So many men are like this but don't have Ben's opportunities. They chase you incessantly, and truly believe it, then when they win you over they gradually get bored and move on. My question is: Is Ben back with JG???

No chance. I think they are codependent but I don't think she will ever go back to him. I would bet money that he has tried already, well before he got back together with JLo.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Yeah I agree. Why in the world did he play into her delusions? It's not fair to just blame her when he was right there hyping it up to make her feel secure

I think he's bipolar. It's pretty common among addicts.

Oh, please. So many men are like this but don't have Ben's opportunities. They chase you incessantly, and truly believe it, then when they win you over they gradually get bored and move on. My question is: Is Ben back with JG???

No chance. I think they are codependent but I don't think she will ever go back to him. I would bet money that he has tried already, well before he got back together with JLo.

but what if he promises that he will never.cheat.again

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he was all “not going anywhere” and then checked out of their marriage almost immediately. JLo is a hot mess but Ben knew this. He should have left her alone.

Yeah I agree. Why in the world did he play into her delusions? It's not fair to just blame her when he was right there hyping it up to make her feel secure

I think he's bipolar. It's pretty common among addicts.

Oh, please. So many men are like this but don't have Ben's opportunities. They chase you incessantly, and truly believe it, then when they win you over they gradually get bored and move on. My question is: Is Ben back with JG???

No chance. I think they are codependent but I don't think she will ever go back to him. I would bet money that he has tried already, well before he got back together with JLo.

but what if he promises that he will never.cheat.again

And writes her letters!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sad thing is that I don't think they're done. They are going to be like Burton and Taylor.

Nope. Ben is done.

Yeah I actually don't see him putting his kids through that again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They wasted so much cash. Think of all the good they could have done, just with the cost of the Georgia wedding, not even mentioning the $60m house. Jesus, Mary and Joseph.

That wedding employed (I assume) a lot of people. It will be ok.

Ha! That is a pittance comparably.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sad thing is that I don't think they're done. They are going to be like Burton and Taylor.

Nope. Ben is done.

Yeah I actually don't see him putting his kids through that again.

Yup. He's going to date a series of young, grateful women, like the playboy model. Women who look good and aren't ready for kids yet. He is not having more kids.