Who Is Most Out Of Bounds Here?

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Anonymous wrote:This can’t be true.

It’s not. Reporting it now.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

You're delusional if you think the wife didn't have words with her DH. She can be angry at more than one person at a time.

Are you not reading my post? I'm not saying anything about the DH. I'm talking about OP. Who is not DH and who is not Dave.

Or maybe I misunderstood, and you are talking about wifes DH, aka Dave? I hope she did. But I still dont understand why you'd be mad at OP, literally a random third party not involved. And yet everyone is yelling at me talking about compassion? Right.

It her social media page. She allowed it and probably cheered her husband on.

So if people get into a fight on DCUM we all blame Jeff? I don't think that's how it works.

People fight, posts get reported and deleted. It's not a free for all. You do understand this is moderated right? OP didn't moderate and she should have. Like here.

So it's OPs fault for not moderating the adult males fighting? And that means she is "sabotaging" her friends marriage?

No. She just doesn't want to blame her husband and would rather blame anyone else. Like people on here apparently.

Normal people would delete that mess ASAP. But no, it hung out there for awhile and even the wife saw it. Some friend OP is!

She may not have seen it right away. Not all of us are addicted to facebook and on 24/7. Even if it was deleted after 5 mins someone could have easily screenshot it and shared it around.

Either way, I think it's ridiculous that wife is blaming OP simply because it was her post this all went down on. She needs to focus on her shitty cheating husband. He is the only one to blame. He is the only one sabotaging the marriage. No one else can sabotage it if the two parties are on the same page. Dave was not.

Right, she probably didn't see it right away. It was probably there for a long while. But why not kick someone when she's down, right? All b/c her husband made a bad joke.

Who and how was kicked while down? The wife? Again, her husband made a disgusting comment on a young womans body, and then found out he couldn't roll with the big boys of insults.

And it doesn’t matter who else is the collateral in all of this? Stay classy DCUM!

Shouldn't Dave have thought about his family as collateral damage while he was plowing someone else?

Still with the cheater-apologists. Seriously, I'm concerned how badly some people want to put the blame on anyone besides Dave.

I’ll say it again. You are just too dumb to keep talking to. Just repeating nonsense like a parrot.

So you have no answer as to why the wife is going ballistic on OP? Ok, you could have just said that

It's been said, you're just too dumb to understand.

The only answers I received were
-shes responsible since she owns facebook and should have moderated it better
-a bunch of other responses blaming DH which doesnt answer the q

Your insults really say more about you, I'm just trying to gain clarity on a small piece of this drama. Not sure why you feel like insulting random people on the internet is the way to end your day, seems like a shitty move.

[Anonymous]

Are most of the 19+ pages of posts just one person talking to the troll sock puppet?

Sigh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

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Back and forth and back and forth. Post post postidy post.

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

She’s be speed dialing lawyers, local besties and taking the kids to a resort to hunker down, or her parents house.

Not some woman far away whose husband posted something. Call the damn discloser if that’s really your priority, not getting some space from your std cheating spouse.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

You're delusional if you think the wife didn't have words with her DH. She can be angry at more than one person at a time.

Are you not reading my post? I'm not saying anything about the DH. I'm talking about OP. Who is not DH and who is not Dave.

Or maybe I misunderstood, and you are talking about wifes DH, aka Dave? I hope she did. But I still dont understand why you'd be mad at OP, literally a random third party not involved. And yet everyone is yelling at me talking about compassion? Right.

It her social media page. She allowed it and probably cheered her husband on.

So if people get into a fight on DCUM we all blame Jeff? I don't think that's how it works.

People fight, posts get reported and deleted. It's not a free for all. You do understand this is moderated right? OP didn't moderate and she should have. Like here.

So it's OPs fault for not moderating the adult males fighting? And that means she is "sabotaging" her friends marriage?

No. She just doesn't want to blame her husband and would rather blame anyone else. Like people on here apparently.

Normal people would delete that mess ASAP. But no, it hung out there for awhile and even the wife saw it. Some friend OP is!

She may not have seen it right away. Not all of us are addicted to facebook and on 24/7. Even if it was deleted after 5 mins someone could have easily screenshot it and shared it around.

Either way, I think it's ridiculous that wife is blaming OP simply because it was her post this all went down on. She needs to focus on her shitty cheating husband. He is the only one to blame. He is the only one sabotaging the marriage. No one else can sabotage it if the two parties are on the same page. Dave was not.

Right, she probably didn't see it right away. It was probably there for a long while. But why not kick someone when she's down, right? All b/c her husband made a bad joke.

Who and how was kicked while down? The wife? Again, her husband made a disgusting comment on a young womans body, and then found out he couldn't roll with the big boys of insults.

You're dense. It's not ok to do what OPs husband did. At all. Even if he didn't like comment.

Can you please keep on track? We aren't talking about OP Dh. We are talking about why wife is so angry at OP. Feel free to scroll up to the top of this thread in the quote bar to read my original question. But at least stop responding with insults, since you clearly have no idea what post youre responding to.

Can you read? The joke was made by Dave, remember? So his wife doesn't deserve the public humiliation.

Yes, I agree. Dave should’ve never done anything to publicly humiliate his wife.

Including cheating on his wife! POS, why won't people put the blame where it belongs?

Are you for women or against women? I can't tell. Seems you care more about punishing the victims than the cheaters.

I'm for punishing cheaters.

If you're going to bring up the wife then don't be surprised when she comes after you. Otherwise leave her out of the beef next time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

You think she'd call the guy who blasted them?

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

She’s be speed dialing lawyers, local besties and taking the kids to a resort to hunker down, or her parents house.

Not some woman far away whose husband posted something. Call the damn discloser if that’s really your priority, not getting some space from your std cheating spouse.

For all you know, she already knew. But she didn't prefer her private life aired for all to see. Maybe they've already had counseling and worked thru it. Now to bring it all up again is pretty low from some so-called friends.

[Anonymous]

19 pages in and we don’t actually know if Dave cheated or if this was DH just seeking revenge.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

You're delusional if you think the wife didn't have words with her DH. She can be angry at more than one person at a time.

Are you not reading my post? I'm not saying anything about the DH. I'm talking about OP. Who is not DH and who is not Dave.

Or maybe I misunderstood, and you are talking about wifes DH, aka Dave? I hope she did. But I still dont understand why you'd be mad at OP, literally a random third party not involved. And yet everyone is yelling at me talking about compassion? Right.

It her social media page. She allowed it and probably cheered her husband on.

So if people get into a fight on DCUM we all blame Jeff? I don't think that's how it works.

People fight, posts get reported and deleted. It's not a free for all. You do understand this is moderated right? OP didn't moderate and she should have. Like here.

So it's OPs fault for not moderating the adult males fighting? And that means she is "sabotaging" her friends marriage?

No. She just doesn't want to blame her husband and would rather blame anyone else. Like people on here apparently.

Normal people would delete that mess ASAP. But no, it hung out there for awhile and even the wife saw it. Some friend OP is!

She may not have seen it right away. Not all of us are addicted to facebook and on 24/7. Even if it was deleted after 5 mins someone could have easily screenshot it and shared it around.

Either way, I think it's ridiculous that wife is blaming OP simply because it was her post this all went down on. She needs to focus on her shitty cheating husband. He is the only one to blame. He is the only one sabotaging the marriage. No one else can sabotage it if the two parties are on the same page. Dave was not.

Right, she probably didn't see it right away. It was probably there for a long while. But why not kick someone when she's down, right? All b/c her husband made a bad joke.

Who and how was kicked while down? The wife? Again, her husband made a disgusting comment on a young womans body, and then found out he couldn't roll with the big boys of insults.

You're dense. It's not ok to do what OPs husband did. At all. Even if he didn't like comment.

Can you please keep on track? We aren't talking about OP Dh. We are talking about why wife is so angry at OP. Feel free to scroll up to the top of this thread in the quote bar to read my original question. But at least stop responding with insults, since you clearly have no idea what post youre responding to.

Can you read? The joke was made by Dave, remember? So his wife doesn't deserve the public humiliation.

Yes, I agree. Dave should’ve never done anything to publicly humiliate his wife.

Do you know what public means? Dave did nothing publicly. At all. That mess is all OP and her drama loving husband.

At least one person knew he cheated, and where there's smoke there's fire. Wife was being publicly humiliated since he cheated, she just didnt know.

That's not how this works.

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

She’s be speed dialing lawyers, local besties and taking the kids to a resort to hunker down, or her parents house.

Not some woman far away whose husband posted something. Call the damn discloser if that’s really your priority, not getting some space from your std cheating spouse.

For all you know, she already knew. But she didn't prefer her private life aired for all to see. Maybe they've already had counseling and worked thru it. Now to bring it all up again is pretty low from some so-called friends.

It was already public.

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Anonymous wrote:FYI troll.

No wife in that situation would speed dial YOU, of all people.

Do better Trolls.

This makes more sense as to why wife was calling OP. I literally can't think of another reason that she'd think OP is "sabotaging" her marriage just simply for existing. Thanks for finally giving a legit explanation, not sure why that was so hard for pps.

My gosh this site is full of such annoying people.

She’s be speed dialing lawyers, local besties and taking the kids to a resort to hunker down, or her parents house.

Not some woman far away whose husband posted something. Call the damn discloser if that’s really your priority, not getting some space from your std cheating spouse.

For all you know, she already knew. But she didn't prefer her private life aired for all to see. Maybe they've already had counseling and worked thru it. Now to bring it all up again is pretty low from some so-called friends.

It was already public.

How so?

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

You're delusional if you think the wife didn't have words with her DH. She can be angry at more than one person at a time.

Are you not reading my post? I'm not saying anything about the DH. I'm talking about OP. Who is not DH and who is not Dave.

Or maybe I misunderstood, and you are talking about wifes DH, aka Dave? I hope she did. But I still dont understand why you'd be mad at OP, literally a random third party not involved. And yet everyone is yelling at me talking about compassion? Right.

It her social media page. She allowed it and probably cheered her husband on.

So if people get into a fight on DCUM we all blame Jeff? I don't think that's how it works.

People fight, posts get reported and deleted. It's not a free for all. You do understand this is moderated right? OP didn't moderate and she should have. Like here.

So it's OPs fault for not moderating the adult males fighting? And that means she is "sabotaging" her friends marriage?

No. She just doesn't want to blame her husband and would rather blame anyone else. Like people on here apparently.

Normal people would delete that mess ASAP. But no, it hung out there for awhile and even the wife saw it. Some friend OP is!

She may not have seen it right away. Not all of us are addicted to facebook and on 24/7. Even if it was deleted after 5 mins someone could have easily screenshot it and shared it around.

Either way, I think it's ridiculous that wife is blaming OP simply because it was her post this all went down on. She needs to focus on her shitty cheating husband. He is the only one to blame. He is the only one sabotaging the marriage. No one else can sabotage it if the two parties are on the same page. Dave was not.

Right, she probably didn't see it right away. It was probably there for a long while. But why not kick someone when she's down, right? All b/c her husband made a bad joke.

Who and how was kicked while down? The wife? Again, her husband made a disgusting comment on a young womans body, and then found out he couldn't roll with the big boys of insults.

You're dense. It's not ok to do what OPs husband did. At all. Even if he didn't like comment.

Can you please keep on track? We aren't talking about OP Dh. We are talking about why wife is so angry at OP. Feel free to scroll up to the top of this thread in the quote bar to read my original question. But at least stop responding with insults, since you clearly have no idea what post youre responding to.

Can you read? The joke was made by Dave, remember? So his wife doesn't deserve the public humiliation.

Yes, I agree. Dave should’ve never done anything to publicly humiliate his wife.

Do you know what public means? Dave did nothing publicly. At all. That mess is all OP and her drama loving husband.

At least one person knew he cheated, and where there's smoke there's fire. Wife was being publicly humiliated since he cheated, she just didnt know.

That's not how this works.

Yes, yes it is. When there's a wife sitting dumb and everyone else knows her H has/is cheating on her, that is 100% humiliation for her. She just doesn't know what all those whispers are about. They're about her. And that's the cheaters fault.

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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...

Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?

So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario.

You're delusional if you think the wife didn't have words with her DH. She can be angry at more than one person at a time.

Are you not reading my post? I'm not saying anything about the DH. I'm talking about OP. Who is not DH and who is not Dave.

Or maybe I misunderstood, and you are talking about wifes DH, aka Dave? I hope she did. But I still dont understand why you'd be mad at OP, literally a random third party not involved. And yet everyone is yelling at me talking about compassion? Right.

It her social media page. She allowed it and probably cheered her husband on.

So if people get into a fight on DCUM we all blame Jeff? I don't think that's how it works.

People fight, posts get reported and deleted. It's not a free for all. You do understand this is moderated right? OP didn't moderate and she should have. Like here.

So it's OPs fault for not moderating the adult males fighting? And that means she is "sabotaging" her friends marriage?

No. She just doesn't want to blame her husband and would rather blame anyone else. Like people on here apparently.

Normal people would delete that mess ASAP. But no, it hung out there for awhile and even the wife saw it. Some friend OP is!

She may not have seen it right away. Not all of us are addicted to facebook and on 24/7. Even if it was deleted after 5 mins someone could have easily screenshot it and shared it around.

Either way, I think it's ridiculous that wife is blaming OP simply because it was her post this all went down on. She needs to focus on her shitty cheating husband. He is the only one to blame. He is the only one sabotaging the marriage. No one else can sabotage it if the two parties are on the same page. Dave was not.

Right, she probably didn't see it right away. It was probably there for a long while. But why not kick someone when she's down, right? All b/c her husband made a bad joke.

Who and how was kicked while down? The wife? Again, her husband made a disgusting comment on a young womans body, and then found out he couldn't roll with the big boys of insults.

You're dense. It's not ok to do what OPs husband did. At all. Even if he didn't like comment.

Can you please keep on track? We aren't talking about OP Dh. We are talking about why wife is so angry at OP. Feel free to scroll up to the top of this thread in the quote bar to read my original question. But at least stop responding with insults, since you clearly have no idea what post youre responding to.

Can you read? The joke was made by Dave, remember? So his wife doesn't deserve the public humiliation.

Yes, I agree. Dave should’ve never done anything to publicly humiliate his wife.

Do you know what public means? Dave did nothing publicly. At all. That mess is all OP and her drama loving husband.

At least one person knew he cheated, and where there's smoke there's fire. Wife was being publicly humiliated since he cheated, she just didnt know.

That's not how this works.

Yes, yes it is. When there's a wife sitting dumb and everyone else knows her H has/is cheating on her, that is 100% humiliation for her. She just doesn't know what all those whispers are about. They're about her. And that's the cheaters fault.

Everyone knows? Ok. Now you're just writing fan fiction.