NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:“Clearly not the son” in the video, per police. Sorry haters.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/orsolya-gaal-queens-mom-left-in-hockey-bag-stumps-cops-in-new-york

It seems so wrong that the police took him into the station for questioning in the middle of the night with no family or friends accompanying him. That poor boy.

It does seem awful, but at the same time he was the only person in the house, and thus either was the killer (in which case they could not leave him free without risking the safety of the rest of his family) or was then only person who might be able to give them immediate information about who killed her and whether the ere might be an ongoing threat to the community. If feel terrible for this poor child, but I don’t know that the police had better alternatives here.

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Anonymous wrote:How can a body be in a bag??? How can it fit?

I'm 5'5", 135 lbs and I can fit in many large suitcases/duffle bags. We used to joke about smuggling and I tried it. My teen hid in one to scare his brother.

When I drop my kids off in the morning, those hockey players are toting HUGE bags. My cousin needed a Suburban to tote her kid's hockey gear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If there’s video of her body being dragged down the street then there should be video of the man coming into the house.

The video is not shot near the house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Clearly not the son” in the video, per police. Sorry haters.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/orsolya-gaal-queens-mom-left-in-hockey-bag-stumps-cops-in-new-york

It seems so wrong that the police took him into the station for questioning in the middle of the night with no family or friends accompanying him. That poor boy.

It does seem awful, but at the same time he was the only person in the house, and thus either was the killer (in which case they could not leave him free without risking the safety of the rest of his family) or was then only person who might be able to give them immediate information about who killed her and whether the ere might be an ongoing threat to the community. If feel terrible for this poor child, but I don’t know that the police had better alternatives here.

I am so sad for him. The level of trauma--his mom being brutally murdered while he slept, being dragged out of bed barefoot/hand-cuffed and taken to the police station for questioning, and then likely reading/seeing on news the suspicion of infidelity.

It is so tragic.

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Latest:

Law enforcement sources said the suspect left behind a piece of evidence at Gaal’s home. They’re hoping it will lead them to the killer.

The husband is cooperating with police and has turned over his cellphone, sources said. It appears Gaal knew her killer because investigators said there were no signs of forced entry at the home.

https://pix11.com/news/local-news/queens/who-killed-orsolya-gaal-police-probe-into-death-of-mom-found-in-duffel-bag-continues/

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The family handyman revealed that the home has an extensive security and camera system:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10734085/amp/Family-electrician-murdered-Queens-mother-says-home-multiple-cameras.html

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Did they have an open marriage?

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Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

He was a trader. I'm in the industry and pretty much everyone is ruthless, so he probably knew and they probably had an open relationship. Divorce at their income is $$$. She did not deserve to die. There are some unmedicated cheated wives here who are gleeful about this poor woman being killed because she had affairs. Add the xenophobia about being pretty and Eastern European. I hope you feel better now about sitting on your fat and frigid American a** and feeling all righteous.

For the man to cheat, not their wives. They have a double standard and it is a machismo culture.

The women blaming the son and claiming this was an open thing just can’t face the fact that online affair dating/cheating ruins lives. Cheaters are selfish and take stupid risks go their fix.

And that doesn’t negate the fact that she did not deserve to be killed. She didn’t. Nobody deserves to die like that.

Cheaters like that often have some type of mental illness. You can see by her countless seductive selfies at 51 that there was something not right with her. She also had stayed out all night without informing the husband before.

Wow, do you ask yours for a permission slip before leaving the house? Imagine that. She stayed out ALL night without INFORMING the H. The horror.

So if your spouse just went out and didn’t return you’d be like, I’m sure it’s fine? Then you have a messed up relationship. The forum on this board makes so much more sense now.

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Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

He was a trader. I'm in the industry and pretty much everyone is ruthless, so he probably knew and they probably had an open relationship. Divorce at their income is $$$. She did not deserve to die. There are some unmedicated cheated wives here who are gleeful about this poor woman being killed because she had affairs. Add the xenophobia about being pretty and Eastern European. I hope you feel better now about sitting on your fat and frigid American a** and feeling all righteous.

For the man to cheat, not their wives. They have a double standard and it is a machismo culture.

The women blaming the son and claiming this was an open thing just can’t face the fact that online affair dating/cheating ruins lives. Cheaters are selfish and take stupid risks go their fix.

And that doesn’t negate the fact that she did not deserve to be killed. She didn’t. Nobody deserves to die like that.

Cheaters like that often have some type of mental illness. You can see by her countless seductive selfies at 51 that there was something not right with her. She also had stayed out all night without informing the husband before.

Wow, do you ask yours for a permission slip before leaving the house? Imagine that. She stayed out ALL night without INFORMING the H. The horror.

So if your spouse just went out and didn’t return you’d be like, I’m sure it’s fine? Then you have a messed up relationship. The forum on this board makes so much more sense now.

Kid: Daddy, where's Mommy this morning?

Dad: No idea son. She went out last night and never came home. I haven't heard from her. I guess I will have to go in late to work and drive you to school.

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Anonymous wrote:The family handyman revealed that the home has an extensive security and camera system:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10734085/amp/Family-electrician-murdered-Queens-mother-says-home-multiple-cameras.html

No. You have it wrong. The Electrician that worked on the security system is helping. HE is NOT the handyman lover. That is a different guy.

Police are now looking at multiple suspects including a 'handyman lover', according to The New York Post
That lover has not been named but it's possible he was caught by one of the home's surveillance cameras
Electrician Arrjuna Jack, 30, says he worked at the home and knows it has an extensive security system

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The family handyman revealed that the home has an extensive security and camera system:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10734085/amp/Family-electrician-murdered-Queens-mother-says-home-multiple-cameras.html

No. You have it wrong. The Electrician that worked on the security system is helping. HE is NOT the handyman lover. That is a different guy.

Police are now looking at multiple suspects including a 'handyman lover', according to The New York Post
That lover has not been named but it's possible he was caught by one of the home's surveillance cameras
Electrician Arrjuna Jack, 30, says he worked at the home and knows it has an extensive security system

Totally off-top, but she was very pretty in her wedding photo with her natural brunette hair. Much better than the bottle blonde.

What a tragedy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

He was a trader. I'm in the industry and pretty much everyone is ruthless, so he probably knew and they probably had an open relationship. Divorce at their income is $$$. She did not deserve to die. There are some unmedicated cheated wives here who are gleeful about this poor woman being killed because she had affairs. Add the xenophobia about being pretty and Eastern European. I hope you feel better now about sitting on your fat and frigid American a** and feeling all righteous.

For the man to cheat, not their wives. They have a double standard and it is a machismo culture.

The women blaming the son and claiming this was an open thing just can’t face the fact that online affair dating/cheating ruins lives. Cheaters are selfish and take stupid risks go their fix.

And that doesn’t negate the fact that she did not deserve to be killed. She didn’t. Nobody deserves to die like that.

Cheaters like that often have some type of mental illness. You can see by her countless seductive selfies at 51 that there was something not right with her. She also had stayed out all night without informing the husband before.

Wow, do you ask yours for a permission slip before leaving the house? Imagine that. She stayed out ALL night without INFORMING the H. The horror.

Actually, I would NEVER stay out all night and worry my husband and family. Yes, I would ask permission (and DH would ask me) if I was just going to take off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Clearly not the son” in the video, per police. Sorry haters.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/orsolya-gaal-queens-mom-left-in-hockey-bag-stumps-cops-in-new-york

It seems so wrong that the police took him into the station for questioning in the middle of the night with no family or friends accompanying him. That poor boy.

It does seem awful, but at the same time he was the only person in the house, and thus either was the killer (in which case they could not leave him free without risking the safety of the rest of his family) or was then only person who might be able to give them immediate information about who killed her and whether the ere might be an ongoing threat to the community. If feel terrible for this poor child, but I don’t know that the police had better alternatives here.

There was no need to handcuff the kid. Also, I hope they waited until his father showed up before they began questioning a frightened 13-year old kid. I know the Metropolitan Police Department (MPD) has no issue with questioning pre-teens and young teens without notifying their parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Clearly not the son” in the video, per police. Sorry haters.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/orsolya-gaal-queens-mom-left-in-hockey-bag-stumps-cops-in-new-york

It seems so wrong that the police took him into the station for questioning in the middle of the night with no family or friends accompanying him. That poor boy.

It does seem awful, but at the same time he was the only person in the house, and thus either was the killer (in which case they could not leave him free without risking the safety of the rest of his family) or was then only person who might be able to give them immediate information about who killed her and whether the ere might be an ongoing threat to the community. If feel terrible for this poor child, but I don’t know that the police had better alternatives here.

Seems like they could have done without the handcuffs and let him wear shoes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Clearly not the son” in the video, per police. Sorry haters.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/orsolya-gaal-queens-mom-left-in-hockey-bag-stumps-cops-in-new-york

It seems so wrong that the police took him into the station for questioning in the middle of the night with no family or friends accompanying him. That poor boy.

It does seem awful, but at the same time he was the only person in the house, and thus either was the killer (in which case they could not leave him free without risking the safety of the rest of his family) or was then only person who might be able to give them immediate information about who killed her and whether the ere might be an ongoing threat to the community. If feel terrible for this poor child, but I don’t know that the police had better alternatives here.

There was no need to handcuff the kid. Also, I hope they waited until his father showed up before they began questioning a frightened 13-year old kid. I know the Metropolitan Police Department (MPD) has no issue with questioning pre-teens and young teens without notifying their parents.

The poor kid had to be terrified and confused. It sounds like he had no idea before the police came in. Just an awful way to find our your mom is dead and they are interrogating you about it while you are still trying to wrap you head around what is going on. I hope there was family in the area or a very close neighbor/adult that could be with him until the dad arrived. And--I hope the informed of the Miranda rights which he might not have known to use--and it's hard for kids to assert that in the face of such authority and intimidation.