Same. I replied to the original question but rethinking it now, I would send an anonymous email. BUT in that email, I’d let her know that I’m a friend of hers and would reveal myself only if she wanted to talk about it. I would also let them know that it would be okay if they didn’t, and I would reassure them that I hadn’t told anyone else of my suspicions. I also think it would depend on how many people knew. If many people were talking about it, I would tell them. If I saw the husband with OW at some obscure place (which has happened to people I know) I would give it a lot of thought before doing anything. |