My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??
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Anonymous
| I know for certain. And I’m 99 percent certain she does not know. It’s really eating at me, she is a very close friend. |
Anonymous
| Only if you have solid, undeniable proof (photos or something). Don't go to her with idiotic assumptions or idle gossip. |
Anonymous
| Yes, I would tell her. Same as I would bring it up if knew for sure that the man is mistreating her or has a harmful influence |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Yes. |
Anonymous
| I would not tell. He will deny, she might go hard core denial, and both of them despise you. |
Anonymous
| So, only tell if you're willing to lose the friendship |
Anonymous
This is possible, OP. I know someone who knows about their DH cheating, and looks the other way. If anyone asked her about it (or some of his many other antisocial behaviors and anger issues) she would play stupid. There might be no winning, depending on the morals of both the the DH and the wife. |
Anonymous
Yup. She may know and not care. She may not want to know. You could throw some suspicion at him and let her do with it what she will. |
Anonymous
| It’s the right thing to do to give her the information. It’s also possible she will end the friendship over it. I’m sorry. There’s no great answers. |
Anonymous
| Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker? |
Anonymous
| You could tell her anonymously with a burner email, possibly, if you’re worried about her friendship |
Anonymous
| Anonymous note in mail |
Anonymous
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How do you know for certain? What is your proof?
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Anonymous
OP, do not go to the husband. He will destroy all communications, photos, etc that he has with the AP and go dark. He'll also probably start a campaign against you with his wife. |