My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous note in mail

+1 with photographic evidence if you can

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous note in mail

+1 with photographic evidence if you can

+1

Agree - go anon, OP.

She might not take it well (and might be the type to tell others to divorce over much lesser offenses!)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Only if you have solid, undeniable proof (photos or something). Don't go to her with idiotic assumptions or idle gossip.

I agree. Also, if you do this in-person, stay very neutral and non-judgmental. Often people decide to stay together after an affair.

[Anonymous]

I vote for anonymous note in the mail, cut letters out of magazines for the text. Make the envelope look benign in case her husband brings in the mail.

[Anonymous]

What proof do you have, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?

Easily the dumbest advice in the whole post.

P.S. The only one doing any 'homewrecking' is the husband, allegedly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?

Easily the dumbest advice in the whole post.

P.S. The only one doing any 'homewrecking' is the husband, allegedly.

+1.

If her DH is not your friend, don't waste your breathe on him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is her husband a stranger to you or something? Why don’t you ask him what’s going on before you become a homewrecker?

OP, do not go to the husband. He will destroy all communications, photos, etc that he has with the AP and go dark. He'll also probably start a campaign against you with his wife.

This!

[Anonymous]

She needs to know for health reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I vote for anonymous note in the mail, cut letters out of magazines for the text. Make the envelope look benign in case her husband brings in the mail.

My DH opens mail for me. Don't do that. Just let it go.

[Anonymous]

+1 to burner email or anon note in mail (tho prefer the former - so easy) but you need proof

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would not tell. He will deny, she might go hard core denial, and both of them despise you.

+1,000,000. It must be hard to have this info but you will lose the friendship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I vote for anonymous note in the mail, cut letters out of magazines for the text. Make the envelope look benign in case her husband brings in the mail.

Omg no op is not writing a ransom note!

[Anonymous]

Absolutely tell. She may choose to stay, but at least she will be choosing with ALL the information.

[Anonymous]

Send her an anonymous email. Don’t approach him could be violent