Twin play date, one twin left out…

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:DCUM classic.

+ 1 billion, this thread is something else.

I'm a twin mom too but didn't chime before. This thread sure has brought out all the crazies.

OP and the host mom up post, glad it worked out for you both.

We have been separating our twins g/g since pre-k. It was hard when one twin got a birthday invite and another did not. What we did was do something special with non invited twin - like a train ride, a play ground etc. At first there was crying but they understood it. What still does not work for us is play dates of 3. One twin always feels left out. We don't do play dates of 4 out of caution that the invited girls will be playing together and leaving both our girls out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here, I didn't realize this thread got crazy after the first page lol. So here is the update:

After I posted here I re-read the mom message and realized that she had suggested I could join them as an option. So I offered to join them with the other twin so we can all get to know each other before I sent DD alone next time and it was well received.

Now everyone can calm down or call me names? DCUrbanmoms never disappoint lol

OP - I just stumbled across this thread. I'm 99.99% sure I AM THE OTHER MOM hosting the playdate and am genuinely happy to meet you and both twins tomorrow. For all the other posters, my daughter is new to the elementary school and eager to make more friends and connections. I understand adding a twin in all situations may not work, but it did in this invite! Hope this is a happy ending for 1 DCUM thread.

OP here, OMG this is so embarrassing. I actually gave up on this thread but my curiosity got the best of me lol. Thank you for this. I had a feeling you were cool with this (one time) situation and I am glad I was right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here, I didn't realize this thread got crazy after the first page lol. So here is the update:

After I posted here I re-read the mom message and realized that she had suggested I could join them as an option. So I offered to join them with the other twin so we can all get to know each other before I sent DD alone next time and it was well received.

Now everyone can calm down or call me names? DCUrbanmoms never disappoint lol

OP - I just stumbled across this thread. I'm 99.99% sure I AM THE OTHER MOM hosting the playdate and am genuinely happy to meet you and both twins tomorrow. For all the other posters, my daughter is new to the elementary school and eager to make more friends and connections. I understand adding a twin in all situations may not work, but it did in this invite! Hope this is a happy ending for 1 DCUM thread.

OP, now you and the host mom have something to talk and laugh about at the play date - how crazy people on DCUM are

OP here, OMG this is so embarrassing. I actually gave up on this thread but my curiosity got the best of me lol. Thank you for this. I had a feeling you were cool with this (one time) situation and I am glad I was right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here, I didn't realize this thread got crazy after the first page lol. So here is the update:

After I posted here I re-read the mom message and realized that she had suggested I could join them as an option. So I offered to join them with the other twin so we can all get to know each other before I sent DD alone next time and it was well received.

Now everyone can calm down or call me names? DCUrbanmoms never disappoint lol

Wow OP, you are DENSE. The other mom suggested that YOU could join them. Not YOU AND YOUR SON. Be prepared for no more play dates offers. And I have twins!

You are the dense one because you can’t even imagine there are decent people out there. If no more date so be it, no big deal , DD will make other friends regardless. We are not that desperate for play dates, this is the greatest advantage about having twins, we don’t agonize about missing play dates as they have each other !

I'm PP. I have twins. And no, I'm not dense, but I can read a room. I wish we could ask the other mom to come on here and post her opinion of how things went down...

hmmm Apparently the other mom found this thread and posted her opinion, I wonder what you have to say now "twins mom who can read a room"? Anyway I am glad OP and the other mother made it work. This is a perfect example of DCUM bubble.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here, I didn't realize this thread got crazy after the first page lol. So here is the update:

After I posted here I re-read the mom message and realized that she had suggested I could join them as an option. So I offered to join them with the other twin so we can all get to know each other before I sent DD alone next time and it was well received.

Now everyone can calm down or call me names? DCUrbanmoms never disappoint lol

OP - I just stumbled across this thread. I'm 99.99% sure I AM THE OTHER MOM hosting the playdate and am genuinely happy to meet you and both twins tomorrow. For all the other posters, my daughter is new to the elementary school and eager to make more friends and connections. I understand adding a twin in all situations may not work, but it did in this invite! Hope this is a happy ending for 1 DCUM thread.

OP, now you and the host mom have something to talk and laugh about at the play date - how crazy people on DCUM are

OP here, OMG this is so embarrassing. I actually gave up on this thread but my curiosity got the best of me lol. Thank you for this. I had a feeling you were cool with this (one time) situation and I am glad I was right.

+1 to the bolded part, maybe they can post an update after the playdate lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here, I didn't realize this thread got crazy after the first page lol. So here is the update:

After I posted here I re-read the mom message and realized that she had suggested I could join them as an option. So I offered to join them with the other twin so we can all get to know each other before I sent DD alone next time and it was well received.

Now everyone can calm down or call me names? DCUrbanmoms never disappoint lol

Wow OP, you are DENSE. The other mom suggested that YOU could join them. Not YOU AND YOUR SON. Be prepared for no more play dates offers. And I have twins!

You are the dense one because you can’t even imagine there are decent people out there. If no more date so be it, no big deal , DD will make other friends regardless. We are not that desperate for play dates, this is the greatest advantage about having twins, we don’t agonize about missing play dates as they have each other !

I'm PP. I have twins. And no, I'm not dense, but I can read a room. I wish we could ask the other mom to come on here and post her opinion of how things went down...

hmmm Apparently the other mom found this thread and posted her opinion, I wonder what you have to say now "twins mom who can read a room"? Anyway I am glad OP and the other mother made it work. This is a perfect example of DCUM bubble.

How very convenient that the other mom miraculously found this thread and posted RIGHT AFTER someone asked for her opinion on this matter! In other news, I have a bridge to sell you...