Teen 14 old wakes up at 1-2 pm?

[Anonymous]

I don't care how late my teens sleep as long as it's not because they are staying up on devices super late. We just ask that devices are off by 11. They are usually up by 11 or noon.

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Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

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Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.

No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy

Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.

Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.

Why not?

[Anonymous]

I let my kids sleep in if they’re on break but for some reason I can’t let them go past 11:30. I will (nicely) say… um, it’s 11 or 11:30 and then they get up before noon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wake my kids up if there is something we are doing as a family or if they have some event. But if there is nothing going on, I let them sleep.

That is common sense. So logical it escapes the control freaks who cant stand to see someone living their life their own way.

[Anonymous]

On breaks, I don’t care about my kids’ sleep schedules or how late they sleep unless we they need to be somewhere earlier in the AM. That said, I ask for reasonable level of quiet after 10PM especially on weeknights- DH and I often need to be up early.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

+1

Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.

No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy

Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.

Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.

Why not?

If you think it's OK for a 14 YO to be up and on electronics all night, even during their short 2-week Christmas break, I seriously hope you're not a parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:On breaks, I don’t care about my kids’ sleep schedules or how late they sleep unless we they need to be somewhere earlier in the AM. That said, I ask for reasonable level of quiet after 10PM especially on weeknights- DH and I often need to be up early.

Same. Also, the phone situation is different for a 13/14 yr old than a 16/17 yr old. I stopped requiring the phone to be off when my kid was 15 or so. The rule was that if he was ever late to leave for school at 6:40, I'd have to change the phone rules. It only happened once.

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Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

+1

Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.

No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy

Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.

Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.

DP and this describes my 15 yo. I don’t see anything wrong with it. But I frequently stayed up all night watching tv or on the phone and slept during the day if we didn’t have plans. My parents never woke me up just because and certainly didn’t enforce a teen bed time tv off time.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

+1

Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.

No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy

Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.

Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.

DP and this describes my 15 yo. I don’t see anything wrong with it. But I frequently stayed up all night watching tv or on the phone and slept during the day if we didn’t have plans. My parents never woke me up just because and certainly didn’t enforce a teen bed time tv off time.

Same. My 15yo does this sometimes. Fine with me.

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Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

+1

Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.

No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy

Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.

Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.

Why not?

If you think it's OK for a 14 YO to be up and on electronics all night, even during their short 2-week Christmas break, I seriously hope you're not a parent.

But you didn’t answer PP’s question: why not? If they don’t have a schedule and are getting enough sleep what is the problem.

[Anonymous]

Let mine sleep. They are exhausted normally.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

+1

Same sleep is good. Just let the kid be.

No one needs 10+ hrs of sleep. Lazy

Teens in the midst of a growth spurt do. Teen boy goes through phases where he eats a ton and sleeps until noon during vacation and then seems to have grown over the course of a couple days because his isn’t a seem to be once again too short.

Agree. But they don’t need to be gaming or FaceTiming until 3 or 4 am and then sleeping all morning. Especially not a 14 YO.

Be a parent OP.

Why not?

If you think it's OK for a 14 YO to be up and on electronics all night, even during their short 2-week Christmas break, I seriously hope you're not a parent.

Poster with the 15 yo and do you ever let them go to sleepovers? Do you care if they stay up all night then? What’s the difference if they stay up all night when they are together or when they are virtually together if it’s on vacation?

[Anonymous]

Pretty typical. Try to get them to sleep earlier. At most I’d allow it a few days but not every day - usually mine will make plans to do something on the earlier side some days and once she gets up earlier it’ll self correct some bc she will be tired on little sleep and go to bed earlier

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Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

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This. I’ll never understand people like some of the prior posters who need to control the household’s wake up times just because.

I don't control when they go to sleep or when they wake up. I just don't allow them unlimited access to electronics all night long, so their sleep patterns are pretty normal. I actually like spending time with my kids, so if they sleep all morning and part of the afternoon, that really eats into that. Some of you seem relieved not to have to interact with them!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD.

+1

This. I’ll never understand people like some of the prior posters who need to control the household’s wake up times just because.

I don't control when they go to sleep or when they wake up. I just don't allow them unlimited access to electronics all night long, so their sleep patterns are pretty normal. I actually like spending time with my kids, so if they sleep all morning and part of the afternoon, that really eats into that. Some of you seem relieved not to have to interact with them!

No one on this thread implied anything of the sort. You have issues.