| I know teens need sleep. How do parents manage their schedule during holidays when teens wake up at 1-2 pm? |
| Are they staying up until 3 am on their phones or computers? I’d start there. |
This. My teens go to sleep around 11pm/midnight and wake up no later than 10am. They don't have electronics in their bedrooms. |
| I wake up my teens (junior and senior in HS) at 9:30am. That is plenty of sleeping in (IMO). |
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Mine goes to sleep at 9:30 on weekdays and gets up at 6:30.
On weekends he is up until 10:30 or so and still sleeps until 11-12. I think it’s just not enough sleep during the week. No electronic devices in his room. |
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I don't manage my 14yo's schedule just for the sake of managing it during breaks like this. If he wants to game until 3 and sleep until 1 then whatever.
He has basketball practice starting this week though so he will have to think twice about that schedule. |
| Phone confiscated at 10pm |
| WiFi shuts off to their devices at 10, phone stays in kitchen for the night. They are always up at 9 at the lastest. I’d wake them up by 10 if they weren’t. Sleeping past 10 is just plan slothful. |
| I don’t care if my 15 yo is up until 2am or later and sleeps half of the day if he doesn’t need to be anywhere. He is still sleeping. I don’t need to get him up just for the sake of getting up. Didn’t any of you stay up half the night watching MTV? I did and slept well past noon on vacations. |
| It's the holidays. As long as they get back on schedule before school starts. NBD. |
Why do they need to be up at 9:30? Your senior will be away at college in a few months and can sleep as late as they please on the weekends. |
Same. Mine are 15 and 13. That said, if we need to be somewhere they are of course expected to get up when asked, and they do. |
| Let them sleep. It promotes growth. |
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This is essentially where I am. All last week, DD was up until 1:30 or 2:00. Starting yesterday, she went to bed at midnight. It'll slide towards going to bed by 10:00, by next Monday. That's all I really care about. |