Feminism, femininity, and marriage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's pretty simple, women. Either abandon feminism or abandon all hope of being wives and mothers. Because men will not abide feminism and you cannot force us to accept it.

My husband seems to dig it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

I know. Leadership is stupid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

Oh, but don't you see? Poor little non-feminist women don't know what's good for them? The hardcore feminists are, ironically, asserting their dominance over the non-feminist women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Head of household" PP. Can you give an example of a big decision where your husband's preference trumps your preference?

Sorry if this has been asked in the last 2 pages of sniping, which I did not read because the first 14 pages were pretty exhausting.

I've got work to do. I'm no longer wasting my time on people unable comprehend beyond their own ridged bias and ignorance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

There is zero wrong with asking a question. Nobody has explained it yet, as far as I know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

I know. Leadership is stupid.

Team work always provides superior results.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What feminists say: "Feminism is for everyone!"

What feminists mean: "Feminism is for everyone (with a college/advanced degree, who doesn't conform to traditional gender roles, except for people who disagree with what I think feminism and feminists should look like.)"

And I'm a feminist. Gag.

I repeat.

And rinse.

Such sad bitter women. Probably on here complaining day in and day out about their cuckold husbands.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Head of household" PP. Can you give an example of a big decision where your husband's preference trumps your preference?

Sorry if this has been asked in the last 2 pages of sniping, which I did not read because the first 14 pages were pretty exhausting.

I've got work to do. I'm no longer wasting my time on people unable comprehend beyond their own ridged bias and ignorance.

I was actually curious. It wasn't a loaded question and I'm not the PP who is attacking you. I can think of a number of really big family decisions where there would be no way I could accept someone else's decision if I completely disagreed. My list of dealbreakers is pretty tiny, but because this isn't the way it works in my family, it's pretty much hypothetical. I was hoping that someone for whom it's NOT hypothetical could weigh in about their actual experience.

If it's something like "I preferred school X for Larla while DH preferred school Y and because he's the decider, Larla goes to school Y" that's one thing. There is a thread on Expectant Moms right now where a woman is unexpectedly pregnant after infertility and wants to keep the baby, while her husband wants her to get an abortion. I am curious as to how the "head of household" PP(s) would resolve such a dilemma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

There is zero wrong with asking a question. Nobody has explained it yet, as far as I know.

Look again and read without your overly emotional filter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

There is zero wrong with asking a question. Nobody has explained it yet, as far as I know.

Look again and read without your overly emotional filter.

Lol. Yes, I'm so emotional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Head of household" PP. Can you give an example of a big decision where your husband's preference trumps your preference?

Sorry if this has been asked in the last 2 pages of sniping, which I did not read because the first 14 pages were pretty exhausting.

I've got work to do. I'm no longer wasting my time on people unable comprehend beyond their own ridged bias and ignorance.

I was actually curious. It wasn't a loaded question and I'm not the PP who is attacking you. I can think of a number of really big family decisions where there would be no way I could accept someone else's decision if I completely disagreed. My list of dealbreakers is pretty tiny, but because this isn't the way it works in my family, it's pretty much hypothetical. I was hoping that someone for whom it's NOT hypothetical could weigh in about their actual experience.

If it's something like "I preferred school X for Larla while DH preferred school Y and because he's the decider, Larla goes to school Y" that's one thing. There is a thread on Expectant Moms right now where a woman is unexpectedly pregnant after infertility and wants to keep the baby, while her husband wants her to get an abortion. I am curious as to how the "head of household" PP(s) would resolve such a dilemma.

I was curious too. But people seem too bitter to answer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

Private decision, but can you explain it coherently?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think people just question why owning a penis makes one the default leader in anything.

I also question why there has to be a family leader in the first place.

Instead of concerning yourself with the private decisions of other women, maybe take the proper feminist view that all women should be supported for choosing what is best for THEM.

Oh, but don't you see? Poor little non-feminist women don't know what's good for them? The hardcore feminists are, ironically, asserting their dominance over the non-feminist women.

We're seeking an explanation, not dominance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Head of household" PP. Can you give an example of a big decision where your husband's preference trumps your preference?

Sorry if this has been asked in the last 2 pages of sniping, which I did not read because the first 14 pages were pretty exhausting.

I've got work to do. I'm no longer wasting my time on people unable comprehend beyond their own ridged bias and ignorance.

No, she can't because we'll ridicule her for ceding authority to the penis member of the household.