What American "cultural" things you don't do or allow your kids to do.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:TLDR but got the gist from skimming --

Here are the American things I don't do or allow my kids to do (deleted the "cultural" because WTF) --

- Abandoning democracy
- Racism
- Misogyny
- Homophobia
- Blaming others for your own failings
- Not valuing those doing jobs you don't want to do
- Abandoning courtesy
- Abandoning graciousness
- Abandoning the actual words of the Bible
- Abandoning the Constitution
- Believe everything you hear without research
- Follow a cult

Just a few for example...

Please expand on how these are “American” things.

Um, I'm not sure we have the bandwidth on this forum to host the media, court decision docs, federal agency RIFs, X and Truth Social posts, etc. to explain how these are our current American things. But if there is a need for me to produce videos, news articles, publicly accessible federal court and Supreme Court decisions, etc., I am happy to do so. In the meantime, your local news, Google, Instagram, colleagues, and friends can also provide context.

Please take your garbage to the political forum. That’s what it’s for, not here. Also, please move out of the US since you hate it so much.

Well, thank you for proving my point - did not realize that being pro-choice, pro-women, pro-sexual freedom, pro-immigrant, pro-democracy was garbage. This is American. Not political. I'm a proud member of Daughters of the American Revolution and Colonial Dames and my husband is a member of the Mayflower Society. Our roots are very, very deep, so nope, I'm here to fight for my country. You can save your "go home/why don't you leave BS".

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why out of all things, the preventing dating/sex thing is the biggest problem. Who wants their teen kids having sex? Most UMC white parents do not. So why judge immigrants for not letting their kids date?

It’s mostly weird that these judgy immigrants ITT think teen dating is somehow exclusively an American behavior. Ignorant and frankly weird.

Especially when they come from a place with teen brides.

Mormons anyone? Plenty of child brides down south too.

We’re talking about teen dating and child brides NOT being EXCLUSIVE to America, dear. And child brides are certainly not a commonly accepted part of American culture.

Try to keep up.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why out of all things, the preventing dating/sex thing is the biggest problem. Who wants their teen kids having sex? Most UMC white parents do not. So why judge immigrants for not letting their kids date?

It’s mostly weird that these judgy immigrants ITT think teen dating is somehow exclusively an American behavior. Ignorant and frankly weird.

Especially when they come from a place with teen brides.

Mormons anyone? Plenty of child brides down south too.

We’re talking about teen dating and child brides NOT being EXCLUSIVE to America, dear. And child brides are certainly not a commonly accepted part of American culture.

Try to keep up.

American who try to claim moral superiority deserve to be roasted hard and often.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why out of all things, the preventing dating/sex thing is the biggest problem. Who wants their teen kids having sex? Most UMC white parents do not. So why judge immigrants for not letting their kids date?

It’s mostly weird that these judgy immigrants ITT think teen dating is somehow exclusively an American behavior. Ignorant and frankly weird.

Especially when they come from a place with teen brides.

Mormons anyone? Plenty of child brides down south too.

We’re talking about teen dating and child brides NOT being EXCLUSIVE to America, dear. And child brides are certainly not a commonly accepted part of American culture.

Try to keep up.

American who try to claim moral superiority deserve to be roasted hard and often.

Literally the person who started this thread did so to say all the things she hates about the US. But ok.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why out of all things, the preventing dating/sex thing is the biggest problem. Who wants their teen kids having sex? Most UMC white parents do not. So why judge immigrants for not letting their kids date?

It’s mostly weird that these judgy immigrants ITT think teen dating is somehow exclusively an American behavior. Ignorant and frankly weird.

Especially when they come from a place with teen brides.

Mormons anyone? Plenty of child brides down south too.

We’re talking about teen dating and child brides NOT being EXCLUSIVE to America, dear. And child brides are certainly not a commonly accepted part of American culture.

Try to keep up.

American who try to claim moral superiority deserve to be roasted hard and often.

Literally the person who started this thread did so to say all the things she hates about the US. But ok.

Where is the proof that person in not American?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why out of all things, the preventing dating/sex thing is the biggest problem. Who wants their teen kids having sex? Most UMC white parents do not. So why judge immigrants for not letting their kids date?

It’s mostly weird that these judgy immigrants ITT think teen dating is somehow exclusively an American behavior. Ignorant and frankly weird.

Especially when they come from a place with teen brides.

Mormons anyone? Plenty of child brides down south too.

We’re talking about teen dating and child brides NOT being EXCLUSIVE to America, dear. And child brides are certainly not a commonly accepted part of American culture.

Try to keep up.

American who try to claim moral superiority deserve to be roasted hard and often.

Did your American kids teach you to talk like that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why out of all things, the preventing dating/sex thing is the biggest problem. Who wants their teen kids having sex? Most UMC white parents do not. So why judge immigrants for not letting their kids date?

It’s mostly weird that these judgy immigrants ITT think teen dating is somehow exclusively an American behavior. Ignorant and frankly weird.

Especially when they come from a place with teen brides.

Mormons anyone? Plenty of child brides down south too.

We’re talking about teen dating and child brides NOT being EXCLUSIVE to America, dear. And child brides are certainly not a commonly accepted part of American culture.

Try to keep up.

American who try to claim moral superiority deserve to be roasted hard and often.

Literally the person who started this thread did so to say all the things she hates about the US. But ok.

Where is the proof that person in not American?

Well clearly they would rather die than be considered American. Otherwise, what are they complaining about? They are what they hate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:TLDR but got the gist from skimming --

Here are the American things I don't do or allow my kids to do (deleted the "cultural" because WTF) --

- Abandoning democracy
- Racism
- Misogyny
- Homophobia
- Blaming others for your own failings
- Not valuing those doing jobs you don't want to do
- Abandoning courtesy
- Abandoning graciousness
- Abandoning the actual words of the Bible
- Abandoning the Constitution
- Believe everything you hear without research
- Follow a cult

Just a few for example...

Please expand on how these are “American” things.

Um, I'm not sure we have the bandwidth on this forum to host the media, court decision docs, federal agency RIFs, X and Truth Social posts, etc. to explain how these are our current American things. But if there is a need for me to produce videos, news articles, publicly accessible federal court and Supreme Court decisions, etc., I am happy to do so. In the meantime, your local news, Google, Instagram, colleagues, and friends can also provide context.

Please take your garbage to the political forum. That’s what it’s for, not here. Also, please move out of the US since you hate it so much.

Well, thank you for proving my point - did not realize that being pro-choice, pro-women, pro-sexual freedom, pro-immigrant, pro-democracy was garbage. This is American. Not political. I'm a proud member of Daughters of the American Revolution and Colonial Dames and my husband is a member of the Mayflower Society. Our roots are very, very deep, so nope, I'm here to fight for my country. You can save your "go home/why don't you leave BS".

So your ancestors started slavery.

[Anonymous]

If you don’t like our culture - you are free to leave. I don’t go to your culture and complain about it; it’s culturally insensitive

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:TLDR but got the gist from skimming --

Here are the American things I don't do or allow my kids to do (deleted the "cultural" because WTF) --

- Abandoning democracy
- Racism
- Misogyny
- Homophobia
- Blaming others for your own failings
- Not valuing those doing jobs you don't want to do
- Abandoning courtesy
- Abandoning graciousness
- Abandoning the actual words of the Bible
- Abandoning the Constitution
- Believe everything you hear without research
- Follow a cult

Just a few for example...

Please expand on how these are “American” things.

Um, I'm not sure we have the bandwidth on this forum to host the media, court decision docs, federal agency RIFs, X and Truth Social posts, etc. to explain how these are our current American things. But if there is a need for me to produce videos, news articles, publicly accessible federal court and Supreme Court decisions, etc., I am happy to do so. In the meantime, your local news, Google, Instagram, colleagues, and friends can also provide context.

Please take your garbage to the political forum. That’s what it’s for, not here. Also, please move out of the US since you hate it so much.

Well, thank you for proving my point - did not realize that being pro-choice, pro-women, pro-sexual freedom, pro-immigrant, pro-democracy was garbage. This is American. Not political. I'm a proud member of Daughters of the American Revolution and Colonial Dames and my husband is a member of the Mayflower Society. Our roots are very, very deep, so nope, I'm here to fight for my country. You can save your "go home/why don't you leave BS".

So your ancestors started slavery.

Started slavery? Slavery is much older than America. Where were you educated?

[Anonymous]

For the person who said they'd not want their kids to date in high school, my kid goes to a school where most of the students are Indian or Asian and they mostly do it behind their parents backs because they arent supposed to date in school. Its not possible to raise your kids in an insular way and expect them to adhere to your beliefs alone if they attend regular American schools be it public or private or live within the general American populace. There are religious folks who send their kids to religious schools and live within their communities who manage to enforce their beliefs and rules but really, how practical or feasible is that in the long term if immigrants dont assimilate. Whats the point of moving to a different country and culture and refusing to even consider assimilating. Not saying that you take on all the bad along with the good but shutting out your family from the outside world doesnt work

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not American, but I don’t see the issue with carpooling. What’s wrong with that? We don’t do sleepovers due to a fear of SA, and we wouldn’t allow dating, because we don’t believe in intimacy before marriage, but what is wrong with carpooling?

Distracted and terrible driving, poorly maintained car, negligence to check if kids were wearing seatbelts, allowing rudeness, inappropriate behavior and trash talking in the car - we saw this behavior when I was also in the car of one parent who gave us a lift one time. So, that was my one exposure and then DH and I decided that we would not let our kids do carpool with someone else. I am perfectly fine driving other people's kids around if I am asked. I will happily do the carpooling, wait for them for pickup and drop off, let them wait for their parents at my house, provide meals and free childcare etc at my house, host events at my own house...all of this so that I can let my kids have fun and have friends...but I do not trust others with my children.

But other parents need to trust you. OK, got it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, I’m wondering if other “non americans” have been to other countries besides their original one and here. I’m asking because some of these comments are outright ridiculous and in no way “American”.

And coming to the US was a choice you made. I don’t like things about the US either like the healthcare system and how the working poor get little to no help. But I would still choose here rather than many other places. That being said I can’t imagine making a choice to move to another country and raise my kids there just to shit on things and call the people who are from there “dangerous” and not “people I want my kids to spend time with”. You know you can leave right?

Let me break it down for you. They are here to make money and ensure that their children get a good education and into high paying careers. They are not going to "leave" no matter how much they disapprove of American culture.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So, I’m wondering if other “non americans” have been to other countries besides their original one and here. I’m asking because some of these comments are outright ridiculous and in no way “American”.

And coming to the US was a choice you made. I don’t like things about the US either like the healthcare system and how the working poor get little to no help. But I would still choose here rather than many other places. That being said I can’t imagine making a choice to move to another country and raise my kids there just to shit on things and call the people who are from there “dangerous” and not “people I want my kids to spend time with”. You know you can leave right?

Let me break it down for you. They are here to make money and ensure that their children get a good education and into high paying careers. They are not going to "leave" no matter how much they disapprove of American culture.

They live here now. They are Americans. It's just how it works.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m not American, but I don’t see the issue with carpooling. What’s wrong with that? We don’t do sleepovers due to a fear of SA, and we wouldn’t allow dating, because we don’t believe in intimacy before marriage, but what is wrong with carpooling?

Distracted and terrible driving, poorly maintained car, negligence to check if kids were wearing seatbelts, allowing rudeness, inappropriate behavior and trash talking in the car - we saw this behavior when I was also in the car of one parent who gave us a lift one time. So, that was my one exposure and then DH and I decided that we would not let our kids do carpool with someone else. I am perfectly fine driving other people's kids around if I am asked. I will happily do the carpooling, wait for them for pickup and drop off, let them wait for their parents at my house, provide meals and free childcare etc at my house, host events at my own house...all of this so that I can let my kids have fun and have friends...but I do not trust others with my children.

But other parents need to trust you. OK, got it

Exactly. I’m sorry but why do you somehow assume you are the only one capable of being a responsible parent? Get over yourself.