Define accomplishments. Making more money when you're already filthy rich or getting a little more famous (dubious) is hardly an accomplishment anyone cares about in 20 or 50 or 100 years. Especially if you lack heirs to carry on your family tree. She's just a modern pop star, not Beethoven or the Beatles. And isn't her mum sick? I'm sure her mum would like to meet a grandchild before she passes. Stevie Nicks is on record regretting waiting too long to try and have kids, is she not? Is that what Taylor wants? To be a lonely rich kooky washed up pop star with no heirs? Doesn't sound so "accomplished" when you put it that way, does it. |
DP, but that’s exactly what we’re wondering. Has she made poor decisions, or does she not care about marriage or kids? There are plenty of attractive and successful thirty something women who never got married for various reasons. Some portion are by choice, and some portion of those are unmarried because they dated the wrong guys, stayed in dead end relationships for too long, or have issues that prevent them from attaining some personal goals they may have. Just because Taylor swift massively successful, it doesn’t mean her personal life may not be a mess. That’s what these worshippers of hers have wrong. She is a super successful person, but still a person who can have flaws. |
Because they don't want a baby??? Why is that so hard to understand? |
And by the way, this falls under “dating the eating guys” category, but a lot of single people - even more so for successful and attractive ones- think they deserve the best of the best. Someone equally successful, supportive of their career, smart, funny, available, kind, loyal, passionate, family oriented, never married, around their age, etc. it’s certainly possible that taylor fell into this self sabatoging trap of chasing the fantasy. That’s what people are wondering. Because the fact of the matter is, if you want kids with a spouse, being single at 34 is not ideal. |
hmmm the young woman who brilliant wrested back control over her intellectual property despite the obstacles surely seems like she has little sense of self or ability to achieve goals. you’re right, she just stupidly forgot to have a baby in her 20s! meanwhile I guess you think Britney Spears made great reproductive choices? |
Yes, Taylor is done now, nobody will ever date her, and she has no ability to have a baby on her own. |
No, it does, you just sound insane. |
No, but what’s your point? Britney has documented mental health struggles, so that feels like a cheap shot. Countless stable people in the entertainment industry have gotten married/partnered up and had children at reasonable ages. Here are some of the more intelligent or successful ones: Reese Witherspoon, Anne Hathaway, gwyneth Paltrow, Kate winslet, Adele, Kristen bell, Victoria Beckham, Madonna, Meryl Streep, Julia Louis Dreyfus, Lisa Kudrow, Courtney Cox, Katherine Heigl, Leslie Mann, beyonce. Just some dozens off the top of my head. Almost none of them stay married regardless of how old they were when they married or had babies- so if you’re implying that taylor is waiting for the perfect person to have kids with, the odds are going to be stacked against her no matter who she ultimately settles down with. I like don’t even know what you’re defending at this point. Very few people here are calling her a failure for not being married or having kids. But she doesn’t talk about her personal life, so we don’t know if she wants those things. You seem to be offended by the suggestion that someone as rich or famous as Taylor swift isn’t immune to wanting typical things in a more typical window. Quite frankly it sounds like you’re taking this personally. |
So your theory is that Taylor Swift is an evil B getting her comeuppance because she didn’t settle down and instead dated multiple men, and now she’s old and dried up, and deserves all the agony and regret she is no doubt experiencing (while on her record-breaking and acclaimed world tour)? She wasted her fertility like so many stupid women do by chasing Chads and now she deserves what she gets. |
No, but my point exactly is that you’re pushing this narrative and no one else is. Who said anything about her being a b or getting comeuppance? Seriously, go take a walk and calm down. |
You think Reese Witherspoon, Madonna, and Gwyneth Paltrow are stable? Lol With those three, we have drunken yelling at cops, an eating disorder and teaching others not to eat, and immaturity. Julia Dreyfus and Meryl Streep do seem stable and normal. |
lol you are the one pushing the narrative that it is TOTALLY INEXPLICABLE why Taylor Swift doesn’t have a baby and how she couldn’t possibly be on birth control |
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Those particular posts weren’t me. There is a spectrum of crazy here, that person is on one side and you are on the other. In the middle you have people wishing her the best and hoping that, if she does want a a long term relationship and kids, she gets it because realistically, most people don’t plan to start those things in their late thirties or forties. |
omfg. STOP. She is in her early 30s, rich as midas, gorgeous, and oh yeah, a superstar. where in the world do you get the picture she’s crying at her spinsterhood? she will always have a boyfriend (or husband) and can have a baby whenever/however she wants. |