Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn have broken up

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Anonymous wrote:How is a late 20s early 30s woman with a man for that many years and doesn’t get pregnant? Very weird.

weird? she clearly has not wanted to have a baby. it’s called birth control.

I wouldn’t be so sure she’s on birth control. It’s not that safe, it impacts weight and mood. And either way, it’s not 100%. What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

Somehow I managed to not get pregnant from 26-33 while spending a lot of time in bed. It's not difficult. You sound dim.

Weird flex...but okay.

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What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

It's not rocket science to not get pregnant.

Most couples their age for that duration do conceive. To not get pregnant over six or seven years in a monogamous relationship in your mid 20s, late 20s, early 30s is highly abnormal.

Even if you’re on birth control??

Taylor’s rail thin body is hyper-analyzed. Hard to believe she’s been on birth control for 15 years.

This thread is getting more wacky by the second. Do you think because she’s not fat she can’t possibly be on birth control? 😂😂

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Insiders say she requires all of her boyfriends to get vasectomies.

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This thread needs to end. Obsessing about her fertility - pathetic!!!!

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Anonymous wrote:DP. I think it’s natural to wonder if an unmarried, childless couple breaking up after six years in their mid thirties (she’s turning 34) wants to have kids. Sadly this is NBD for a guy like Joe Alwyn, but more complicated for any mid-thirties woman, regardless of whether she’s Taylor swift or not.

We know nothing about why she doesn’t have children- does she not want them, does he not want them, does one not want them yet, was one unable to commit to their relationship, or did they struggle to conceive? What I’m more certain about is that Taylor is very much aware that there is a “typical” window for a woman to have kids, and for whatever reason (by choice or not) she is living her life fully without kids.

And I think the narrative you’re pushing that the most successful woman in show business can’t figure out how to have a child is sexist, deluded and gross. What people want is for Taylor to WANT to have a baby, and they are very disturbed that she does not conform to “all that 1950s shit.” It’s right there in her songs! She has no interest!

Would it be better if she had multiple kids with a gross cheater like Beyonce? Or with multiple baby daddies at 21 like the Kardashians?

Calm down, lady. All I’m saying is that it’s natural to wonder about it because women have more of a biological clock than men do, and she’s not 20. Certainly not judging her one way or the other nor do I care if she gets married or has kids. Simply observing a very public persons life choices. You can stop foaming at the mouth now.

yeah but what are you “wondering” about? how can you not get that she would have a baby if she wanted one? are you confused about how birth control works?

Why do you assume she could have had a baby if she wanted one? Isn’t that equally presumptuous? Maybe she loved her partner and he wasn’t ready. Maybe they had trouble conceiving. Maybe she has issues she’s working through that give her a complex about becoming a mother. There are all sort of reasons women don’t have babies at 33-34. Some of them are by choice (good for them if that makes them happy) and some aren’t (that is a situation that stinks, but they still have time and need to start thinking about it.) It’s not weird to wonder what camp Taylor falls into, and you don’t know any better than anyone else.

I know this: nobody evey asks these sorts of questions about men, and she can have a baby whenever she wants. There’s no tragedy of the barren woman here.

Well, duh! Men can have a baby whenever they please. Alec Baldwin just turned 65 and had his eight child. That’s not sexism, that’s biology. Take it up with evolution, not rando’s on the entertainment forum.

Taylor can also have a baby whenever she wants.

No, she can’t. She’s probably lost 80% of her viable eggs, if not more. Very tough once you hit mid 30s.

DP. I’m sure if she had this as a goal she put some eggs away years ago. I have many many friends who have done so and have a small fraction of her wealth. And even putting that aside if she were to use a donor egg that would still count as a baby! There’s no biological clock when you have that kind of money.

Your friends are suckers. Freezing eggs is a scam. You have to freeze fertilized embryos, see Sofia Vergara and Nick Loeb.

And yet they have already used them to have kids…quite the scam. My friend who is a neurosurgeon and froze them before residency even has three kids from her frozen eggs.

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Anonymous wrote:DP. I think it’s natural to wonder if an unmarried, childless couple breaking up after six years in their mid thirties (she’s turning 34) wants to have kids. Sadly this is NBD for a guy like Joe Alwyn, but more complicated for any mid-thirties woman, regardless of whether she’s Taylor swift or not.

We know nothing about why she doesn’t have children- does she not want them, does he not want them, does one not want them yet, was one unable to commit to their relationship, or did they struggle to conceive? What I’m more certain about is that Taylor is very much aware that there is a “typical” window for a woman to have kids, and for whatever reason (by choice or not) she is living her life fully without kids.

And I think the narrative you’re pushing that the most successful woman in show business can’t figure out how to have a child is sexist, deluded and gross. What people want is for Taylor to WANT to have a baby, and they are very disturbed that she does not conform to “all that 1950s shit.” It’s right there in her songs! She has no interest!

Would it be better if she had multiple kids with a gross cheater like Beyonce? Or with multiple baby daddies at 21 like the Kardashians?

Calm down, lady. All I’m saying is that it’s natural to wonder about it because women have more of a biological clock than men do, and she’s not 20. Certainly not judging her one way or the other nor do I care if she gets married or has kids. Simply observing a very public persons life choices. You can stop foaming at the mouth now.

yeah but what are you “wondering” about? how can you not get that she would have a baby if she wanted one? are you confused about how birth control works?

Why do you assume she could have had a baby if she wanted one? Isn’t that equally presumptuous? Maybe she loved her partner and he wasn’t ready. Maybe they had trouble conceiving. Maybe she has issues she’s working through that give her a complex about becoming a mother. There are all sort of reasons women don’t have babies at 33-34. Some of them are by choice (good for them if that makes them happy) and some aren’t (that is a situation that stinks, but they still have time and need to start thinking about it.) It’s not weird to wonder what camp Taylor falls into, and you don’t know any better than anyone else.

I know this: nobody evey asks these sorts of questions about men, and she can have a baby whenever she wants. There’s no tragedy of the barren woman here.

Well, duh! Men can have a baby whenever they please. Alec Baldwin just turned 65 and had his eight child. That’s not sexism, that’s biology. Take it up with evolution, not rando’s on the entertainment forum.

Taylor can also have a baby whenever she wants.

No, she can’t. She’s probably lost 80% of her viable eggs, if not more. Very tough once you hit mid 30s.

DP. I’m sure if she had this as a goal she put some eggs away years ago. I have many many friends who have done so and have a small fraction of her wealth. And even putting that aside if she were to use a donor egg that would still count as a baby! There’s no biological clock when you have that kind of money.

Your friends are suckers. Freezing eggs is a scam. You have to freeze fertilized embryos, see Sofia Vergara and Nick Loeb.

And yet they have already used them to have kids…quite the scam. My friend who is a neurosurgeon and froze them before residency even has three kids from her frozen eggs.

People are under no obligation to tell you the full and brutal truth about something so personal. And people lie to save face and avoid the side-eyes and judgment. Heck, the fertility doctors and clinics are busted for lying all the time!

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Anonymous wrote:This thread needs to end. Obsessing about her fertility - pathetic!!!!

You didn’t have aunts and grandmas who badgered you about finding a husband in your early 20s? It’s perfectly normal and motivated by elder family who realize how finite fertility is and want to see their family grow and continue for generations. Taylor is 34. It’s natural to wonder why the Southern belle is unmarried and childless at such an advanced age.

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It's bad enough when people in 2023 act like "regular" women can't possibly have anything better to do besides pop out babies, let alone one of the richest, most successful people in the world.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread needs to end. Obsessing about her fertility - pathetic!!!!

You didn’t have aunts and grandmas who badgered you about finding a husband in your early 20s? It’s perfectly normal and motivated by elder family who realize how finite fertility is and want to see their family grow and continue for generations. Taylor is 34. It’s natural to wonder why the Southern belle is unmarried and childless at such an advanced age.

DP - our aunts and grandmas didn't have all the opportunities women have today, either.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread needs to end. Obsessing about her fertility - pathetic!!!!

You didn’t have aunts and grandmas who badgered you about finding a husband in your early 20s? It’s perfectly normal and motivated by elder family who realize how finite fertility is and want to see their family grow and continue for generations. Taylor is 34. It’s natural to wonder why the Southern belle is unmarried and childless at such an advanced age.

Are you actually wondering why? Because it’s not hard to figure out.

Or are you wondering why she doesn’t conform the way you want?

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Anonymous wrote:How is a late 20s early 30s woman with a man for that many years and doesn’t get pregnant? Very weird.

weird? she clearly has not wanted to have a baby. it’s called birth control.

I wouldn’t be so sure she’s on birth control. It’s not that safe, it impacts weight and mood. And either way, it’s not 100%. What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

Somehow I managed to not get pregnant from 26-33 while spending a lot of time in bed. It's not difficult. You sound dim.

Weird flex...but okay.

Can you read? The PP said:

What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

It's not rocket science to not get pregnant.

Most couples their age for that duration do conceive. To not get pregnant over six or seven years in a monogamous relationship in your mid 20s, late 20s, early 30s is highly abnormal.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read on this site. Avoiding pregnancy isn't that difficult.

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Anonymous wrote:How is a late 20s early 30s woman with a man for that many years and doesn’t get pregnant? Very weird.

weird? she clearly has not wanted to have a baby. it’s called birth control.

I wouldn’t be so sure she’s on birth control. It’s not that safe, it impacts weight and mood. And either way, it’s not 100%. What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

Somehow I managed to not get pregnant from 26-33 while spending a lot of time in bed. It's not difficult. You sound dim.

Weird flex...but okay.

Can you read? The PP said:

What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

It's not rocket science to not get pregnant.

Most couples their age for that duration do conceive. To not get pregnant over six or seven years in a monogamous relationship in your mid 20s, late 20s, early 30s is highly abnormal.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read on this site. Avoiding pregnancy isn't that difficult.

Mistakes happen, sometimes deliberately so, when you’re together that long. And frankly, why would two healthy rich adults in such a long relationship avoid pregnancy? Seems like she just wasted six years of her life.

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Anonymous wrote:How is a late 20s early 30s woman with a man for that many years and doesn’t get pregnant? Very weird.

weird? she clearly has not wanted to have a baby. it’s called birth control.

I wouldn’t be so sure she’s on birth control. It’s not that safe, it impacts weight and mood. And either way, it’s not 100%. What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

Somehow I managed to not get pregnant from 26-33 while spending a lot of time in bed. It's not difficult. You sound dim.

Weird flex...but okay.

Can you read? The PP said:

What I was getting at is they weren’t having much sex. That’s a very, very long time to not get pregnant at their ages.

It's not rocket science to not get pregnant.

Most couples their age for that duration do conceive. To not get pregnant over six or seven years in a monogamous relationship in your mid 20s, late 20s, early 30s is highly abnormal.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read on this site. Avoiding pregnancy isn't that difficult.

Mistakes happen, sometimes deliberately so, when you’re together that long. And frankly, why would two healthy rich adults in such a long relationship avoid pregnancy? Seems like she just wasted six years of her life.

So your point is that Taylor Swift, world superstar, is a loser because she doesn’t have a baby. And the only way she wouldn’t be a loser is if she improperly used birth control or had a fake “oops” baby.

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Yeah, Taylor Swift is a total loser - she's accomplished nothing, amounted to nothing, all because she doesn't have a man or a kid.

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Anonymous wrote:This thread needs to end. Obsessing about her fertility - pathetic!!!!

You didn’t have aunts and grandmas who badgered you about finding a husband in your early 20s? It’s perfectly normal and motivated by elder family who realize how finite fertility is and want to see their family grow and continue for generations. Taylor is 34. It’s natural to wonder why the Southern belle is unmarried and childless at such an advanced age.

She isn't a Southern Belle- she grew up on a christmas tree farm in PA!

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LOL, anybody can get married and have kids. It's not that special, and it's not an accomplishment. You think Taylor Swift couldn't find a guy to marry or procreate with if that's what she wanted to do?