When someone contacts you about being excluded from social events

[Anonymous]

I would disengage and stop being friends with this person. It’s obvious she has social problems. Her original request to be kept in the loop was unfair to you, and for her to lash out now is just not ok. It’s not your job to explain social dynamics 101 to a grown adult. I wouldn’t give the speech about “I’ll invite you to groups I host” because at this point I wouldn’t be doing so again moving forward. Too much drama for this stage in our lives.