He runs with her 5-6 days a week.

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Didn't the other lady's husband notice she was jogging 5-6 times a week with someone too?

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Anonymous wrote:Didn't the other lady's husband notice she was jogging 5-6 times a week with someone too?

My thoughts too. My next thought was all that running means they probably have excellent stamina.

[Anonymous]

This is the fakest shit ever.

[Anonymous]

I also think troll. Sometimes I think threads are started by would-be novelists testing out their plot lines and dialog to see if they make sense. This feels a little like that.

Yet I can't seem to look away . . .

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Anonymous wrote:I agree with pp. 09:18 etc is/are trolls. No counselor would suggested going to someone's house at night to have it out.

TROLL post!

Or text the OW husband. It always amazes me the things CUM chooses to believe.

The counselor didn't suggest going to OW's house - a friend did. And the counselor might well have said to text the OW DH. That other betrayed spouse is your best bet for making sure the affair is over. And make no mistake, it was an affair.

Almost EXACTLY what I went through a decade ago. Seriously. These things do unfold like this.

OP, please take good care of yourself.

OP literally said in her post at 11/08/2017 09:18 that her counselor was the one who told her to go to the house.

She first said it was her her friend, then maybe thought counselor sounded juicier for this dumb fake thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I also think troll. Sometimes I think threads are started by would-be novelists testing out their plot lines and dialog to see if they make sense. This feels a little like that.

Yet I can't seem to look away . . .

This. It just sounded too good to be true. The perfect husband, the bored, jealous wife, the mysterious, super fit OW, the complacent OM. It's prime TV soap opera material.

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Anonymous wrote:This is the fakest shit ever.

This.

[Anonymous]

He’s peeling her panties off as soon as they finish running. For some guys, women’s pheromones are a huge turn on. I know when my DW gets home from the gym and her pheromones are kicking in, I love it!

[Anonymous]

I lost my husband this way -- I was too passive in the face of an obvious red flag -- he and a coworker worked out early mornings, several days a week. Now they are married with a kid. Good luck, OP.

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Haven't read all the responses but my reaction is hell to the no. Boundaries, people. A married man shouldn't be getting up to run with another woman 6 days a week - even if it starts innocently enough, it's the beginning of an intimacy that could likely go in the wrong direction - and I'd be salty as hell if some woman were texting my husband and calling him gorgeous. Also, how much texting can one do about running?!

I know I'm old-fashioned but I strongly believe married people should not be bonding with people of the opposite sex. Work wives/husbands, running buddies, my new BFF is Jane's dad because we both like roller derby and ice fishing. Nope. Nope. Nope.

BTW my husband would feel the same if I got up every day to run with some guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is the fakest shit ever.

Yup, and it's not even that entertaining.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Haven't read all the responses but my reaction is hell to the no. Boundaries, people. A married man shouldn't be getting up to run with another woman 6 days a week - even if it starts innocently enough, it's the beginning of an intimacy that could likely go in the wrong direction - and I'd be salty as hell if some woman were texting my husband and calling him gorgeous. Also, how much texting can one do about running?!

I know I'm old-fashioned but I strongly believe married people should not be bonding with people of the opposite sex. Work wives/husbands, running buddies, my new BFF is Jane's dad because we both like roller derby and ice fishing. Nope. Nope. Nope.

BTW my husband would feel the same if I got up every day to run with some guy.

Well then, I guess I’m old fashioned too, because this is not okay with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s peeling her panties off as soon as they finish running. For some guys, women’s pheromones are a huge turn on. I know when my DW gets home from the gym and her pheromones are kicking in, I love it!

Ew. When DH gets home from the gym I think 'get in the shower'. But I guess it is Schweddy Balls season.

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Anonymous wrote:Big red flags. Do not be a doormat and ignore your instinct. This is a big "HELL NO." I agree with PP that she is making a move on your DH. Be proactive. Cut this b*tch out of both of your lives, I would say.

Perspective:

If I were this man and my DW made this demand, I'd divorce her. Even if I had no intention of banging running partner. This possessive shit is bullshit.

But you are not a man, you're a woman, and you're either a doormat or a dumbass. Maybe both.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP HERE for another update. This has taken an interesting turn.

Because of these posts, it started to make me question if there really could have been anything else going on so, last night, I pushed him a bit more. "Are you sure nothing ever happened?" I repeated it again and with more prompting, it came out. Apparently, about a year ago or so, there was a "phase" of time (he says over a year) where after work/happy hours where there was drinking, it would be dark and he would walk her to her car (totally believable since he always walks me and the women in his life to their cars after dark). But that when they said goodbye, apparently the hugs would linger and week after week, (they'd work together 2-3 times a month) the hugs got longer. He says that eventually it got to the point where he had to tell her that they had to stop, it was inappropriate and that his family and wife was the most important thing, etc, etc and they stopped, so he says. I asked if they ever kissed, he says he only kissed her once on the cheek. He said once she said to him, "Can't we just make out?"

So, a bit upset and confused (is this cheating? is this an affair? is this even a big deal?) I left the house to drive around and called a friend that suggested I go to her house and get the story from the other woman. I was fired up so I drove to her house. Her husband answered the door (confused someone would be knocking at 9pm in the rain) and went and got her.

I simply said, "I know what happened between you and my husband. Now I want to hear your side of the story." and emotionless, she went on to tell me the same story as my husband except that they "touched but not genitals" (not sure what that means), and that there was a kiss on the lips but not open mouth. I said, "thank you and there will be no more running" and left (trying not to punch her). Before I got home, an e-mail went from him to her (I was bcc'd) that basically said, "I can no longer run with you as being around you is not honorable to my wife and family, etc" And I think she wrote back something like, "okay, have a nice life."

How should I perceive this "relationship"? Would you say this was cheating? An emotional affair?

Personally, yes I would consider it an emotional affair and a form of cheating. He needs to work to rebuild your trust.