Why can't folks that send their kids to average colleges ever admit it?

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Anonymous wrote:13 pages of parents doing exactly what the OP called out. Too funny.

You still don't get it.

Yup. The original post is startling obnoxious.

It may be obnoxious but it is also true. Above average people don't like to admit it when their children are just average. They knots they will twist themselves into just to keep from admitting the truth - precious couldn't get into HYPS in today's more competitive environment - are amusing and transparent. We see through the bullshit you know! YWIA!

There is something wrong with you.

Shrug. I just think it's funny when this happens. Particularly when the parents are so pretentious in all other areas of their lives but then try to put on a happy face that their snowflake ended up at JMU or someplace similar. Makes me laugh.

So you are mediocre in every aspect of your life, but your snowflake got into a highly rated school. Double shrug.

If it helps you to think that way, go ahead. No skin off my nose.

Yeah, it is. You seem like an unhappy person who has experienced a lot of disappointment in life. Rich, happy, successful people don't start threads like this.

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Anonymous wrote:13 pages of parents doing exactly what the OP called out. Too funny.

You still don't get it.

Yup. The original post is startling obnoxious.

It may be obnoxious but it is also true. Above average people don't like to admit it when their children are just average. They knots they will twist themselves into just to keep from admitting the truth - precious couldn't get into HYPS in today's more competitive environment - are amusing and transparent. We see through the bullshit you know! YWIA!

There is something wrong with you.

Shrug. I just think it's funny when this happens. Particularly when the parents are so pretentious in all other areas of their lives but then try to put on a happy face that their snowflake ended up at JMU or someplace similar. Makes me laugh.

So you are mediocre in every aspect of your life, but your snowflake got into a highly rated school. Double shrug.

If it helps you to think that way, go ahead. No skin off my nose.

Yeah, it is. You seem like an unhappy person who has experienced a lot of disappointment in life. Rich, happy, successful people don't start threads like this.

I didn't either! lol

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Op - - they can't admit it because they previously worked very hard to assure their child would be labeled "gifted"

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What exactly is an "average" college?

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Anonymous wrote:13 pages of parents doing exactly what the OP called out. Too funny.

You still don't get it.

Yup. The original post is startling obnoxious.

It may be obnoxious but it is also true. Above average people don't like to admit it when their children are just average. They knots they will twist themselves into just to keep from admitting the truth - precious couldn't get into HYPS in today's more competitive environment - are amusing and transparent. We see through the bullshit you know! YWIA!

There is something wrong with you.

Shrug. I just think it's funny when this happens. Particularly when the parents are so pretentious in all other areas of their lives but then try to put on a happy face that their snowflake ended up at JMU or someplace similar. Makes me laugh.

So you are mediocre in every aspect of your life, but your snowflake got into a highly rated school. Double shrug.

If it helps you to think that way, go ahead. No skin off my nose.

It seems like this really is a lot of skin off your nose. Otherwise, why do you care where anyone goes to college? Why does it bother you if parents voice pleasure about a college you don't think much of?

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Anonymous wrote:One of the big issues with OPs statement is that there doesn't seem to be a clear definition of an "average" college as opposed to an "above average" college. OP, what's your definition of an "average" college? I'd say that the top 50 national universities (as ranked by USNWR) are above average. The same goes for the top 50 LACs. Would you accept that definition OP?

No. Average to below. Top twenty: above average. Top ten: excellent.

Out of the top fifty: don't even bother. It's not worth the paper it's printed on.

Yeah, those people should just go work at Jiffy Lube. How dare they?

I wouldn't send them to Jiffy Lube, but I won't clear out my savings, retirement, home equity to send my children to a low ranked undergrad. And I most certainly wouldn't bend over backwards to spin that the college is some great place — which every parent of average kids does. Just give it a rest.

Wow. You are truly a terrible human being. Why do you even care if someone is excited about a low-ranked school? How does it hurt you?

It doesn't hurt me. It's just embarrassing your family. Sorry you lack self-awareness.

Yes, loving and supporting one's children is so embarrassing. Funny. I went to Harvard and I work with people who went to state schools as well as people who went to other Ivies. They're all smart and good at what we do. You find smart people everywhere. You find a higher proportion of them at higher ranked schools, sure, but so what. That tells you nothing about an individual who went to a non-top school. If my kids go to average schools and are happy and doing well and find something they like, are good at, and can support themselves with, you bet I'll be proud.

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Anonymous wrote:Status job.. status social calender... status cars... status town... status neighborhood... status high school... WE DON'T CARE WHERE THE KIDS GO TO COLLEGE!

Sorry, not believable.

+1

All the defensive parents in here are just proving the OP's point.

I think you don't get it. Are you actually a parent, OP? I ask because if you're a parent, at some point you usually face some actual problem with your kid. We have smart, healthy kids, but at various times in the pas we have had issues like: infertility, miscarriage, a heart defect in one kid, a (thankfully overcome) anxiety problem in another kid. Even if your kid has no problems at all, you go through pre-teen years where you worry about them getting bullied or making the writ friends, having self esteem issues, worry about drugs, etc. so when you get through that and your kid is happy at college and doing well -- whatever school it is -- you are pretty freaking happy about it.

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Anonymous wrote:13 pages of parents doing exactly what the OP called out. Too funny.

You still don't get it.

Yup. The original post is startling obnoxious.

It may be obnoxious but it is also true. Above average people don't like to admit it when their children are just average. They knots they will twist themselves into just to keep from admitting the truth - precious couldn't get into HYPS in today's more competitive environment - are amusing and transparent. We see through the bullshit you know! YWIA!

There is something wrong with you.

Shrug. I just think it's funny when this happens. Particularly when the parents are so pretentious in all other areas of their lives but then try to put on a happy face that their snowflake ended up at JMU or someplace similar. Makes me laugh.

So you are mediocre in every aspect of your life, but your snowflake got into a highly rated school. Double shrug.

If it helps you to think that way, go ahead. No skin off my nose.

It seems like this really is a lot of skin off your nose. Otherwise, why do you care where anyone goes to college? Why does it bother you if parents voice pleasure about a college you don't think much of?

You're being ridiculous. The OP asked a question and I passed the time on my break by answering. That is all. I'm somewhat amused by the time you are taking in berating me for typing a inappropriate thought. No I would never say this to anyone in person but, "off the record," as it were? Anonymously? Yes of course people notice the discrepancies between what the parents obviously wanted and what they got. They're not fooling anyone.

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Anonymous wrote:13 pages of parents doing exactly what the OP called out. Too funny.

You still don't get it.

Yup. The original post is startling obnoxious.

It may be obnoxious but it is also true. Above average people don't like to admit it when their children are just average. They knots they will twist themselves into just to keep from admitting the truth - precious couldn't get into HYPS in today's more competitive environment - are amusing and transparent. We see through the bullshit you know! YWIA!

There is something wrong with you.

Shrug. I just think it's funny when this happens. Particularly when the parents are so pretentious in all other areas of their lives but then try to put on a happy face that their snowflake ended up at JMU or someplace similar. Makes me laugh.

So you are mediocre in every aspect of your life, but your snowflake got into a highly rated school. Double shrug.

If it helps you to think that way, go ahead. No skin off my nose.

It seems like this really is a lot of skin off your nose. Otherwise, why do you care where anyone goes to college? Why does it bother you if parents voice pleasure about a college you don't think much of?

You're being ridiculous. The OP asked a question and I passed the time on my break by answering. That is all. I'm somewhat amused by the time you are taking in berating me for typing a inappropriate thought. No I would never say this to anyone in person but, "off the record," as it were? Anonymously? Yes of course people notice the discrepancies between what the parents obviously wanted and what they got. They're not fooling anyone.

Either you're not a parent, or you're an awful one. What I want for my kids is to be happy and healthy. If that means an average school, that's not them failing to deliver to me "what I wanted". I would sure hate to be your kid.

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Anonymous wrote:13 pages of parents doing exactly what the OP called out. Too funny.

You still don't get it.

Yup. The original post is startling obnoxious.

It may be obnoxious but it is also true. Above average people don't like to admit it when their children are just average. They knots they will twist themselves into just to keep from admitting the truth - precious couldn't get into HYPS in today's more competitive environment - are amusing and transparent. We see through the bullshit you know! YWIA!

There is something wrong with you.

Shrug. I just think it's funny when this happens. Particularly when the parents are so pretentious in all other areas of their lives but then try to put on a happy face that their snowflake ended up at JMU or someplace similar. Makes me laugh.

So you are mediocre in every aspect of your life, but your snowflake got into a highly rated school. Double shrug.

If it helps you to think that way, go ahead. No skin off my nose.

It seems like this really is a lot of skin off your nose. Otherwise, why do you care where anyone goes to college? Why does it bother you if parents voice pleasure about a college you don't think much of?

You're being ridiculous. The OP asked a question and I passed the time on my break by answering. That is all. I'm somewhat amused by the time you are taking in berating me for typing a inappropriate thought. No I would never say this to anyone in person but, "off the record," as it were? Anonymously? Yes of course people notice the discrepancies between what the parents obviously wanted and what they got. They're not fooling anyone.

Are you self-aware enough to realize you're coming across as the biggest loser on the thread? Just curious.

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Yes, loving and supporting one's children is so embarrassing. Funny. I went to Harvard and I work with people who went to state schools as well as people who went to other Ivies. They're all smart and good at what we do. You find smart people everywhere. You find a higher proportion of them at higher ranked schools, sure, but so what. That tells you nothing about an individual who went to a non-top school. If my kids go to average schools and are happy and doing well and find something they like, are good at, and can support themselves with, you bet I'll be proud.

Sorry to hear that.

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Is Op the same person from the other thread who's obsessed with merit aid? Or her kid doesn't get to go to college at all.

Regardless, it sounds like Op doesn't value education

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Yes, loving and supporting one's children is so embarrassing. Funny. I went to Harvard and I work with people who went to state schools as well as people who went to other Ivies. They're all smart and good at what we do. You find smart people everywhere. You find a higher proportion of them at higher ranked schools, sure, but so what. That tells you nothing about an individual who went to a non-top school. If my kids go to average schools and are happy and doing well and find something they like, are good at, and can support themselves with, you bet I'll be proud.

Sorry to hear that.

I'm sorry for whoever paid Harvard's bill.

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I'm watching my (and two of our kids so far) very average (or worthless according to dcumland) college play football right now. And yes, LSU fans really do smell like corn dogs.

#HOTTYTODDY

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This place is so out of touch and bourgeois.

Most people don't graduate from any college, period. The majority of those that do tend to graduate from no-name schools that few have heard of out of their city.

Places that most DCUMers look "down" on, like average SEC schools, are actually well above average.