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Has anyone on here found their spouse on the Ashley Madison list?
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Anonymous
| If I heard from a good friend that she saw dh on AM I'd be appreciative. If it was a casual acquaintance or not so good a friend I'd be mortified. |
Anonymous
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To the poster that don't want to now if husband is cheating... What is the point in being married then?...unless you both agree to an open marriage. Why should I commit myself to being exclusive if he will not? I would rather "know"...than turn a blind eye to it.
Anyway, I could just be like you and say..."yeah, all men cheat, get over it"...but sorry. I don't need a man in my life that bad. I can support myself just fine. I'm not going to share my life, my finances, my hopes and dreams, with a guy who lies and sneaks around behind my back. Sorry, either be real and honest or "set me free"! |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
Not that poster but everyone's different. If that's how she chooses to live through her marriage, so what. |
Anonymous
Yeah, but your children need their father in their life. |
Anonymous
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Yes, I found DW had an account. I found her email (who wouldn't use fake email?) credit card info and preferences. Her preferences were role play, men in uniform, and well hung. She says she never met up with anyone but I don't believe her.
I'm not surprised, our marriage has been in the shitter for the last few years and counseling hasn't helped. |
Anonymous
yeah, because what's important is how you feel that your lover cheated on you, and not that our DH matters at all |
Anonymous
Not PP but there's no reason he couldn't visit or share custody. |
Anonymous
| It'll be really interesting when some of the do-gooders who inform spouses of people they've found on the list find out ten years down the line that their own spouse happily cheated on them for years without ever resorting to AM or any other platform... |
Anonymous
AM was a nothing site with few successful hookups. The vast majority of people who cheat don't do so with complete strangers, it's with someone they know. |
Anonymous
| I found my brother in law...the only surprising thing was that the bum had a credit card |
Anonymous
Well you obviously didn't read the article because the author does NOT use any data from the credit cards database. The author (a woman by the way) has done a good job explaining her analysis methodology, and just as you observed, she avoids using any credit card data for the exact reason you mention. Interestingly enough, the most "activity" from women on the site are those who actually DID pull out their credit cards and pay to have their account deleted, here is a direct quote from the article: "It’s worth noting that those 12,108 <paid_delete> women’s accounts may represent the only true number we’ve got for women who used the site. After all, paying to delete an account is a sure sign of activity, though of course it’s evidence of disengagement rather than the amorous engagement that Ashley Madison promised." |
Anonymous
I'm sorry, PP. I hope things improve for you somehow. |
Anonymous
The "well hung" part would hurt like hell if that's what my wife was seeking |
Anonymous
We are in the same position. I knew and even went on it with him, he never met anyone as we realized it was a huge scam, but we have an open relationship. So embarrassed. |