Has anyone on here found their spouse on the Ashley Madison list?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My spouse is on there, but I knew about it. he has my permission to get some strange every once in a while, as long as he tells me about it, and as long as it is not a romantic relationship.

However, now we are BOTH pretty embarrassed...no, horrified actually, knowing that many of our friends have probably seen his name on there. God, I'm just hoping no one says anything to me about it, I'll just die!

We are in the same position. I knew and even went on it with him, he never met anyone as we realized it was a huge scam, but we have an open relationship. So embarrassed.

At the end of the day, I think most people fall back on the old adage that you never know what goes own in anyone else's marriage. I had half of my circle of friends divorce and there were varied reasons. So basically, believe it or not, if I saw someone that I knew, I would think maybe they have an open marriage, maybe the person was on there trying to catch a cheating spouse who the heck knows, maybe it is cheating and the spouse doesn't know. I sure as heck am not saying anything unless it is a close friend. Even then, without knowing if it is an open marriage or they knew and already reconciled or maybe he/she suspects but would never leave him I would tiptoe around the topic. If your close friends don't know the deal, then have a stock line ready. No one is entitled to know your personal business. A real friend would only want to make sure that you are happy and not being taken advantage of.

[Anonymous]

I'm a local TV producer...
I can't imagine. And the question of whether to tell or not tell a friend, neighbor or family member has to be agonizing.
Would anyone be interested in sharing your experience of searching a name and finding someone you know? Do you think this breach was a good or bad thing?
Many thanks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a local TV producer...
I can't imagine. And the question of whether to tell or not tell a friend, neighbor or family member has to be agonizing.
Would anyone be interested in sharing your experience of searching a name and finding someone you know? Do you think this breach was a good or bad thing?
Many thanks.

BAD. Especially devastating also for people on the list who are from Muslim countries who were on there to find homosexual partners. Saudi Arabia is already staring to round up gay people from the info. Homosexuality there and in many other countries is death. Gays who's names were in the list are already starting to flee Saudi Arabia.

[Anonymous]

I found several men I know. I work with defense contractors in NOVA. Not surprised by some of the names. I texted two of them stating "I saw your name on the list. Thought I would let you know it's on FFU(spelled out). No need to discuss further."

Also, I saw some spouses on the Montgomery County list. Disgusted by these Executives and doctors with wonderful careers, families, spouses would become cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a local TV producer...
I can't imagine. And the question of whether to tell or not tell a friend, neighbor or family member has to be agonizing.
Would anyone be interested in sharing your experience of searching a name and finding someone you know? Do you think this breach was a good or bad thing?
Many thanks.

You should ashamed of yourself for confusing to shame and hurt these victims of a hacking. When your medical records and private conversations and personal issues get aired one day I hope you are outed and paraded around the world as you are doing to others,

Become a real journalist and discuss issues that are actually productive....people are dying, starving at war, accomplishing amazing things etc but you prefer to ridicule, shame and break up families and cause enough stress and embarrassment that people commit suicide. Grow up and do something worthwhile and that you can be proud of. This story isn't it.

[Anonymous]

TO: "You should ashamed of yourself for confusing to shame and hurt these victims of a hacking. When your medical records and private conversations and personal issues get aired one day I hope you are outed and paraded around the world as you are doing to others,"
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I'm sorry, that was not my intention at all. Yes, it has affected many, many people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a local TV producer...
I can't imagine. And the question of whether to tell or not tell a friend, neighbor or family member has to be agonizing.
Would anyone be interested in sharing your experience of searching a name and finding someone you know? Do you think this breach was a good or bad thing?
Many thanks.

BAD. Especially devastating also for people on the list who are from Muslim countries who were on there to find homosexual partners. Saudi Arabia is already staring to round up gay people from the info. Homosexuality there and in many other countries is death. Gays who's names were in the list are already starting to flee Saudi Arabia.

I never thought of that. How awful. Do you know of anyone who left and came here?

[Anonymous]

To the tv producer- this story is almost three weeks old. Wives and children who were humiliated and devastated are trying to move on. Are you planning on bringing this to the surface again and reopening fresh wounds? I hope not. That is irresponsible journalism. This is all a massive invasion of privacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To the tv producer- this story is almost three weeks old. Wives and children who were humiliated and devastated are trying to move on. Are you planning on bringing this to the surface again and reopening fresh wounds? I hope not. That is irresponsible journalism. This is all a massive invasion of privacy.

Exactly. Really it's bottom feeding at this point. Leave these spouses and children alone instead of trying to get viewership through the pain of innocent people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To the tv producer- this story is almost three weeks old. Wives and children who were humiliated and devastated are trying to move on. Are you planning on bringing this to the surface again and reopening fresh wounds? I hope not. That is irresponsible journalism. This is all a massive invasion of privacy.

Exactly. Really it's bottom feeding at this point. Leave these spouses and children alone instead of trying to get viewership through the pain of innocent people.

I know when the breach occurred, but I find it interesting this remains the number one topic for discussion on this blog after 3 weeks.
I am not asking anyone to show their face or name - I am reaching out on the basis of anonymity. It affected millions of people.

[Anonymous]

Where is the Montgomery county Ashley Madison list?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Where is the Montgomery county Ashley Madison list?

They were removed via court order

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To the tv producer- this story is almost three weeks old. Wives and children who were humiliated and devastated are trying to move on. Are you planning on bringing this to the surface again and reopening fresh wounds? I hope not. That is irresponsible journalism. This is all a massive invasion of privacy.

Exactly. Really it's bottom feeding at this point. Leave these spouses and children alone instead of trying to get viewership through the pain of innocent people.

I know when the breach occurred, but I find it interesting this remains the number one topic for discussion on this blog after 3 weeks.
I am not asking anyone to show their face or name - I am reaching out on the basis of anonymity. It affected millions of people.

It has not even been close to the top story the past several days...

[Anonymous]

I know a single mom that plans to search the list before going on a date. She claimed you can see divorce records online but not marriage licenses. This way she can tell if someone is married or not, if they are a cheater ( if they cheated on their first wife than chances are high they will cheat again) and their character. She said she found 3 people she dated that were on the list all claiming to be single that she met elsewhere. She is not and was never an Ashley Madison member. She said when she hires a babysitter for her kids to go on several dates with someone only to discover 4 dates in that he is married and cheating, she is thrilled to use this list to see if someone is a cheater.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To the tv producer- this story is almost three weeks old. Wives and children who were humiliated and devastated are trying to move on. Are you planning on bringing this to the surface again and reopening fresh wounds? I hope not. That is irresponsible journalism. This is all a massive invasion of privacy.

Exactly. Really it's bottom feeding at this point. Leave these spouses and children alone instead of trying to get viewership through the pain of innocent people.

I know when the breach occurred, but I find it interesting this remains the number one topic for discussion on this blog after 3 weeks.
I am not asking anyone to show their face or name - I am reaching out on the basis of anonymity. It affected millions of people.

LET IT DIE.....move on!!!!!!!!! Stop torturing these poor families who should have been able to handle this PRIVATELY!!!! IT ISNT A PUBLIC ISSUE....think of the children who are being tortured by this and the spouses, people losing jobs, divorcing, committing suicide.....LET IT GO