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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.[/quote]

The sentiment that women past 50 should not even exist isn’t really rare these days.. A lot of posts on X are dedicated specifically to the bashing of perimenopausal women who happen to find themselves single at that age for whatever reason (divorce, becoming a widow, never married, etc).  It doesn’t matter what they look like or how they present themselves they cannot do anything right.  Their entire existence somehow bothers people. Whether they wear tons of makeup and do surgeries to look as young as possible or go without makeup and natural like Pam Anderson, they are guaranteed to get flamed.[/quote]

Why do women still seek the validation of men when they reach a certain age? I am genuinely curious. If you walk into a space and no men pay attention to you and/or compliment you why does it  matter? Or are they minding their own business and men still feel the need to bash them? When a younger beautiful woman walks into a room I will look, appreciate and maybe even compliment her. If an older woman walks in I probably won't even notice her. But that doesn't mean she isn't beautiful. It's just that I don't see her. And I think that's okay.[/quote]

Stupid question.  It’s obviously about single women who do want to be noticed because they are trying to not be single?  It’s just makes the point of the PP that people just don’t believe that single 50-something women seeking any type of companionship shouldn’t exist.   Yes, you do want to be noticed by people you want to attract when you are trying to meet someone, duh[/quote]

Well it's too late. They had their chances in their 30s. But of course they choose to compete for the same men. Oh well now they are totally invisible.

And this doesn't apply to divorced and ore married women. These women have been there done that.

If you are 50 single never married it's your damn fault and now you are invisible and by 60 you will simply disappear from their radar [/quote]

I know several ladies who date in their 60s: find companions of similar age, go to concerts together as couples. While it’s harder to date as you age, a lot of men would date someone of same generation. Stating it’s just not happening is not supported by stats [/quote]

Shhh all the 60 yr old men are dating 35 year olds!

As a 49 yr old woman I think 60 is likely too old for me. Most men take horrible physical/medical care of themselves and I have zero interest in being a nurse. [/quote]

Haha, 100% with you . I turned down many early to mid 50s men when I dated and I’m 48. Terrible shape, lazy lifestyle , cheap commenting on me being spoilt just because I used a cleaning lady for my 2500 sq ft house. F…k it ! I would rather be alone. 
I don’t know which 30s women are dating them now but I wasn’t interested a bit. Toys are better 
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