Fairfax Murder

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP who knew Joe and knows his girlfriend.

There was definitely some mental illness in there, but it was all self-destructive. I was never scared that Joe would hurt somebody, just do bat-shit insane things.

Think bipolar - when manic, he was very, very manic in a way to seek out thrills for himself. When he was not manic, he was an absolutely lovely, loving person who loved his grandmother more than life itself. He loved his dog and that dog was the best treated dog I've ever met.

Manic episodes are NO joke.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The suggestion is that this was an agreed to swinging / cuckolding type encounter. It true, possibly timed to the DH's birthday the day before. If so, obviously went very wrong. I always thought people did that kind of thing in hotels, not the family home with a preschooler and au pair on the premises, but who knows?

Very tragic for that little girl.

OMG, I've never even heard of such encounters. I really need to get with it!

Me neither. Nor have I heard of LARPing. But it looks like that could be the niche activity pp was talking about. And I could see how someone who enjoys LARPing might also enjoy cuckolding. But there is no way any parent would do that with a 4 year old and a nanny present in the house. No. Way. That would be crazy. What if your kid walked in on you?

Where did LARPing come up? Is that like the hotwife stuff? Not sure what that means in this context?

I would assume that the au pair had the child with her if something had been planned ahead of time? It was a big house and I imagine she had a suite in the basement. Remember the Robert Wone case? The downstairs roommate/tenant would be asked to crash elsewhere from time to time per reports of that tragic night. That was a much smaller house. Same idea tho.

[Anonymous]

Agree seems very odd to do that in your own home with a child on the premises despite au pair.

Did the DH worry about his clearance and think doing such things in hotels or clubs was riskier? If the Reddit poster was correct, it was planned ahead of time, not something that started at a club and got taken home.

I guess you lock the door?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agree seems very odd to do that in your own home with a child on the premises despite au pair.

Did the DH worry about his clearance and think doing such things in hotels or clubs was riskier? If the Reddit poster was correct, it was planned ahead of time, not something that started at a club and got taken home.

I guess you lock the door?

It was his birthday- not strange to ask the au pair (who lived there) yo keep the daughter with her for a night so they can celebrate.

[Anonymous]

Re Larping- Maybe that’s why that said she was stabbed- an accident? It may not have even been a knife/ could have been a sword, etc. maybe that’s why au pair describes the situation as her friend being hurt?

[Anonymous]

“We know what our 911 caller — the husband — told us, but, but we have a lot, a lot of work to do to substantiate that claim,” Chief Davis said.

https://www.dcnewsnow.com/news/local-news/virginia/fairfax-county/police-continuing-investigation-of-deadly-stabbing-and-shooting/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Re Larping- Maybe that’s why that said she was stabbed- an accident? It may not have even been a knife/ could have been a sword, etc. maybe that’s why au pair describes the situation as her friend being hurt?

Where is LARPing coming in? Link?

I thought she was under duress and ESL?

None of this seems accidental to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Re Larping- Maybe that’s why that said she was stabbed- an accident? It may not have even been a knife/ could have been a sword, etc. maybe that’s why au pair describes the situation as her friend being hurt?

Where is LARPing coming in? Link?

I thought she was under duress and ESL?

None of this seems accidental to me.

ESL? Not the wife. On Reddit a friend said he was into LARPing and had mentioned a cuckholding situation he was getting into. That would suggest he was involved with the wife not au pair.

[Anonymous]

I thought LARP was like the renaissance games but video game themed?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought LARP was like the renaissance games but video game themed?

Yes, live action role playing. The source said he’s in LARP, MMA (martial arts) and websites for dating married women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought LARP was like the renaissance games but video game themed?

Yes, live action role playing. The source said he’s in LARP, MMA (martial arts) and websites for dating married women.

I’m way too naive to understand some of the theories I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Re Larping- Maybe that’s why that said she was stabbed- an accident? It may not have even been a knife/ could have been a sword, etc. maybe that’s why au pair describes the situation as her friend being hurt?

Where is LARPing coming in? Link?

I thought she was under duress and ESL?

None of this seems accidental to me.

ESL? Not the wife. On Reddit a friend said he was into LARPing and had mentioned a cuckholding situation he was getting into. That would suggest he was involved with the wife not au pair.

Right, but the au pair's choice of words was likely impacted by stress and ESL.

Off to look at Reddit. Wonder what kind of LARPing, like D&D or Rennaisance Faire?

[Anonymous]

Can someone pls quote the comment re: LARPing? I see the one about dating married women but don't see LARPing and am curious. Wonder in what sense?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can someone pls quote the comment re: LARPing? I see the one about dating married women but don't see LARPing and am curious. Wonder in what sense?

LARPing in general is kind of like Renaissance Faire, kind of like acting out storylines and sword fights and stuff in real life. Like D&D but instead of sitting around a table you’re actually out in a field or wherever attacking the monsters or what have you.

[Anonymous]

PP who knew Joe here.

Yes, I knew him through LARPing.

We play with padded foam weapons.