Husband following 20-year old on social media…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:40 year old (mostly) happily married guy here.

What’s the big deal? Seriously, everyone goes out into the world and has their little interactions. So he gets a little pick me up from chatting with a hot 20 year old, and she amped him up a little bit by feigning interest in his pics and exchanging Instas. She’s not banging him, to use the parlance of our times.

Obviously he lied about how the follow came about. Any guy would. Deny, deny, deny. Just trying to avoid a headache.

At my salon, there are like 7 chairs and one is with an absolute rocket ship of a girl. Beautiful, great body, flirtatious. Her line is always 4-8 guys deep even with other empty chairs available. So, at a minimum your husband is not an outlier. He’s just a regular Joe. Let him have his fun. Life’s too short to sweat this stuff.

Your wife is so lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:40 year old (mostly) happily married guy here.

What’s the big deal? Seriously, everyone goes out into the world and has their little interactions. So he gets a little pick me up from chatting with a hot 20 year old, and she amped him up a little bit by feigning interest in his pics and exchanging Instas. She’s not banging him, to use the parlance of our times.

Obviously he lied about how the follow came about. Any guy would. Deny, deny, deny. Just trying to avoid a headache.

At my salon, there are like 7 chairs and one is with an absolute rocket ship of a girl. Beautiful, great body, flirtatious. Her line is always 4-8 guys deep even with other empty chairs available. So, at a minimum your husband is not an outlier. He’s just a regular Joe. Let him have his fun. Life’s too short to sweat this stuff.

He has a history of dishonesty and of violating the boundaries of the relationship — on social media. If you behave like an *ss you lose privileges, such as your SO’s trust.

[Anonymous]

why don't you just check his phone already? If there are questionable converations then you caught him and you can slap him. If nothing but liking photos then leave him alone.

[Anonymous]

Affairs start on social media all day, every day and the fact that this guy sees her often is deeply problematic. Why would she be following some old guy on social media anyway? Some of you are so naive.