Husband following 20-year old on social media…
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Anonymous
| Backstory: My husband gets his hair cut weekly at a little strip mall place that’s staffed by cute young college-aged girls. I literally never thought ANYTHING of it until today, when I see that him and one of the front desk girls now follow each other on IG. She’s not the one who cuts his hair. She also does not have a ton of followers on IG (less than 500) and her IG profile is completely separate from the salons profile. Would this bother you? |
Anonymous
| Yes, I'd be shocked that I was married to such an idiot. |
Anonymous
| Gross, OP. Tell him you saw and you think it’s gross and shame him. What a tool. |
Anonymous
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No. Why does it bother you?
I mean, it’s a little odd that he’s on Instagram. Is you guys super young or something? |
Anonymous
It's not appropriate. Sorry, OP. And there are lots of iffy things that I don't mind... 
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Anonymous
| Is he above 35 years old? If so not appropriate. |
Anonymous
| Pedo. |
Anonymous
| OP here: He’s 41 years old. It bothers me because personally I don’t think it’s okay for my husband to be chatting and exchanging contact information with ANY other women, let alone a 20-year old. I wanted to see if Im over reacting… |
Anonymous
I'm a 60 year old man and I'm on Instagram. I follow some of my adult kids' friends (many of whom are young women) but have never requested to follow them. What I've done is accept their requests. Maybe he's done the same thing. If so, it's pretty harmless. |
Anonymous
| Oh just let him spank off in peace, you're tired of him wanting sex from you anyway. |
Anonymous
Yeah, that’s why it’s gross. You need to check him DMs and see if he’s been messaging her. |
Anonymous
You're not. Out of respect for his marriage, he shouldn't. He shouldn't have become so chatty with a 20 year old that they said "Hey, what's your Instagram handle?" If she said it to him, he should have said, "Yeah, I'm married and old enough to be your father, so let's not go down this road." |
Anonymous
| Her age would disturb me. I also find it disturbing that you even know about this. |
Anonymous
| Yes it absolutely would bother me |
Anonymous
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I'm not defending the dude, but if somehow for a work related reason his phone number ended up on her phone (she is at the front desk after all) he could have popped up on her insta as a suggested follower and she clicked on it. It's amazing how little privacy we have.
How did you find out he was following her? Are you stalking his Insta? |