This is kind of a weird question and trigger, there is an OW component

[Anonymous]

Love how people say someone is triggered whenever they encounter an opinion that is contrary to their own. You do understand that actions are different than words, right? Saying you have done something but then engaging in behavior that is inconsistent with that means you may not have done what you thought.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Love how people say someone is triggered whenever they encounter an opinion that is contrary to their own. You do understand that actions are different than words, right? Saying you have done something but then engaging in behavior that is inconsistent with that means you may not have done what you thought.

+1. It is inconsistent for OW to say she’s over him yet she remains open to seeing if he still texts her (just so she can claim victory by saying she’s ignored him), or is otherwise still ruminating over him.

[Anonymous]

OP is messed up. Period. She is obsessing in a crazy way. She did something awful and wants to justify it. She will never move on with her life and see herself for what she currently is. She needs therapy.

[Anonymous]

Geez woman. WHAT DID YOU EXPECT?!?!?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how people say someone is triggered whenever they encounter an opinion that is contrary to their own. You do understand that actions are different than words, right? Saying you have done something but then engaging in behavior that is inconsistent with that means you may not have done what you thought.

+1. It is inconsistent for OW to say she’s over him yet she remains open to seeing if he still texts her (just so she can claim victory by saying she’s ignored him), or is otherwise still ruminating over him.

OP is not PP who ignores texts from a former AP. Different people.

Also the people insisting PP must! block! that guy need to calm down. Those of us born before 1980 know how to move on without the help of a Facebook feature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Love how people say someone is triggered whenever they encounter an opinion that is contrary to their own. You do understand that actions are different than words, right? Saying you have done something but then engaging in behavior that is inconsistent with that means you may not have done what you thought.

+1. It is inconsistent for OW to say she’s over him yet she remains open to seeing if he still texts her (just so she can claim victory by saying she’s ignored him), or is otherwise still ruminating over him.

OP is not PP who ignores texts from a former AP. Different people.

Also the people insisting PP must! block! that guy need to calm down. Those of us born before 1980 know how to move on without the help of a Facebook feature.

She's all drama. Histrionic personality disorder. Moving on would end all of that drama she misinterprets as love and want. These people can't have 'normal' relationships, They mistake stress, drama, fights and breakup/rekindle/breakup/rekindle as love, instead of just f**lked up. When things are good and healthy, they don't feel loved. They need that DRAMA. It's why these people have affairs and pick people emotionally unavailable.

[Anonymous]

OP and you could not be more wrong about what I like/need/want, but I understand you need to think these things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP and you could not be more wrong about what I like/need/want, but I understand you need to think these things.

You want to start an online fight, Drama Queen ?

[Anonymous]

Hahaha. Agree that OP wants to stay mired in misery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP and you could not be more wrong about what I like/need/want, but I understand you need to think these things.

You want to start an online fight, Drama Queen ?

Why do stable married women yearn to pretend they’re tough on this subject? Did your DH have a health scare this summer or something? Do you think she’s slept with your innocent beloved husband?