DW has incredibly low sex drive - not sure what can be done to help

[Anonymous]

I read that article too. The analysis contains several flaws that were later debunked on some more technical (and less mainstream) websites. Alot of the conclusions were based on facts that, while true, are misleading.

1) There are very few *paying* women. True. But women don't have to pay to play so this is a pointless stat.
2) Most of the messages from women are robots. True. But that is just because the robots were active and generate such high numbers of messages.

Robots are easy to spot. Always 29yo single women, 5'6" and 115 pounds. Not really my demographic anyway.

I assure you there are real women on there. Yes, it takes work for a man to initiate contact with a real woman on AM, and then swap a few messages. The numbers heavily favor women. For the millionth time this is because every man on earth wants/like sex, but very few women seem to have a measurable sex drive.

Like my wife: she enjoys sex the way I enjoy Thrasher's french fries. I never really think about Thrashers, then once per year I find myself on the boardwalk and see the Thrasher's sign, and think "what the heck". Then the rest of the year, Thrashers doesn't cross my mind, and I won't be in the mood for those fries until next summer.

Fortunately for me (like most men) my sex drive is high, so I do whatever work it takes to pursue sex with real women. AM does actually work. I can give alot more specific AM tips if you are really interested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I read that article too. The analysis contains several flaws that were later debunked on some more technical (and less mainstream) websites. Alot of the conclusions were based on facts that, while true, are misleading.

1) There are very few *paying* women. True. But women don't have to pay to play so this is a pointless stat.
2) Most of the messages from women are robots. True. But that is just because the robots were active and generate such high numbers of messages.

Robots are easy to spot. Always 29yo single women, 5'6" and 115 pounds. Not really my demographic anyway.

I assure you there are real women on there. Yes, it takes work for a man to initiate contact with a real woman on AM, and then swap a few messages. The numbers heavily favor women. For the millionth time this is because every man on earth wants/like sex, but very few women seem to have a measurable sex drive.

Like my wife: she enjoys sex the way I enjoy Thrasher's french fries. I never really think about Thrashers, then once per year I find myself on the boardwalk and see the Thrasher's sign, and think "what the heck". Then the rest of the year, Thrashers doesn't cross my mind, and I won't be in the mood for those fries until next summer.

Fortunately for me (like most men) my sex drive is high, so I do whatever work it takes to pursue sex with real women. AM does actually work. I can give alot more specific AM tips if you are really interested.

I mean, you can live in whatever fantasy world you want to. The research is clear: AM is a deadzone for women. If it really makes you feel good to go online and talk to fake women that you have somehow "sussed out" as being real in a group that you admitted is absolutely FULL of fakers... then by all means, go for it.

Some guys like anime, some guys like real dolls. If talking to a robot or a man role playing as a women gives you some kind of value to your life, I say go for it. It's harmless anyway.

[Anonymous]

I am glad the AM hack resulted in this common belief. It
provides good cover for me. Carry on. I will.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am glad the AM hack resulted in this common belief. It
provides good cover for me. Carry on. I will.

Yep. And it drops down the competition of other men talking to the operating robots and male AM employees. Because most men... you know.. want to talk to actual women.

[Anonymous]

You are all just arguing to further prove the point that women have low sex drive. Yes, we know. It's sad. Congrats to all you low drive, denying women. Have fun with your Netflix and cats while your sex starved husbands plot various ways to get laid. It just means I work slightly harder, due to increased male competition for the few desirous women. But I do pursue, and I do make connections.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are all just arguing to further prove the point that women have low sex drive. Yes, we know. It's sad. Congrats to all you low drive, denying women. Have fun with your Netflix and cats while your sex starved husbands plot various ways to get laid. It just means I work slightly harder, due to increased male competition for the few desirous women. But I do pursue, and I do make connections.

It's sad? How? Why? To whom?

I am low drive and I love it. Plenty of time to get other stuff done, I dont have to waste valuable time each day masturbating or having sex to be functioning, my life isn't constantly interrupted by thoughts of horniness. It's bliss.

Sorry you dont have that same privilege

[Anonymous]

I'm a married high drive woman in my late 40s. I had luck on AM and CL. I can't imagine life without regular sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married high drive woman in my late 40s. I had luck on AM and CL. I can't imagine life without regular sex.

OK. Says the guy from earlier who is just DESPERATE to prove that he was talking to a real, live woman!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married high drive woman in my late 40s. I had luck on AM and CL. I can't imagine life without regular sex.

OK. Says the guy from earlier who is just DESPERATE to prove that he was talking to a real, live woman!!

Says the bisexual 26 yo stunner who is shitting all over seemingly every thread on here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married high drive woman in my late 40s. I had luck on AM and CL. I can't imagine life without regular sex.

OK. Says the guy from earlier who is just DESPERATE to prove that he was talking to a real, live woman!!

Says the bisexual 26 yo stunner who is shitting all over seemingly every thread on here

Are you? Well then I suggest Tinder instead of AM. You'll find real live people on there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married high drive woman in my late 40s. I had luck on AM and CL. I can't imagine life without regular sex.

OK. Says the guy from earlier who is just DESPERATE to prove that he was talking to a real, live woman!!

Why is this so hard to believe? I was a woman on AM. Friends of mine met women on AM, as in met them in person. The bots and fakers were there as well, but to say there were no real women is just false.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are all just arguing to further prove the point that women have low sex drive. Yes, we know. It's sad. Congrats to all you low drive, denying women. Have fun with your Netflix and cats while your sex starved husbands plot various ways to get laid. It just means I work slightly harder, due to increased male competition for the few desirous women. But I do pursue, and I do make connections.

It's sad? How? Why? To whom?

I am low drive and I love it. Plenty of time to get other stuff done, I dont have to waste valuable time each day masturbating or having sex to be functioning, my life isn't constantly interrupted by thoughts of horniness. It's bliss.

Sorry you dont have that same privilege

It is sad because I seriously doubt you were bragging about loving your low drive while dating your future husband. Instead of being honest with him back then, you pretended to have a sex drive because you understood most normal men would not make a long term relationship commitment to a low drive woman. I hope you have done the decent thing and told your husband he's free to have his normal sexual needs met outside the marriage. If you haven't, shame on you. Wonder what he is up to even without your permission.

Do not cry for me. I love sex. I have an active sex drive. I pursue sexually active women. And I get laid often.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To 15:30...of course she has to try to find out a happy compromise. She is married to him and I am sure loves him! I'm just saying he needs to change before she can. He needs to rethink how he is approaching things, think about whether what he is offering his wife is appealing to her, rethink his unwillingness to push things and to just accept what has been unsatisfying to him, etc. He needs to shift within himself. He needs to communicate to her that what he misses is not just sex, but feeling wanted, and that he genuinely wants to know her and get closer to her and understand what's going on in her mind. That he's not happy with just going through the motions and that he is not primarily looking for an orgasm, but connection.

When two people are in a stalemate, one person has got to start change happening. I think if there's an unhappy situation, and one person looks deep within themselves and makes hard changes and starts doing things that seemed emotionally risky, the other person will change too. They will have to.

It's tough not to project my own situation on to this comment. I've changed a lot of things over the years -- and had the conversation where I explained that it's not just sex that I miss, but being wanted and the emotional connection -- and it hasn't resulted in my wife (who loves me) having more and better sex with me. There are some long-term-relationship doldrums issues, I think; but I strongly suspect the majority of our problems have to do with her body image issues, and other than (truthfully) complimenting her appearance constantly, and showing her I find her sexually attractive, I'm not sure what I can do to help her with those issues. (She says there is nothing I can do on that score.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a married high drive woman in my late 40s. I had luck on AM and CL. I can't imagine life without regular sex.

OK. Says the guy from earlier who is just DESPERATE to prove that he was talking to a real, live woman!!

Why is this so hard to believe? I was a woman on AM. Friends of mine met women on AM, as in met them in person. The bots and fakers were there as well, but to say there were no real women is just false.

If you really are one of the tiny percentage of one percent of the women on AM- and know other who were also in the tiny percentage of one percent- then you are a statistical anomaly and should submit your name to the guiness world records immediately! Congrats!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are all just arguing to further prove the point that women have low sex drive. Yes, we know. It's sad. Congrats to all you low drive, denying women. Have fun with your Netflix and cats while your sex starved husbands plot various ways to get laid. It just means I work slightly harder, due to increased male competition for the few desirous women. But I do pursue, and I do make connections.

It's sad? How? Why? To whom?

I am low drive and I love it. Plenty of time to get other stuff done, I dont have to waste valuable time each day masturbating or having sex to be functioning, my life isn't constantly interrupted by thoughts of horniness. It's bliss.

Sorry you dont have that same privilege

It is sad because I seriously doubt you were bragging about loving your low drive while dating your future husband. Instead of being honest with him back then, you pretended to have a sex drive because you understood most normal men would not make a long term relationship commitment to a low drive woman. I hope you have done the decent thing and told your husband he's free to have his normal sexual needs met outside the marriage. If you haven't, shame on you. Wonder what he is up to even without your permission.

Do not cry for me. I love sex. I have an active sex drive. I pursue sexually active women. And I get laid often.

Whatever I told my husband is, frankly, none of your business.

You "get laid often" but you're still on here griping about women who won't have sex. Something is not adding up. Where does the bitterness come from? It strikes me it wouldnt come from a guy who was successfully having relationships with women. And no, sexually trafficked women dont count!