DH embarrassed by my outfit for bbq

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

Lol. I don't claim to know a lot about women but I am 100% certain on one thing. If a woman is unhappy/miserable, she wants every other woman in the world to be just as unhappy/miserable. Nothing pisses off a woman more than another woman being happier than she is

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

No. This is a win for DCUM because another woman is getting out from under the thumb of a controlling partner. Nobody here advocates divorce all the time. Most of the MoFos on this thread told the OP she was partly in the wrong (she wasn't) because she didn't "compromise" (she should not have) or because she wore the wrong color (she didn't) or because a little gentle ribbing was normal and OK (maybe that's true, but what her husband did wasn't gentle ribbing).

It's a win for a woman to stop being bullied. It is a win for the children to see that their mother won't accept being bullied. It's a win for the OP to find her strength.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

No. This is a win for DCUM because another woman is getting out from under the thumb of a controlling partner. Nobody here advocates divorce all the time. Most of the MoFos on this thread told the OP she was partly in the wrong (she wasn't) because she didn't "compromise" (she should not have) or because she wore the wrong color (she didn't) or because a little gentle ribbing was normal and OK (maybe that's true, but what her husband did wasn't gentle ribbing).

It's a win for a woman to stop being bullied. It is a win for the children to see that their mother won't accept being bullied. It's a win for the OP to find her strength.

How do you know that she isn't the bully?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

No. This is a win for DCUM because another woman is getting out from under the thumb of a controlling partner. Nobody here advocates divorce all the time. Most of the MoFos on this thread told the OP she was partly in the wrong (she wasn't) because she didn't "compromise" (she should not have) or because she wore the wrong color (she didn't) or because a little gentle ribbing was normal and OK (maybe that's true, but what her husband did wasn't gentle ribbing).

It's a win for a woman to stop being bullied. It is a win for the children to see that their mother won't accept being bullied. It's a win for the OP to find her strength.

How do you know that she isn't the bully?

Then, divorce is the suitable answer in that case. Fair?

[Anonymous]

Would not let you go... think about that! Jesus.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

I believe you are the same woman hating incel on every threat in the relationship forum. The hate is just spilling out of every word you write.

He called her a C word because she nagged him???!!!! GTFOH.

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

I believe you are the same woman hating incel on every threat in the relationship forum. The hate is just spilling out of every word you write.

He called her a C word because she nagged him???!!!! GTFOH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

No. This is a win for DCUM because another woman is getting out from under the thumb of a controlling partner. Nobody here advocates divorce all the time. Most of the MoFos on this thread told the OP she was partly in the wrong (she wasn't) because she didn't "compromise" (she should not have) or because she wore the wrong color (she didn't) or because a little gentle ribbing was normal and OK (maybe that's true, but what her husband did wasn't gentle ribbing).

It's a win for a woman to stop being bullied. It is a win for the children to see that their mother won't accept being bullied. It's a win for the OP to find her strength.

How do you know that she isn't the bully?

That is just speculation. Based on the evidence we have (that is, the testimony from the OP) her DH was in the wrong. Bring another witness and we'll reconsider. Why would you work so hard to blame the OP when there is no evidence of her being the bully?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

I believe you are the same woman hating incel on every thread in the relationship forum. The hate is just spilling out of every word you write.

He called her a C word because she nagged him???!!!! GTFOH.

+1 agree. He's working really hard to blame the OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

No. This is a win for DCUM because another woman is getting out from under the thumb of a controlling partner. Nobody here advocates divorce all the time. Most of the MoFos on this thread told the OP she was partly in the wrong (she wasn't) because she didn't "compromise" (she should not have) or because she wore the wrong color (she didn't) or because a little gentle ribbing was normal and OK (maybe that's true, but what her husband did wasn't gentle ribbing).

It's a win for a woman to stop being bullied. It is a win for the children to see that their mother won't accept being bullied. It's a win for the OP to find her strength.

How do you know that she isn't the bully?

That is just speculation. Based on the evidence we have (that is, the testimony from the OP) her DH was in the wrong. Bring another witness and we'll reconsider. Why would you work so hard to blame the OP when there is no evidence of her being the bully?

Where did I blame OP? You dumbasses are telling people to get divorced and break up families based on a couple of small one sided message board posts. Simply because misery loves company