DH embarrassed by my outfit for bbq

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

I believe you are the same woman hating incel on every threat in the relationship forum. The hate is just spilling out of every word you write.

He called her a C word because she nagged him???!!!! GTFOH.

Yes nagging. You have no idea what happened. If she followed him around screaming at him after he asked for a break then yes that word is appropriate. I have no idea if that happened and neither do you. But you are willing to play a part in breaking up a family over a couple of posts dcum.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

I believe you are the same woman hating incel on every threat in the relationship forum. The hate is just spilling out of every word you write.

He called her a C word because she nagged him???!!!! GTFOH.

Hey cat lady! Or is it cat man?

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i would do something that really stings.

Too soon?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

I believe you are the same woman hating incel on every threat in the relationship forum. The hate is just spilling out of every word you write.

He called her a C word because she nagged him???!!!! GTFOH.

Yes nagging. You have no idea what happened. If she followed him around screaming at him after he asked for a break then yes that word is appropriate. I have no idea if that happened and neither do you. But you are willing to play a part in breaking up a family over a couple of posts dcum.

NP. Describe a scenario where it would be acceptable for a man to call his wife a c*nt in front of their kids.

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I'm glad OP followed up. Sure, couples can be dickish to each other sometimes, but from the first post it was obvious that it's more than that in this case. OP's husband is an abuser, and that was clear as day to many of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

I just want to say that when this happened to friends of mine, it turned out the husband was bipolar. They got back together after he got treatment and medication. You should see if he's willing to get mental health treatment.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

I absolutely think OP divorcing a man who calls her the c word in front of their children is a win for DCUM. Sometimes commenters on this website are anonymous heroes.

I wonder why he did that? That part didn't make it in to the post for some reason. I bet this board got OP all fired up and she tried to put him in his place.
Anyway, congrats DCUM!

Are you married? The part bolded is not tenable in a marriage. There is no reason for this. And in front of kids! That's a train wreck. This wreck is happening whether it's now or in the future. Seeing the probability of that does not make me an instigator.
I accept the congrats. You are a strange person.

You are a strange person to come to a conclusion after only hearing one side of the story. Maybe he should divorce her for her actions that led to the name calling. How do you know she didn't say the same thing to him? Or hit him? Or nag him even after he said he's had enough and needed a break?

Oh Hello. OP’s DH seems to have found the thread.

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If you are completely honest, how did you look? Yellow doesn’t often pair well with fair skin or really light or really black hair. Neither does orange for that matter. If you can’t dress figure out what colors look good on you and just buy very basic clothes in those solid colors and avoid bold patterns and overly complicated trends. Remember not everyone will feel comfortable telling you you look horrible but they’ll tell everyone else. (Not me, I keep my friends looking good but I am nicer/more tactful about it if they have a blood stain on the back of their pants, lipstick on teeth, wig looks crooked, whatever) At least he tried to stop you from going out looking crazy. But talk to him about his delivery and bringing the kids into it and also use the opportunity to tell him what wardrobe changes he can make. Good luck and don’t be so emotional over little stuff this isn’t the end of the world. I’m sure he didn’t run to the courthouse to file anything based on your shirt choices

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Anonymous wrote:If you are completely honest, how did you look? Yellow doesn’t often pair well with fair skin or really light or really black hair. Neither does orange for that matter. If you can’t dress figure out what colors look good on you and just buy very basic clothes in those solid colors and avoid bold patterns and overly complicated trends. Remember not everyone will feel comfortable telling you you look horrible but they’ll tell everyone else. (Not me, I keep my friends looking good but I am nicer/more tactful about it if they have a blood stain on the back of their pants, lipstick on teeth, wig looks crooked, whatever) At least he tried to stop you from going out looking crazy. But talk to him about his delivery and bringing the kids into it and also use the opportunity to tell him what wardrobe changes he can make. Good luck and don’t be so emotional over little stuff this isn’t the end of the world. I’m sure he didn’t run to the courthouse to file anything based on your shirt choices

Yikes

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How does a person get so nasty!

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Anonymous wrote:How does a person get so nasty!

^^^Supposed to be a question.

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Anonymous wrote:If you are completely honest, how did you look? Yellow doesn’t often pair well with fair skin or really light or really black hair. Neither does orange for that matter. If you can’t dress figure out what colors look good on you and just buy very basic clothes in those solid colors and avoid bold patterns and overly complicated trends. Remember not everyone will feel comfortable telling you you look horrible but they’ll tell everyone else. (Not me, I keep my friends looking good but I am nicer/more tactful about it if they have a blood stain on the back of their pants, lipstick on teeth, wig looks crooked, whatever) At least he tried to stop you from going out looking crazy. But talk to him about his delivery and bringing the kids into it and also use the opportunity to tell him what wardrobe changes he can make. Good luck and don’t be so emotional over little stuff this isn’t the end of the world. I’m sure he didn’t run to the courthouse to file anything based on your shirt choices

Yikes

Go sleep with his friends Iam sure they will find you hot.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

I'm glad you're getting out OP. Best of luck to you. Stay safe. You may want to delete this thread in case he has access to your devices.

Also seek advice for leaving a Domestic abuse situation with kids.

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Anonymous wrote:If you are completely honest, how did you look? Yellow doesn’t often pair well with fair skin or really light or really black hair. Neither does orange for that matter. If you can’t dress figure out what colors look good on you and just buy very basic clothes in those solid colors and avoid bold patterns and overly complicated trends. Remember not everyone will feel comfortable telling you you look horrible but they’ll tell everyone else. (Not me, I keep my friends looking good but I am nicer/more tactful about it if they have a blood stain on the back of their pants, lipstick on teeth, wig looks crooked, whatever) At least he tried to stop you from going out looking crazy. But talk to him about his delivery and bringing the kids into it and also use the opportunity to tell him what wardrobe changes he can make. Good luck and don’t be so emotional over little stuff this isn’t the end of the world. I’m sure he didn’t run to the courthouse to file anything based on your shirt choices

Oh wise one, please educate us on which color palatte to wear to prevent domestic abuse? Perhaps gray, or a soft blue?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Yes, I am getting out. This has all escalated.

He has followed me around the house screaming at me and calling me the "c" word in front of the kids when he's angry, among other terrible names. The other day I came downstairs and he turned to the kids and said, "mom looks good, for once! Hahaha". He said if I tried to leave he can't wait to see me "out on the street".

So yeah, I'm done and have already consulted a lawyer and am making plans.

Great! Another win for DCUM! We won't stop until everyone is divorced!

Divorce is not the worst thing in the world.