Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

OK so you like to learn things the hard way. Cool. Get back to us when you are 30 and not married and have thrown your good years away on this man who doesn't want you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

OK so you like to learn things the hard way. Cool. Get back to us when you are 30 and not married and have thrown your good years away on this man who doesn't want you.

He told me she’s jealous of us though. If he didn’t want me he wouldn’t have brought up an “us”, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

Everything you just described demonstrates that what people were saying was 100% correct.
- that he was still hung up on his ex and not done with her
- that things wouldn’t work out for you
- and that you should move on (which you just did so yay)

If anything everyone was right. Not that it’s even about that. You asked for advice and people gave you good advice. You decided to not take such advice and figure it out the hard way. Sometimes in life we need to do that. Same outcome.

If he’s so hung up on her why did he follow me back on social media?

he's triangulating you both to see who will dance harder. you're tapping pretty hard.


i've kind of been there. it sucks. don't let yourself be manipulated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

Everything you just described demonstrates that what people were saying was 100% correct.
- that he was still hung up on his ex and not done with her
- that things wouldn’t work out for you
- and that you should move on (which you just did so yay)

If anything everyone was right. Not that it’s even about that. You asked for advice and people gave you good advice. You decided to not take such advice and figure it out the hard way. Sometimes in life we need to do that. Same outcome.

If he’s so hung up on her why did he follow me back on social media?

he's triangulating you both to see who will dance harder. you're tapping pretty hard.


i've kind of been there. it sucks. don't let yourself be manipulated.

I don’t even think this is guy is trying to triangulate. The ex tossed him out and now he’s trying to strike at her. As another PP said, he’s trying to make the ex jealous. He’s hurt so he wants to hurt the ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

Wait, what? Are you serious with that conclusion? Geez, op, my heart hurts for you. Do you really not see what’s going on?

[Anonymous]

^ she’s so f@cked up I sincerely hope she’s a troll.

[Anonymous]

OP I do hope you’re a troll and not a real young woman. Because if you are real you are truly pathetic, completely devoid of self esteem, and honestly, you seem just plain stupid. As in low IQ stupid. You desperately look for proof that this man, who is nearly a decade older than you by the way (but behaves like an emotionally immature teen), genuinely likes you. Please ask yourself why you are so desperate for male attention. Here’s an idea. Maybe have a real conversation with him about his ex. Ask him if he hopes to get back together with him. I’m sure that’s asking too much of you because you both seem hopelessly immature. I always wonder where she was like Jerry Springer found their guests and reading your thread, I realize I know. I’m sorry your mother didn’t prepare you better and help you reach adulthood with confidence and self-esteem. I really think therapy could be useful for you. Good luck. You’ll need it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I do hope you’re a troll and not a real young woman. Because if you are real you are truly pathetic, completely devoid of self esteem, and honestly, you seem just plain stupid. As in low IQ stupid. You desperately look for proof that this man, who is nearly a decade older than you by the way (but behaves like an emotionally immature teen), genuinely likes you. Please ask yourself why you are so desperate for male attention. Here’s an idea. Maybe have a real conversation with him about his ex. Ask him if he hopes to get back together with him. I’m sure that’s asking too much of you because you both seem hopelessly immature. I always wonder where she was like Jerry Springer found their guests and reading your thread, I realize I know. I’m sorry your mother didn’t prepare you better and help you reach adulthood with confidence and self-esteem. I really think therapy could be useful for you. Good luck. You’ll need it.

Why would she even ask that? He texted her right after she left saying he’s working things out with his ex? Isn’t that proof enough that he wanted to get back together?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

Everything you just described demonstrates that what people were saying was 100% correct.
- that he was still hung up on his ex and not done with her
- that things wouldn’t work out for you
- and that you should move on (which you just did so yay)

If anything everyone was right. Not that it’s even about that. You asked for advice and people gave you good advice. You decided to not take such advice and figure it out the hard way. Sometimes in life we need to do that. Same outcome.

If he’s so hung up on her why did he follow me back on social media?

Not this again. People, do not feed this troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

Everything you just described demonstrates that what people were saying was 100% correct.
- that he was still hung up on his ex and not done with her
- that things wouldn’t work out for you
- and that you should move on (which you just did so yay)

If anything everyone was right. Not that it’s even about that. You asked for advice and people gave you good advice. You decided to not take such advice and figure it out the hard way. Sometimes in life we need to do that. Same outcome.

If he’s so hung up on her why did he follow me back on social media?

following you on social media means nothing. he wants to keep you as a fb option. nothing serious. grow up. move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

Everything you just described demonstrates that what people were saying was 100% correct.
- that he was still hung up on his ex and not done with her
- that things wouldn’t work out for you
- and that you should move on (which you just did so yay)

If anything everyone was right. Not that it’s even about that. You asked for advice and people gave you good advice. You decided to not take such advice and figure it out the hard way. Sometimes in life we need to do that. Same outcome.

If he’s so hung up on her why did he follow me back on social media?

following you on social media means nothing. he wants to keep you as a fb option. nothing serious. grow up. move on.

He did it to piss off his ex. You’re a pawn with a hole. Nothing more.

[Anonymous]

He's long distance. Find someone local to you who doesn't engage in this drama. Block the guy and his ex and just move on.

[Anonymous]

You need to read what I’m about to write a 100x over.

HE DOESNT WANT YOU. HE WILL NEVER WANT YOU. IN SPITE OF HIS DRAMA WITY HIS EX HE STILL WANTS HER.

[Anonymous]

OP you need SERIOUS HELP. take the blinders off and show some maturity, you are acting 15.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all of you were wrong ☺️

he started following me again on IG last night and I followed him back too. Not long after I get a message from his ex saying he got mad at her yesterday and just followed me to strike back at her. That he told her all about me and how he supposedly said he couldn’t wait for me to leave, texted her on vday, asked to go dinner the moment I left. She said he was posting things about her days before I came to see him. Said she had pictures of proof. All this other stuff. She ended it by saying he’s got issues and he’s judging me as a means to hurt her. She just wanted to warn me that so that I wouldn’t get hurt and wished me good luck.

I never looked at the pictures she sent me as “proof”. Just deleted him. I told him and he just said she’s just a jealous crazy ex who got upset when she heard about me. Then I blocked her

I’m clearly the one that he wants. I’m starting to think he just made up “working things out with my ex” because he got cold feet and came to his senses about me.

OK so you like to learn things the hard way. Cool. Get back to us when you are 30 and not married and have thrown your good years away on this man who doesn't want you.

IMO, women should not be married by 30. Early to mid 30s is a better goal.