My son is about to marry a blonde

[Anonymous]

Traditional Asian people believe whites are ignorant savages and blacks are subhuman. In a way they have a point--Asians were thousands of years ahead of both Europe and Africa for much of history.

While a traditional Asian mother in law May be a racist, at least she's probably not a tattoed crack addict or unmarried baby mama and she probably values education, money, and keeping a clean house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Traditional Asian people believe whites are ignorant savages and blacks are subhuman. In a way they have a point--Asians were thousands of years ahead of both Europe and Africa for much of history.

While a traditional Asian mother in law May be a racist, at least she's probably not a tattoed crack addict or unmarried baby mama and she probably values education, money, and keeping a clean house.

Nonsense, certain areas of Asia were advance for a period more advanced than Europe of course that did not last. I am not sure how she would "have a point" given large portions are poverty stricken and underdeveloped. There is a reason future mother in law left.

She may have "values education, money, and keeping a clean house" or she maybe giving tug jobs for $40 and living in a shack cooking stray dogs for dinner. Aren't stupid stereo types fun?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Traditional Asian people believe whites are ignorant savages and blacks are subhuman. In a way they have a point--Asians were thousands of years ahead of both Europe and Africa for much of history.

While a traditional Asian mother in law May be a racist, at least she's probably not a tattoed crack addict or unmarried baby mama and she probably values education, money, and keeping a clean house.

Just one thing I can't comprehend though. Why most of Asia is still such a sh*thole?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Traditional Asian people believe whites are ignorant savages and blacks are subhuman. In a way they have a point--Asians were thousands of years ahead of both Europe and Africa for much of history.

While a traditional Asian mother in law May be a racist, at least she's probably not a tattoed crack addict or unmarried baby mama and she probably values education, money, and keeping a clean house.

This is truly nonsense.
- Asian

[Anonymous]

You're not a traditional Asian. So your new fangled liberal opinion is irrelevant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're not a traditional Asian. So your new fangled liberal opinion is irrelevant.

Actually I am traditional Asian, I am not even an immigrant here, we are just staying a couple of years in the US due to my husband's employment.
My parents back home, both in their early 70s and who don't speak English at all, have never voiced an opinion like this.

I'm not sure what kind of 'traditional' values you were raised on, but please don't give us a bad impression with your skewed views.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First generation immigrant from Vietnam. Came here when I was 15 years old and my wife is also vietnamese. Living a good life in Great falls VA. Son is 26 years old and he informed my wife and I that he will get marry to his 22 years old blonde GF of one year next week. He just finished his medical residency and she just graduated with a BS degree in accounting. She is also a part time model. Before last week, I didn't even know he was even dating. The GF seems very nice and friendly.

I have some reservations about my son marry someone of a different race but I am open minded. My wife on the other hand, wanted him to marry to an Asian lady so she didn't take this very well. Her reason is that she always wanted a daughter in law who can speak vietnamese with her. My wife will not be attending the wedding and I am not allowed to attend either. She is not being reasonable.

I told my son and his GF, without telling my wife ofcourse, go ahead and get married. Have a wonderful life. You and your wife can come back when you have kids because time and grand kids will heal wound. They just left for CA this morning.

Not sure how I can convince my wife to get over this. Thoughts?

Just another reason why I hate Asian women. I say you divorce your bitch wife and marry me. I'm blonde.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First generation immigrant from Vietnam. Came here when I was 15 years old and my wife is also vietnamese. Living a good life in Great falls VA. Son is 26 years old and he informed my wife and I that he will get marry to his 22 years old blonde GF of one year next week. He just finished his medical residency and she just graduated with a BS degree in accounting. She is also a part time model. Before last week, I didn't even know he was even dating. The GF seems very nice and friendly.

I have some reservations about my son marry someone of a different race but I am open minded. My wife on the other hand, wanted him to marry to an Asian lady so she didn't take this very well. Her reason is that she always wanted a daughter in law who can speak vietnamese with her. My wife will not be attending the wedding and I am not allowed to attend either. She is not being reasonable.

I told my son and his GF, without telling my wife ofcourse, go ahead and get married. Have a wonderful life. You and your wife can come back when you have kids because time and grand kids will heal wound. They just left for CA this morning.

Not sure how I can convince my wife to get over this. Thoughts?

I applaud you for finding and posting on this message board. My idea: Get your shii-ey wife to meet up with your son and daughter-in-law at Eden Center. People bond over food. Take them to your favorite place there (I like Huong Viet, and I'm white and blonde). Lie to your shii-ey wife and say the blonde is extremely well-educated, comes from a very wealthy family, and that family employed Vietnamese people. She'll never know. She doesn't get online and doesn't know how to even use the Internet, right?

Next: Ask your daughter-in-law if she'd be willing to have a traditional Vietnamese wedding in addition to an American wedding, so you can separate out all those racist folks in your culture and the white people can have their own wedding without Asian bitches judging every thing little at the event.

I've solved all of your problems, except for the grandkids. That's going to be tough and unsolvable.

[Anonymous]

lol at all the people who believe OP is actually a Vietnamese man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:lol at all the people who believe OP is actually a Vietnamese man.

PP post must be an idiot. There are lot of Vietnamese living in Great Falls. One vietnamese dude even built a white house replica in great falls: https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/the-state-of-nova/post/the-white-house-is-for-sale-465-m-cheap/2011/04/11/AF8bLYND_blog.html?utm_term=.3b6b106d3c86

[Anonymous]

I hope your soon to be DIL cancels the wedding. She doesn’t need a life of the shit you and your wife will give her.

[Anonymous]

You use "blond" the way my grandma used the word "shiksa."

Time to rethink your vocabulary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:lol at all the people who believe OP is actually a Vietnamese man.

PP post must be an idiot. There are lot of Vietnamese living in Great Falls. One vietnamese dude even built a white house replica in great falls: https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/the-state-of-nova/post/the-white-house-is-for-sale-465-m-cheap/2011/04/11/AF8bLYND_blog.html?utm_term=.3b6b106d3c86

Clearly you're not Vietnamese and the idiot. There are tons of red flags in the OP that clearly shows OP is in fact a white person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:lol at all the people who believe OP is actually a Vietnamese man.

PP post must be an idiot. There are lot of Vietnamese living in Great Falls. One vietnamese dude even built a white house replica in great falls: https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/the-state-of-nova/post/the-white-house-is-for-sale-465-m-cheap/2011/04/11/AF8bLYND_blog.html?utm_term=.3b6b106d3c86

Clearly you're not Vietnamese and the idiot. There are tons of red flags in the OP that clearly shows OP is in fact a white person.

DP- are you Vietnamese? what are the red flags specifically?
I'm not Vietnamese nor white, just genuinely curious.

[Anonymous]

A white friend of mine had an Asian MIL. The MIL refused to speak to her and called the marriage a disgrace. They divorced eventually. Very sad. It’s hard to understand why MILs can be mean to the woman that their son loves.