Men, be honest, if your wife was fat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP that posted the photo. I am 26 years old, 5'9" 200 lbs, and pretty active. My doctors always tell me that I don't look like I weigh that much.

I believed you up until now. BS on the doctor comments for sure. You won't find many doctors willing to say such a thing to a patient. Pure BS.
Some dude is trolling hard.

I weigh 160 at 5 ft 2./My doctor had no problem expressing surprise when I stepped on the scale. They are not the swamis at the carnival guessing weight. Doctors can be wrong at eyeballing weight, easy.

[Anonymous]

Some of us look better with more weight. 5'2 and 138 lbs. ideal for me is 132-135. At 120, people thought I had an eating disorder or an obsession with being skinny. I remember a classmate and I were the same size/shape years ago and we were both shocked to find that I was 15 lbs heavier. At my current weight, I'm overweight per my BMI, yet have a six pack, love handles, and I'm toned. My only problem areas are my arms which aren't as tight as they used to be.

A size 14 on someone 5'7 could be Marilyn Monroe.

[Anonymous]

no love handles*

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am saddened by the majority of the posts on here. I am a size 18. Am I too big for you men? I am honestly curious.

Please tell me that you are either happily married or in a relationship. Some guy deserves to be very happy.

Don't you think if she were she wouldn't have been posting pictures to DCUM on a Friday night?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am saddened by the majority of the posts on here. I am a size 18. Am I too big for you men? I am honestly curious.

Please tell me that you are either happily married or in a relationship. Some guy deserves to be very happy.

Don't you think if she were she wouldn't have been posting pictures to DCUM on a Friday night?

I'm actually in a serious relationship, thank you very much. I can have an boring Friday night posting on DCUM. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP that posted the photo. I am 26 years old, 5'9" 200 lbs, and pretty active. My doctors always tell me that I don't look like I weigh that much.

I believed you up until now. BS on the doctor comments for sure. You won't find many doctors willing to say such a thing to a patient. Pure BS.
Some dude is trolling hard.

I weigh 160 at 5 ft 2./My doctor had no problem expressing surprise when I stepped on the scale. They are not the swamis at the carnival guessing weight. Doctors can be wrong at eyeballing weight, easy.

Still inappropriate to do. Doctors shouldn't be "eyeballing" your weight

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am saddened by the majority of the posts on here. I am a size 18. Am I too big for you men? I am honestly curious.

The mirror is slanted quite a bit PP, you should send a pic with an upright mirror image.

[Anonymous]

I wear an 18 and I have a FUPA. My SO loves my body and tells me so all the time with his mouth and hands and eyes and ... yeah. And he has other options for sure. He chose me big belly and all. Some men will love you at a size 14 some won't and it's OK whichever way the cookie crumbles for you. Mmmm cookies.

[Anonymous]

Here is a better photo

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is a better photo

Call me, I'm ready willing and able.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is a better photo

Genuinely curious why you would post a pic of yourself on an anonymous parenting board. Are you fishing for compliments from sad men in sexless marriages?

I'm 39, have 3 children (youngest is 6 months old) and am a size 6-8 depending on the store. I have a somewhat similar physique to you. I feel I could lose at least 10 pounds but I blame it on nursing. I am certain my husband thinks I am chubby and we both hope and want me to lose at least 10 pounds. I was a size 2 when we were dating. I became a size 4 after the birth of our first child and a size 4-6 after second. I want to go back to a size 4 and I think it is doable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is a better photo

You need to stop with the pictures. This is embarrassing. The thread was not about YOU and you've already succeeded in getting the middle aged sexless marriage dads to slobber over you. Come on now. Go back to Tinder with this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is a better photo

Ok. This picture is an older picture of you, at least 5 years. In this photo, you appear to be an 8/10. In the first picture, you are a very fit 12/14. You posted that you are 26yo, enjoy your figure. After having kids/turning 40, you will look VERY different at the same weight/clothing size.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Here is a better photo

Ok. This picture is an older picture of you, at least 5 years. In this photo, you appear to be an 8/10. In the first picture, you are a very fit 12/14. You posted that you are 26yo, enjoy your figure. After having kids/turning 40, you will look VERY different at the same weight/clothing size.

PP I agree with you since the legs are definitely slimmer.

Your last point however might be the norm it is not an absolute.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is a better photo

You aren't an 18 in that photo, unless you did some serious photoshopping.