Vent about my wedding last weekend...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I just made a wedding cake on Saturday and guess what? The humidity and heat caused it to fall apart.

August is probably the worst time to be having a wedding cake stay in one piece.

So really, it's your fault.

You're kidding right?
The cake didn't fall. It was ugly and the wrong flavor. As simple as that.
By any chance, are you the cake lady?

didnt you sign a contract with these people?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And she still hasn't explained what she's doing trolling on DCUM, without having any apparent reason to be on here. Isn't there a message board on theknot.com? Not that I care, but I need some entertainment while I eat my Ibero-American burrito.

People on DCUM don't get married?
I came here to research about adoption, I'm a teacher and I plan on to be a mother.
Is this a country club or something? Do I have to belong to a "certain class" to be part of it and I'm not aware of it?
That's funny!

See, she is just making it all up. Sometimes she acts like she's new to DCUM, and sometimes she says thing like she's been on DCUM for awhile. She didn't just happen upon the site to research adoption today.

One thing is clear - mental issues.

I never said I came here today to research adoption!!! I'm a teacher and a parent from one of my kids - who is adopted from Ibero-America - suggested me this website. I've been here for some time and I thought it would be cool to vent. It definitely was.
I'm almost over it... by the way it's cheaper than therapy

People on DCUM don't get married?
I came here to research about adoption, I'm a teacher and I plan on to be a mother.

[Anonymous]

Why is the last post a repeat post?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Doesn't Ibero-American refer to all Spanish-speaking countries in Central and South America? So would that still fall under Latino? It just eliminates the French, English, and Dutch origin countries like Haiti, Jamaica, Barbados, or Martinique?

You forgot about including Portuguese speaking countries!

[Anonymous]

It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

Way to run to your own defense, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

Way to run to your own defense, OP.

How could she possible write in two totally distinct voices like that? If that's OP, I'd like to learn that trick myself.

[Anonymous]

Oh my gosh. R you kidding me. You are worry about nothing...please, life is more difficult than this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh my gosh. R you kidding me. You are worry about nothing...please, life is more difficult than this.

Apparently not for some.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

Way to run to your own defense, OP.

How could she possible write in two totally distinct voices like that? If that's OP, I'd like to learn that trick myself.

It's easy if, like the OP, you have multiple voices in your head.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

Way to run to your own defense, OP.

How could she possible write in two totally distinct voices like that? If that's OP, I'd like to learn that trick myself.

It's easy if, like the OP, you have multiple voices in your head.

This line is hilarious!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

Oh, I'd have been itching to take it. Because by OP's own admission, she was a Bridezilla, and I'm going to add "high maintenance and difficult" to the list as well. Simply based on her behavior here, she comes across as high strung and needy. It would just be too much fun to drive her batty with something like the bouquet. Mean? Sure. But considering what I'm willing to wager she's put her friends through over the years... You really think this is the first time she's ever mentioned the cake and the endless litany of minor complaints she listed for us here? Oh yeah, it would have very, very tempting.

[Anonymous]

I have been checking this post like my DH checks his fantasy football scores on Sundays! OP and all the witty posters: Thank you for getting me through the day with a grin ear to ear! 45 minutes before I can go home. Please don't let the entertainment end!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems like we could have a little sympathy for OP. It's not like she is a pampered daddy's girl having a 100K gala at the Ritz. She did not even get the dress she wanted and then to have a "friend" take her bouquet. That's just wrong. I think her "friends" were angry about the taped-on names and felt it was snobby of her to be unwilling to ruin her dress. I suspect they are generally jealous of her accomplishments (new home, respectable job, good man).

I would also be willing to bet $500 that OP is an extremely attractive woman. What else could make women behave in such a catty fashion? I don't buy the theory that everyone thought the instruction to take home leftovers included the bridal bouquet. Other women know its significance very well.

Oh, I'd have been itching to take it. Because by OP's own admission, she was a Bridezilla, and I'm going to add "high maintenance and difficult" to the list as well. Simply based on her behavior here, she comes across as high strung and needy. It would just be too much fun to drive her batty with something like the bouquet. Mean? Sure. But considering what I'm willing to wager she's put her friends through over the years... You really think this is the first time she's ever mentioned the cake and the endless litany of minor complaints she listed for us here? Oh yeah, it would have very, very tempting.

Oh shut up! OP only said the cake was wrong, the flower folks didn't deliver some thing and the picture man humiliated her. I do believe her when she says she didn't bother people with her concerns. You're a classic example of how things on DCUM escalate out of proportion as the thread gets longer!

You old and experienced women should be ashamed of your behavior here! We all got married and we all know how stressful and emotionally overwhelming it is. The poor girl didn't even bring her family! We all had the little details we were picky about in our own weddings and we all had our chance to be a Bridezilla too.
OP said so many times she's only venting because this is online and anonymous. Give her some peace already!

OP my heart goes out to you and I hope you get your flowers back!

[Anonymous]

It's easy if, like the OP, you have multiple voices in your head.

Ha Ha!!! Too funny...