First dates feel like job interviews

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.

Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.

I always make effort to look decent when I’m in public . As a fitness person I’m looks conscious - both for myself and my date looks.

Do you see how you keep modulating your answers so it’s always just right? So weird, so pick me.

DP but do you see how you're picking a fight with an anon on the internet over some shit that will never apply to you anyway? So troll, so thirsty.

Thirsty is that woman who claims to go on coffee dates and workout in that bra she posted.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

Not the PP but as a woman to woman - why women who wear some day makeup wouldn’t deserve respect ?

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

Not the PP but as a woman to woman - why women who wear some day makeup wouldn’t deserve respect ?

It sounded like PP respects woman because they put in the time for their makeup. Me? I don’t care or have “respect” for it one way or another. Wear makeup, don’t. Whatever.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

Not the PP but as a woman to woman - why women who wear some day makeup wouldn’t deserve respect ?

It sounded like PP respects woman because they put in the time for their makeup. Me? I don’t care or have “respect” for it one way or another. Wear makeup, don’t. Whatever.

It sounded like you attacked them for wearing makeup to the gym.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

Not the PP but as a woman to woman - why women who wear some day makeup wouldn’t deserve respect ?

It sounded like PP respects woman because they put in the time for their makeup. Me? I don’t care or have “respect” for it one way or another. Wear makeup, don’t. Whatever.

It sounded like you attacked them for wearing makeup to the gym.

“Attack.” I can think someone’s post is weird and it’s not still an attack.

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First dates are definitely an interview. An interview for a second date, an interview for a potential future.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

Welp. You get what you pay for, amirite? You want a woman to go all-out, don't ask for a coffee date. No self-respecting woman is going to wear gym clothes to a nice restaurant or a show. But you don't want to pay for that. So that PP found a way to give you what your budget can afford, and you're still complaining.

Entitled ass.

Besides, men love tight leggings and low cut tops. I come to first intro dressed like a gym fitness babe. Essentially it looks like that:

https://shop.lululemon.com/p/women-sports-bras/lululemon-Align-Halter-Bra-Light-C-D-MD/_/prod11771034?color=0002&locale=en_US&sl=US&sz=8&cid=Google_SHOP_US_NAT_EN_X_BrandShop_Incr-All_OMNI_GEN_Y24_ag-SHOP_G_US_EN_DM_W_GEN_NO_Bras&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21471260535&gbraid=0AAAAADL8Avk3mVetn7M20ILILWBhOOzvg

Omg that is trashy! To each her own I guess.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.

Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.

DP - Bro, you can't have it at all, so why are you tantruming like this?

Bro, I'm a chick.

Nah, you're all bro, bro. And a dick, at that. Sorry you're so petty jealous you have to slag off another woman, pickmesha.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

I respect the effort makeup takes.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

Not the PP but as a woman to woman - why women who wear some day makeup wouldn’t deserve respect ?

It sounded like PP respects woman because they put in the time for their makeup. Me? I don’t care or have “respect” for it one way or another. Wear makeup, don’t. Whatever.

It sounded like you attacked them for wearing makeup to the gym.

“Attack.” I can think someone’s post is weird and it’s not still an attack.

Sure, sure. But when you're 20+ attacking comments into the thread, you know, there's context. Idiot.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.

You respect women who won’t leave the house without makeup? Did I read that right? (a woman by the way).

Not the PP but as a woman to woman - why women who wear some day makeup wouldn’t deserve respect ?

It sounded like PP respects woman because they put in the time for their makeup. Me? I don’t care or have “respect” for it one way or another. Wear makeup, don’t. Whatever.

It sounded like you attacked them for wearing makeup to the gym.

“Attack.” I can think someone’s post is weird and it’s not still an attack.

Sure, sure. But when you're 20+ attacking comments into the thread, you know, there's context. Idiot.

Oh lady, lots of posters see how weird your posts are. Since you clearly post for a reaction, you know this I’m sure.

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.

Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.

Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.

You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.

I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation

This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.

I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.

Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.

DP - Bro, you can't have it at all, so why are you tantruming like this?

Bro, I'm a chick.

Nah, you're all bro, bro. And a dick, at that. Sorry you're so petty jealous you have to slag off another woman, pickmesha.

Yes, Pickmesha is the name of the woman who goes to first dates in a sports bra to "show off the assets" as she put it.