First dates feel like job interviews

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


+1. Especially that outfit she posted. So funny that she posted all that after some stranger on the internet criticized her. So pick me.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.


I always make effort to look decent when I’m in public . As a fitness person I’m looks conscious - both for myself and my date looks.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


This is weird. I go to the gym at least 5 days a week and nearly all women tie up their hair and sweat off makeup.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.


I always make effort to look decent when I’m in public . As a fitness person I’m looks conscious - both for myself and my date looks.


Do you see how you keep modulating your answers so it’s always just right? So weird, so pick me.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


This is weird. I go to the gym at least 5 days a week and nearly all women tie up their hair and sweat off makeup.


You know you don’t need to have your face caked in make up, but still can wear makeup , right ? Sure, women put their hair up in a changing room before the workout . You never see any women with their hair down entering the gym ?
Stop nit picking on my answers. My recommendation was to women who are in shape - if you have a fat a…s and can’t wear tights to coffee dates, not my problem
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


This is weird. I go to the gym at least 5 days a week and nearly all women tie up their hair and sweat off makeup.


You know you don’t need to have your face caked in make up, but still can wear makeup , right ? Sure, women put their hair up in a changing room before the workout . You never see any women with their hair down entering the gym ?
Stop nit picking on my answers. My recommendation was to women who are in shape - if you have a fat a…s and can’t wear tights to coffee dates, not my problem


I think this is that desperate Eastern European woman. The odd turns of phrase and self-absorption are very on-brand.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.



You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


Not pp you're slagging off, and you sound like a horse's ass. You'd probably be blessed to have a date with someone like that, couchlump.

Also? Women wear makeup to the gym all the time. Personally, I don't (I don't usually wear makeup at all), but a lot of women don't leave the house w/o putting on their face, even for the gym. Respect. That takes time I don't want to spend and effort I'm not putting in to avoid the judgments of clowns like you.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.


DP - Bro, you can't have it at all, so why are you tantruming like this?

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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.


I always make effort to look decent when I’m in public . As a fitness person I’m looks conscious - both for myself and my date looks.


Do you see how you keep modulating your answers so it’s always just right? So weird, so pick me.


DP but do you see how you're picking a fight with an anon on the internet over some shit that will never apply to you anyway? So troll, so thirsty.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.


I always make effort to look decent when I’m in public . As a fitness person I’m looks conscious - both for myself and my date looks.


Do you see how you keep modulating your answers so it’s always just right? So weird, so pick me.


DP but do you see how you're picking a fight with an anon on the internet over some shit that will never apply to you anyway? So troll, so thirsty.


I’m constantly puzzled by people who post unnecessary detail on the internet and then get mad that people on the internet comment on it. Lame.
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


This is weird. I go to the gym at least 5 days a week and nearly all women tie up their hair and sweat off makeup.


You know you don’t need to have your face caked in make up, but still can wear makeup , right ? Sure, women put their hair up in a changing room before the workout . You never see any women with their hair down entering the gym ?
Stop nit picking on my answers. My recommendation was to women who are in shape - if you have a fat a…s and can’t wear tights to coffee dates, not my problem


Oh, honey. I realize believe you. Is that better?
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I’m a normal person who is allergic to any sign of gender stereotyping, so I follow the Ms Manners rules of whoever invited does the paying. If it is mutual then split/take turns.


Yeah, I bet. How many guys have you invited out for a first or second date to dinner?

There's an exception to every rule. It's you.


Women spend more on dating by investing in their looks and wardrobe. It would be economically unfair if they also split dinners. Go out with homey women in T-shirts they might pay for you dinners.





You mean like the woman who admits she shows up to dates in gym clothes? What an investment there.


I’m that woman who posted that. I said my first dates are coffee at a cafe on my way to the gym. I also wear really sexy and expensive gym clothes with low cut top, sneakers, and my hair&makeup is done for these coffee dates. To show the assets.
If there is a second date with a man I like, I’ll be dressed out to my teeth. But I try the first intro to be practically free for the man and my goal is to see if we like each other in low key standard daily life situation


This isn’t a saying. Also so weird to arrive at the gym in full makeup and hair done. You sound bizarre.


I have natural waves and wear day make up. I wear it to my gym anyway.


Oh. So you’ve made an effort or you haven’t made an effort for these “cafe dates”? You can’t have it both ways.


DP - Bro, you can't have it at all, so why are you tantruming like this?



Bro, I'm a chick.
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