Wife won’t sleep with me

[Anonymous]

This reads like a troll thread

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This reads like a troll thread

It’s not. It’s a two-fer though.

OP is the workaholic, absent father, take it out on his wife type that results in no intimacy.

And then there’s a poster whose husband is a total unhygienic slob with poop smears, food debris and trash everywhere, that also results in no intimacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

What’s this part where you get “angry” when anything is brought up?

That’s a dealbreaker for sex or a continued marriage for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

What’s this part where you get “angry” when anything is brought up?

That’s a dealbreaker for sex or a continued marriage for me.

Yes men get angry at obvious attempts at deflection to avoid the real issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

What’s this part where you get “angry” when anything is brought up?

That’s a dealbreaker for sex or a continued marriage for me.

Yes men get angry at obvious attempts at deflection to avoid the real issue.

So do you turn around and sleep with that the next night?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

Put your foot down and let her know that you won't be in a marriage without sex/intimacy.

[Anonymous]

“Playing the long game at work?”

Are you a workaholic? Very common around here. Do you chronically reject your wife in favor of work events during non work hours? Do you prefer work to your family and then act entitled to sex? Or are you stressed at work, working longer hours to try to deal with the stress, and then coming home late and moody?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

What’s this part where you get “angry” when anything is brought up?

That’s a dealbreaker for sex or a continued marriage for me.

Yes men get angry at obvious attempts at deflection to avoid the real issue.

No, toddlers do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

Put your foot down and let her know that you won't be in a marriage without sex/intimacy.

OP is an abusive a-hole whose wife won’t sleep with him. He’s likely an awful father too, neglectful and angry.

He should walk away forever from all of them and let them be.

And then he can go work and have $x.

Win win win for wife, kids, and him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Housework is foreplay.

This is a huge myth. More housework won't get him laid. They should see a counselor though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Housework is foreplay.

This is a huge myth. More housework won't get him laid. They should see a counselor though.

behaving like a temper tantruming manchild won’t get him laid.

He needs to gtfo of there and live by himself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Housework is foreplay.

This is a huge myth. More housework won't get him laid. They should see a counselor though.

behaving like a temper tantruming manchild won’t get him laid.

He needs to gtfo of there and live by himself.

There are a million things that won't get him laid and very few (if any) things that will.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

[youtube] https://youtu.be/Y-wI5P7FRSM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s been more than a few years and we both work, now have two middle schoolers and did a big move to the area two years back.

I get frisky and initiate but she does not reciprocate. Once she got sad and said it’s because she is too hurt, something about how I’m not helping run the family and then I get angry when it’s brought up. I work very hard and am playing the long game at work. We also take great family vacations.

But is no sex a grounds for divorce? Sounds like she also is unhappy but about other stuff.

[youtube] https://youtu.be/Y-wI5P7FRSM

Amazing! And zero mention of parenting or cleaning or scheduling. The magic fairy must do that all.
It all and only comes down to sex. Who knew!!??!
Life is so good and so easy! All that matters is sex folks!

[Anonymous]

And role play. That’s the trick!