My recently turned 17-year old son we have delayed. He isn’t driving yet. Older brother we really didn’t let drive much alone until Senior year and he is very cautious, responsible and had been driving with us in the car since sophomore year. I always thought 16 was too young for boys, even responsible ones. |
^ no driving friends right away. Then only one other person in the car. Couldn’t be out driving past 11pm at first. Distance. No highway driving initially, etc.
Each additional teen in the car exponentially increases the risk of an accident. |
And there are a lot of ways to track their driving behavior. Do this. And let them know that if you see reckless driving, you will take the keys. |
I agree. My kids are super responsible, clever etc and I won’t let them drive unsupervised until they’re 18. It’s just not safe. Half the time I don’t even feel that it’s safe for me to drive!! You can be the best driver in the world but there are tons of idiots out there. |
South County high school is not in Springfield. It is farther out, in Lorton. |
Very wise of you. It is not easy. I made my daughter wait until 17 before even starting to learn. I tried to get other parents to go along with this safer timeline. People, what could possibly matter more? It is the leading cause of death for young people. |
Lots of kids out late for proms this time of year. |
Everyone says Jeeps are rollover death-traps and unsafe for teen drivers - but as many Jeeps as we have in the DC area, and the number has to be in the tens of thousands, I cannot recall ever seeing or even hearing about a rollover crash that killed some teen drivers and passengers. I’m not saying it probably hasn’t happened…somewhere… but I cannot think of even one local example. Compare that to BMW’s, where I can think of a minimum of a half dozen local crashes in the just last decade that killed teens. |
+1 How anyone can advocate banning guns but say nothing about banning high powered cars is obtuse. No one needs a car that can go faster than 75-80 mph. Cars should be equipped with a GPS sensor that prevents them from exceeding the posted speed limit on whatever road they’re on. Self-driving cars manage to not speed. Human drivers should have the same technology imposed on them. |
I drive a kid to and from practice in Springfield (from DC)—395 is a death trap any night of the week coming back at 9pm. People are racing each other and weaving out of lanes at top speed. He’s 17 and I will not let him drive to/from practice. Drivers have gotten considerably worse everywhere since Covid. |
I can’t believe how many posts there are like this on page re car. We let our HS student drive a BMW that we bought used 8 years earlier for $25k. I’m not up on cars, but the model has nothing to do with the crash, though they aren’t tin cans like you’d probably prefer. I’m just pointing out that we didn’t buy a $60K car for our DS. That’s why these posts are off point as some weird gotcha. |
I think the car racing on busy roads is less about post covid driving, and more about social media live streaming and video clicks. |
BMWs kill 125+ people a day in America? Why isn’t this headline news? |
Why so many teens crashing BMWs? |
Why so many parents allowing your kids to get into cars you don't approve of? Easy solution. |