Who Is Most Out Of Bounds Here?

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Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Cheaters are wild.

And here’s the thing about cheaters their mind is so effing demented. They actually don’t see how messed up they are


And yet the DH was friends with him for years and years. He was obviously ok with it.


Nice try cheater.

Many of us know cheaters we can’t just push them all out of our lives. Neighbors, friends, husbands, friends, wives, brother-in-law’s.., We can’t dump every single solitary cheater out there


So you choose to be complicit in their behavior because you need them in your life. But somehow have the never to come here and call everyone who disagrees with you a cheater. Why can’t you push cheaters out? Is it because you are ok with their behavior?


Because some of them are related to me. Because some of them are having mental health breakdowns, and I’m trying to help them through it. Because I’m a compassionate person. I’m friends with addicts too. I’m friends with with somebody who has been in jail.

Your friends with people that commit crimes you just don’t know it. They’re probably probably white collar crimes.


Then what are you even blabbering about? How can you possibly be ok with his wife and kids being the collateral in all of this. You are contradicting yourself big time.
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Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.


Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.


Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.


Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen


So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.


Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.


But DH knew and was ok with keeping the silence


So?

I knew my friend was having an affair when her husband asked me were you with her last weekend I said no. I didn’t go out of my way to tell him, but I also wasn’t gonna lie for her .

Should’ve known better than to use me as an alibi.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Cheaters are wild.

And here’s the thing about cheaters their mind is so effing demented. They actually don’t see how messed up they are


And yet the DH was friends with him for years and years. He was obviously ok with it.


Nice try cheater.

Many of us know cheaters we can’t just push them all out of our lives. Neighbors, friends, husbands, friends, wives, brother-in-law’s.., We can’t dump every single solitary cheater out there


So you choose to be complicit in their behavior because you need them in your life. But somehow have the never to come here and call everyone who disagrees with you a cheater. Why can’t you push cheaters out? Is it because you are ok with their behavior?


Because some of them are related to me. Because some of them are having mental health breakdowns, and I’m trying to help them through it. Because I’m a compassionate person. I’m friends with addicts too. I’m friends with with somebody who has been in jail.

Your friends with people that commit crimes you just don’t know it. They’re probably probably white collar crimes.


Then what are you even blabbering about? How can you possibly be ok with his wife and kids being the collateral in all of this. You are contradicting yourself big time.


Dave through a grenade and I got thrown back at him. It’s his fault and his fault only.

It’s like when my friend used me as an alibi for her affair and I told her has been the truth. I have Compassion for what she was going through, but I’m also not gonna lie for her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.


Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.


Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.


Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen


So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.


Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.


But DH knew and was ok with keeping the silence


So?

I knew my friend was having an affair when her husband asked me were you with her last weekend I said no. I didn’t go out of my way to tell him, but I also wasn’t gonna lie for her .

Should’ve known better than to use me as an alibi.


It’s ok to be honest. Of course!!! It’s not ok to put your friend on blast on social media after keeping her secret for god knows how long. It’s even ok to tell her husband privately if that’s what your conscience is telling you to do.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Cheaters are wild.

And here’s the thing about cheaters their mind is so effing demented. They actually don’t see how messed up they are


And yet the DH was friends with him for years and years. He was obviously ok with it.


Nice try cheater.

Many of us know cheaters we can’t just push them all out of our lives. Neighbors, friends, husbands, friends, wives, brother-in-law’s.., We can’t dump every single solitary cheater out there


So you choose to be complicit in their behavior because you need them in your life. But somehow have the never to come here and call everyone who disagrees with you a cheater. Why can’t you push cheaters out? Is it because you are ok with their behavior?


Because some of them are related to me. Because some of them are having mental health breakdowns, and I’m trying to help them through it. Because I’m a compassionate person. I’m friends with addicts too. I’m friends with with somebody who has been in jail.

Your friends with people that commit crimes you just don’t know it. They’re probably probably white collar crimes.


Then what are you even blabbering about? How can you possibly be ok with his wife and kids being the collateral in all of this. You are contradicting yourself big time.


Dave through a grenade and I got thrown back at him. It’s his fault and his fault only.

It’s like when my friend used me as an alibi for her affair and I told her has been the truth. I have Compassion for what she was going through, but I’m also not gonna lie for her.


Your posts have zero logic and I can no longer follow them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.


Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.


Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.


Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen


So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.


Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.


But DH knew and was ok with keeping the silence


So?

I knew my friend was having an affair when her husband asked me were you with her last weekend I said no. I didn’t go out of my way to tell him, but I also wasn’t gonna lie for her .

Should’ve known better than to use me as an alibi.


It’s ok to be honest. Of course!!! It’s not ok to put your friend on blast on social media after keeping her secret for god knows how long. It’s even ok to tell her husband privately if that’s what your conscience is telling you to do.


If they blast me on social media, I’ll blast them back.

I didn’t tell him privately. We were with a group of people and he said was my wife with you last weekend and I said no.
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OP, do you identify as "fat"?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Cheaters are wild.

And here’s the thing about cheaters their mind is so effing demented. They actually don’t see how messed up they are


And yet the DH was friends with him for years and years. He was obviously ok with it.


Nice try cheater.

Many of us know cheaters we can’t just push them all out of our lives. Neighbors, friends, husbands, friends, wives, brother-in-law’s.., We can’t dump every single solitary cheater out there


So you choose to be complicit in their behavior because you need them in your life. But somehow have the never to come here and call everyone who disagrees with you a cheater. Why can’t you push cheaters out? Is it because you are ok with their behavior?


Because some of them are related to me. Because some of them are having mental health breakdowns, and I’m trying to help them through it. Because I’m a compassionate person. I’m friends with addicts too. I’m friends with with somebody who has been in jail.

Your friends with people that commit crimes you just don’t know it. They’re probably probably white collar crimes.


Then what are you even blabbering about? How can you possibly be ok with his wife and kids being the collateral in all of this. You are contradicting yourself big time.


Dave through a grenade and I got thrown back at him. It’s his fault and his fault only.

It’s like when my friend used me as an alibi for her affair and I told her has been the truth. I have Compassion for what she was going through, but I’m also not gonna lie for her.


Your posts have zero logic and I can no longer follow them.


It’s hard for cheaters to understand logic. I get it you’re a cheater and if you ever get put on blast, you want it to be done in private.

Your need for people to coddle you is unbelievable
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...


Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?


Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Ask OP how nice of a guy her DH is. This can't be the first time he's gone ballistic. If he cared about the right thing he would have dumped Dave and told his wife all about him. He's not that guy.


Nice guy? Who cares?

I want a guy who stands up against bullies not a “nice guy”.

Maybe you think lemmings are better but I don’t. I want somebody who is strong and doesn’t standby. Abuse.


Ha so you're ok with a an aggressive loser who treats you like garbage as long as he's ready to fight with bullies? Gee, what standards you have.


Nobody would ever treat me like garbage because I would leave them in the desk and I would blow them up on the way out the way DH Did with Dave.

I will love forever, a person that stands up against hatred. Just like that show What would you do?

I love the people that stand up to hateful people, but I can’t stand the people that just let it happen


So you would be ok married to a guy who was friends with cheaters? Yuck. OPs guy is like that.


Of course.

My H is friends with cheaters, so am I. They all eventually get caught and blow up their families.

If you’re not friends with cheaters, then you just don’t know that they’re cheating. Which means you are friends with cheaters you’re just in the dark.


But DH knew and was ok with keeping the silence


So?

I knew my friend was having an affair when her husband asked me were you with her last weekend I said no. I didn’t go out of my way to tell him, but I also wasn’t gonna lie for her .

Should’ve known better than to use me as an alibi.


It’s ok to be honest. Of course!!! It’s not ok to put your friend on blast on social media after keeping her secret for god knows how long. It’s even ok to tell her husband privately if that’s what your conscience is telling you to do.


If they blast me on social media, I’ll blast them back.

I didn’t tell him privately. We were with a group of people and he said was my wife with you last weekend and I said no.


So you have no integrity after all. Just like Dave and OP’s husband.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Cheaters are wild.

And here’s the thing about cheaters their mind is so effing demented. They actually don’t see how messed up they are


And yet the DH was friends with him for years and years. He was obviously ok with it.


Nice try cheater.

Many of us know cheaters we can’t just push them all out of our lives. Neighbors, friends, husbands, friends, wives, brother-in-law’s.., We can’t dump every single solitary cheater out there


So you choose to be complicit in their behavior because you need them in your life. But somehow have the never to come here and call everyone who disagrees with you a cheater. Why can’t you push cheaters out? Is it because you are ok with their behavior?


Because some of them are related to me. Because some of them are having mental health breakdowns, and I’m trying to help them through it. Because I’m a compassionate person. I’m friends with addicts too. I’m friends with with somebody who has been in jail.

Your friends with people that commit crimes you just don’t know it. They’re probably probably white collar crimes.


Then what are you even blabbering about? How can you possibly be ok with his wife and kids being the collateral in all of this. You are contradicting yourself big time.


Dave through a grenade and I got thrown back at him. It’s his fault and his fault only.

It’s like when my friend used me as an alibi for her affair and I told her has been the truth. I have Compassion for what she was going through, but I’m also not gonna lie for her.


Your posts have zero logic and I can no longer follow them.


It’s hard for cheaters to understand logic. I get it you’re a cheater and if you ever get put on blast, you want it to be done in private.

Your need for people to coddle you is unbelievable


You’re just dumb.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"his vicious temper"
Omg lol. Outing a cheater is now a vicious temper. Anything to deflect blame off the cheater himself!! Amazing!


Cheaters are wild.

And here’s the thing about cheaters their mind is so effing demented. They actually don’t see how messed up they are


And yet the DH was friends with him for years and years. He was obviously ok with it.


Nice try cheater.

Many of us know cheaters we can’t just push them all out of our lives. Neighbors, friends, husbands, friends, wives, brother-in-law’s.., We can’t dump every single solitary cheater out there


So you choose to be complicit in their behavior because you need them in your life. But somehow have the never to come here and call everyone who disagrees with you a cheater. Why can’t you push cheaters out? Is it because you are ok with their behavior?


Because some of them are related to me. Because some of them are having mental health breakdowns, and I’m trying to help them through it. Because I’m a compassionate person. I’m friends with addicts too. I’m friends with with somebody who has been in jail.

Your friends with people that commit crimes you just don’t know it. They’re probably probably white collar crimes.


Then what are you even blabbering about? How can you possibly be ok with his wife and kids being the collateral in all of this. You are contradicting yourself big time.


Dave through a grenade and I got thrown back at him. It’s his fault and his fault only.

It’s like when my friend used me as an alibi for her affair and I told her has been the truth. I have Compassion for what she was going through, but I’m also not gonna lie for her.


Dp. You do come across as very compassionate. /s
Anonymous
I assumed the photo and comment were on OP's Facebook account. And not clear if Nuke Daddy made his comment on their as himself or from her account.
Anyway, maybe Nuke Daddy isn't on social media or Mrs Dave had no way to message him or she was contacting OP feeling betrayed because she thought OP was her friend in real life.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...


Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?


Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.


Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...


Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair. This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.

I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?


Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.

But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation.


We ARE blaming the cheater but we have compassion for the person he cheated on JFC!!!
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