He doesn’t want to see me after I disclosed health results

[Anonymous]

I’m embarrassed to say I’m old enough that I should know better (OP).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m embarrassed to say I’m old enough that I should know better (OP).

then you know not to waste your energy on this guy!! I was asking you age not to embarrass you for being old enough to know better, but just if you were younger not to waste your time. assuming you are past marriage/babies age, the advice is to not waste your energy on this dummy.

[Anonymous]

I appreciate that PP! Yeah I’m past all that but I got too attached to this guy and I’m having a harder time forgetting him than a less sensitive person would.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel so dumb and ashamed and feel like maybe I shouldn’t have disclosed (OP).

You did what you thought was right. To not tell would've gone against your character and you would likely feel guilt. He didn't respond well, which sucks, but your integrity is intact.

Agreed. OP you followed your heart, which won’t guide you wrong. You can’t help his reaction but you can feel secure that you did what you felt was right.

[Anonymous]

It’s weird that he wouldn’t want to see you after you shared the results.

[Anonymous]

I can’t believe people flip out over low risk HPV.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a loser OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s weird that he wouldn’t want to see you after you shared the results.

He was probably sleeping with someone else and feels guilty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s weird that he wouldn’t want to see you after you shared the results.

He was probably sleeping with someone else and feels guilty.

Why do you say that PP?

[Anonymous]

Why do people keep suggesting that OP’s guy was sleeping around?

[Anonymous]

Im sorry this happened to you OP

[Anonymous]

He's just not that into you.

[Anonymous]

He’s freaking out over the HPV and doesn’t know how to deal with it.

[Anonymous]

What's your body count

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do people keep suggesting that OP’s guy was sleeping around?

Because she had a clean panel before they started sleeping together, and apparently so did he. So it sounds like he was sleeping around, got it from someone else, and gave to OP.