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Anonymous wrote:I am tired of the roommates being blamed.
And? What if your daughter's roommate did nothing while your kid got murdered. She was safely locked in her room. Her inaction for seven hours inexcusable.
She lived in a party house with a bunch of roommates, and drunken shenanigans at all hours. She knew enough to feel nervous but obviously never imagined MURDERS were taking place. Ffs some of you people are heartless.
+1 it's been hard for my brain to take me back there, at first when I read the report I was pretty horrified and confused. But if you really take yourself back to a super crazy party house in college with lots of roommates (which it was reported this house was even before the affadavit, it was the house where lots of people were coming and going), you can sort of get in the headspace where she assumed it was a weird hook up and he'd left. I don't know how close she was to the roommate, I was usually close to my roommates so would have gone to check if they are ok. But post college I lived in a house with 5 people and I didn't know all of them that well, so i maybe wouldn't have been as comfortable? I mean personally I'm always the one that calls 911 even in college I was the friend being like uhh something is wrong here and dealing with it, that being said I had plenty of friends who are nice people who I can imagine being very passive in a situation like this. Also, masks aren't that weird now... which is a factor.
At first I was horrified she didn't call the police but thinking back to when I was in my early 20s and lived in a house with 3 other girls, I can understand.
I was friends with one of the girls but didn't know the other two very well. One of them was strange and had a constant stream of guys coming and going from the house. They were big drinkers. If I'd heard her crying and saw a strange guy leaving, I would've assumed she had a fight with her guy of the moment. The mask thing is weird but I also don't think the poor girl suspected a murderer. There were several times I heard people coming into the house, stuck my head out, saw someone I didn't recognize and went back in my room and locked the door, simply because I didn't want some random guy coming into my room. Never would I have thought my roommate was being murdered. That poor girl has to live with this the rest of her life.