How old were you when you first had sex?

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Anonymous wrote:32 and he's my DH. I was a VERY late bloomer, very shy, and didn't date much until I got older and broke out if my shell. I don't know anyone who was older than me when they 1st had sex or even over 30 for that matter!

Was your DH a virgin as well?


How long were you together when it happened?


How long have you guys been married?


Sorry for the personal questions- I'll be 32 this fall and I'm like you described yourself.

DH was definitely not a virgin! We met and dated for 3 months before having sex. I told him I was a virgin and he was very patient with me and made the whole experience very special. We got engaged about 6 months later and have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids!

Truthfully? This is a very nice story. When you read about all the people on here with affairs and who knows whatever, I am sure he loves you to pieces.

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Anonymous wrote:32 and he's my DH. I was a VERY late bloomer, very shy, and didn't date much until I got older and broke out if my shell. I don't know anyone who was older than me when they 1st had sex or even over 30 for that matter!

Was your DH a virgin as well?


How long were you together when it happened?


How long have you guys been married?


Sorry for the personal questions- I'll be 32 this fall and I'm like you described yourself.

DH was definitely not a virgin! We met and dated for 3 months before having sex. I told him I was a virgin and he was very patient with me and made the whole experience very special. We got engaged about 6 months later and have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids!

Thanks for answering. Hope I can end up like you.

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Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.

Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.

I am a pp, had sex at 15. I was an insecure, unhappy person with zero self-esteem. My father was absent and my mother was not much of a parent. I would describe myself as a "slut" - as in, having sex with guys outside of the context of a relationship or very early in a relationship. Teen girls who are promiscuous (sluts) usually behave this way because they lack self-esteem. They don't value themselves - probably because they are not valued by their parents. This is not something to criticize, judge or make fun of. It is sad. Do better for your daughters so that they don't disrespect themselves.
Sorry. Lecture over.

I'm so sorry pp, I hope your life turned out well. You sound very insightful and wise.

And some teenage "sluts" do it because they enjoy the sex, excitement, and challenge. just like boys.

+1, I just thought it was fun!

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Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?

I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!

Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.

God, how lame are you? Why don't you pray on it?

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Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?

I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!

Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.

God, how lame are you? Why don't you pray on it?

Not PP, but I sense a bit of self-loathing in your comment.

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17, like previous poster wanted to get it over with- make it nit such a big deal. It was my highschool bf, nice guy.

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It's not self-loathing to find prudishness and magical thinking lame.

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Anonymous wrote:13! Heck no!

Slut much?

Asshole much? You have no idea about this person's circumstances.

Don't take the bait PP. Anyone who would say "slut much?" to someone who said 13 is an insecure, unhappy person who gets their jollies being mean or trying to get reactions on anonymous message boards. Think about how pathetic it is, and don't get upset when you see stuff like that. It just plays right into their sad little hands.

I am a pp, had sex at 15. I was an insecure, unhappy person with zero self-esteem. My father was absent and my mother was not much of a parent. I would describe myself as a "slut" - as in, having sex with guys outside of the context of a relationship or very early in a relationship. Teen girls who are promiscuous (sluts) usually behave this way because they lack self-esteem. They don't value themselves - probably because they are not valued by their parents. This is not something to criticize, judge or make fun of. It is sad. Do better for your daughters so that they don't disrespect themselves.
Sorry. Lecture over.

I'm so sorry pp, I hope your life turned out well. You sound very insightful and wise.

And some teenage "sluts" do it because they enjoy the sex, excitement, and challenge. just like boys.

+1, I just thought it was fun!

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Anonymous wrote:16 and Facebook friends (he married a woman who looks just like me but 10 years my junior !

20. We're facebook friends, and see each other in person every 1-2 years when mutual college friends come to town because we both live in DC.

He also married a woman who looks eerily like me.

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15. No we are no longer in touch.

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And no we don't have a relationship, we're "friends" on facebook.

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14. I thought I was in love. My children won't leave the house until they're 40.

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20. I was waiting until I was in love. But I got tired of waiting and lost it, drunkenly, to a high school friend when I was home from college. We're fb friends but definitely not in contact. I was OK with it, no regrets, but then he blew me off hard every time I was back in town after that. Douche. Looked like an Abercrombie model, but total fucking douche. He's still in the same lame town waiting tables, just like he was then. Bye Felicia.

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20 or 21, I can't remember. We dated for almost a year. We were such polar opposites in so many ways so we don't really talk now and aren't FB friends either (although I'm not sure if he's even on FB). Wish him well though.