Should I tell my wife that I got the OW pregnant?

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like there are people here who aren't sane claiming everybody's life is ruined irreparably and so on. This situation sucks. OP you effed it all up. But ruined everybody's life? C'mon now people. I have been married and I have been divorced (iunfaithful husband, natch) and life sucks ass for a bit and then it goes on.

Have you had your parents break up when you were three and have to go from seeing your mother every day to shuttling back and forth between households and living with a strange woman when you have no capacity to understand why?

If not then STFU.

If you don't get the difference between your experience divorcing as an adult and this toddler's experience, and of you think that any decent woman would put a toddler through that, again you are nuts.

Nope I was 10, neither of my parents cheated but they divorced which was best for all of us, and LIFE WENT THE FUCK ON.

+1 NP who's parents divorced when I was 2 so I beat you PP. It was my mom that remarried suspiciously within a year. Life went on. And knowing my parents today, my life was definitely better than had they decided to stay together and fight like cats and dogs for the next few decades.

NP I wish my parents divorced when I was young. My mother would have been spared years of abuse. My relationship with her could have been different. My life could have unfolded in a completely different direction. Of course, there is no way of knowing if it would be better, but at least my childhood and adolescence wouldn't be marred by an intolerable family situation.

So I agree that this sucks. But the world keeps on going, and so will OP and her children.

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Anonymous wrote:No seriously OP - DON'T marry OW for at least 3 years. Wait and see. Trust me.

Maybe OP doesn't want the kid to be born out of wedlock. (Not sure of the timing here.)

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Marry, not marry, what's the difference in this case? He's stuck with both women for the foreseeable future either way.

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I wonder which lucky woman gets the prize of having OP around for the blizzard. Does he leave his wife and daughter to fend for themselves, or his pregnant girlfriend? Such a dilemma...

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder which lucky woman gets the prize of having OP around for the blizzard. Does he leave his wife and daughter to fend for themselves, or his pregnant girlfriend? Such a dilemma...

OP here, wife is out of town for work so I took my daughter to my girlfriend's place.

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^^ yuck

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Anonymous wrote:^^ yuck

+1. Gross

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder which lucky woman gets the prize of having OP around for the blizzard. Does he leave his wife and daughter to fend for themselves, or his pregnant girlfriend? Such a dilemma...

OP here, wife is out of town for work so I took my daughter to my girlfriend's place.

Wait, how old is your daughter again? 3? You think she won't say anything to her mother about being at Daddy's friend's house?

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Aww how cute! I'm sure your 3 year old won't be confused or upset at all....

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It's good that the 3 yr old gets to bond with this woman. She's going to be her step mother one day.

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Anonymous wrote:Aww how cute! I'm sure your 3 year old won't be confused or upset at all....

And I'm sure she won't say anything to Mommy about Daddy's nice friend she spent the snowstorm with.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder which lucky woman gets the prize of having OP around for the blizzard. Does he leave his wife and daughter to fend for themselves, or his pregnant girlfriend? Such a dilemma...

OP here, wife is out of town for work so I took my daughter to my girlfriend's place.

Wait, how old is your daughter again? 3? You think she won't say anything to her mother about being at Daddy's friend's house?

My wife knows where we are.

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Anonymous wrote:At least wait until you know if it's a viable pregnancy. Are you planning to live with OW and raise this child?

Yes, it's only right that I marry her once my divorce is final.

LOL. Because ethics and all.

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder which lucky woman gets the prize of having OP around for the blizzard. Does he leave his wife and daughter to fend for themselves, or his pregnant girlfriend? Such a dilemma...

OP here, wife is out of town for work so I took my daughter to my girlfriend's place.

Wait, how old is your daughter again? 3? You think she won't say anything to her mother about being at Daddy's friend's house?

My wife knows where we are.

Does your child's therapist? Dumb ass.