Should I tell my wife that I got the OW pregnant?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At least wait until you know if it's a viable pregnancy. Are you planning to live with OW and raise this child?

Yes, it's only right that I marry her once my divorce is final.

LOL you have no idea what the right thing is. if you did you wouldn't be where you are now

[Anonymous]

I put ruined in air quotes because I think saying ruined is a bit dramatic. She's still young and beautiful and has time to find another man and remarry and have another baby somewhere down the line.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At least wait until you know if it's a viable pregnancy. Are you planning to live with OW and raise this child?

Yes, it's only right that I marry her once my divorce is final.

LOL you have no idea what the right thing is. if you did you wouldn't be where you are now

I made a mistake and I can't apologize to my wife enough for it.

[Anonymous]

You're an idiot. She was not on the pill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well your dick got you in a deep trouble. How come you did not use birth control? I guess the baby is coming so too late now. Do you have kids?

I would kick you to curb and take you for everything. I would do this so the skank that you end up with Have no money.

You like a loser and a soon to be broke loser at that.

Yes, I have a three year old. We used protection, she told me she was on the pill.

So uh, she LIED to you? Kind of ironic, don't you think??

[Anonymous]

Tell her. She deserves to know the whole truth in real time, finally.
She may be having all kinds of second thoughts and doubts about the divorce. This news will assure her she made and is making the right decision. Give her some peace.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At least wait until you know if it's a viable pregnancy. Are you planning to live with OW and raise this child?

Yes, it's only right that I marry her once my divorce is final.

Why are you deciding to do what is “right” now?
Frankly, I think you are scum and your soon-to-be ex-wife is lucky to be rid of you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At least wait until you know if it's a viable pregnancy. Are you planning to live with OW and raise this child?

Yes, it's only right that I marry her once my divorce is final.

LOL you have no idea what the right thing is. if you did you wouldn't be where you are now

I made a mistake and I can't apologize to my wife enough for it.

No. No. A mistake would maybe be sleeping with this OW once. You had a full blown affair and when your wife asked, you lied and. Then when REALLY confronted, you admitted it but said it was over, another lie/mistake. I hope your wife ass-effs you in court

[Anonymous]

Tell OW you're so excited to have kids with her (or if it's too late to do that convincingly that you've come around) but with the divorce and selling the house the timing isn't right, that you want to do it right, get engaged, and have a baby soon, but at the right time. Then drive her to planned parenthood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell her. She deserves to know the whole truth in real time, finally.
She may be having all kinds of second thoughts and doubts about the divorce. This news will assure her she made and is making the right decision. Give her some peace.

She's made it clear that she's not having second thoughts. She told me she'll never trust another man again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell OW you're so excited to have kids with her (or if it's too late to do that convincingly that you've come around) but with the divorce and selling the house the timing isn't right, that you want to do it right, get engaged, and have a baby soon, but at the right time. Then drive her to planned parenthood.

I'm not going to do that. We're looking forward to raising this baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well your dick got you in a deep trouble. How come you did not use birth control? I guess the baby is coming so too late now. Do you have kids?

I would kick you to curb and take you for everything. I would do this so the skank that you end up with Have no money.

You like a loser and a soon to be broke loser at that.

Yes, I have a three year old. We used protection, she told me she was on the pill.

Ha! "We" did not use BC. Glad to hear you did not at least wear a condom to protect your wife from your ho. I hate you. Your wife hates and I bet your kid does too.

Leave the house and your bank account to your wife. You derseve nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell OW you're so excited to have kids with her (or if it's too late to do that convincingly that you've come around) but with the divorce and selling the house the timing isn't right, that you want to do it right, get engaged, and have a baby soon, but at the right time. Then drive her to planned parenthood.

I'm not going to do that. We're looking forward to raising this baby.

BUT less than 3 years ago you weren't? And now aren't going to be a full time Father to the child you have? Really?

[Anonymous]

Don't say anything. How are you sure it's yours? She could have a miscarriage ? Why would you say anything?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At least wait until you know if it's a viable pregnancy. Are you planning to live with OW and raise this child?

Yes, it's only right that I marry her once my divorce is final.

Oh, my! My biggest laugh of the week. Thank you. You are a prince among men, and an ethical model, for sure.