Slim picking dating in your fifties

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Anonymous wrote:A beautiful 50's woman might be prettier than other 50's women, but she is nowhere near a 20's woman in terms of beauty. I was one of the best D1 tennis players at UCLA in 2001, and in 2025, I would be embarrassed on the tennis court by the worst player on the UCLA men's tennis roster.

Any guy with options will choose a 20's over a 50's woman. Leo DiCaprio or John Mayer can do that because they have money and talents. That translates into options. The vast majority of men and women choose people around their age because they have very limited options.


Even Elon Musks options are limited. He fornicated with a not very attractive twenty something single mother of a toddler. A famous and gorgeous 20s model didn’t pick him. The last gorgeous woman he dated was Amber Heard and there are only 12 years apart


99.999% of women would pick John Mayer over Elon Musk.


I mean if they had a gun to their head. The vast majority would pass on both.


The last time I went to a John Mayer's concert, the line of women waiting to bone him was very long.


Because he’s rich which proves the prior point. 20s women would only sleep with much older men if they can offer something material: fame, money career opportunities etc


It’s hilarious to see all the comparisons being posted on this board. Yes, DCUM Dad, you are just like an over the hill celebrity/zillionaire.
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Anonymous wrote:A beautiful 50's woman might be prettier than other 50's women, but she is nowhere near a 20's woman in terms of beauty. I was one of the best D1 tennis players at UCLA in 2001, and in 2025, I would be embarrassed on the tennis court by the worst player on the UCLA men's tennis roster.

Any guy with options will choose a 20's over a 50's woman. Leo DiCaprio or John Mayer can do that because they have money and talents. That translates into options. The vast majority of men and women choose people around their age because they have very limited options.


Even Elon Musks options are limited. He fornicated with a not very attractive twenty something single mother of a toddler. A famous and gorgeous 20s model didn’t pick him. The last gorgeous woman he dated was Amber Heard and there are only 12 years apart


99.999% of women would pick John Mayer over Elon Musk.


I mean if they had a gun to their head. The vast majority would pass on both.


The last time I went to a John Mayer's concert, the line of women waiting to bone him was very long.


Because he’s rich which proves the prior point. 20s women would only sleep with much older men if they can offer something material: fame, money career opportunities etc


It’s hilarious to see all the comparisons being posted on this board. Yes, DCUM Dad, you are just like an over the hill celebrity/zillionaire.


What's hilarious is the tenacity of women's insecurity carrying this thread for 13 pages. Jesus, lady, you're not hot anymore. Men prefer younger women. Get over it. The sun will rise tomorrow. The fragility is gobsmacking.
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Anonymous wrote:A beautiful 50's woman might be prettier than other 50's women, but she is nowhere near a 20's woman in terms of beauty. I was one of the best D1 tennis players at UCLA in 2001, and in 2025, I would be embarrassed on the tennis court by the worst player on the UCLA men's tennis roster.

Any guy with options will choose a 20's over a 50's woman. Leo DiCaprio or John Mayer can do that because they have money and talents. That translates into options. The vast majority of men and women choose people around their age because they have very limited options.


Even Elon Musks options are limited. He fornicated with a not very attractive twenty something single mother of a toddler. A famous and gorgeous 20s model didn’t pick him. The last gorgeous woman he dated was Amber Heard and there are only 12 years apart


99.999% of women would pick John Mayer over Elon Musk.


I mean if they had a gun to their head. The vast majority would pass on both.


The last time I went to a John Mayer's concert, the line of women waiting to bone him was very long.


Because he’s rich which proves the prior point. 20s women would only sleep with much older men if they can offer something material: fame, money career opportunities etc


It’s hilarious to see all the comparisons being posted on this board. Yes, DCUM Dad, you are just like an over the hill celebrity/zillionaire.


What's hilarious is the tenacity of women's insecurity carrying this thread for 13 pages. Jesus, lady, you're not hot anymore. Men prefer younger women. Get over it. The sun will rise tomorrow. The fragility is gobsmacking.


Don’t worry - I haven’t posted anything that I am hot in my 50s. Just mocking the men who think they are exempt from aging too. Leo? lol. Talk about fragility and delusion!
Anonymous
I'm a man in my 50s dating a smart, successful attractive woman in her 40s, more than 10 years younger. Yes, a woman in her 40s is more likely to be attractive to me than a woman in her 50s, but that's not the whole story.

Plenty of women in their 50s also are attractive and I've been turned down by attractive women in their 50s (and a few in their 60s) quite a few times. I'm a decent looking professional guy but I have plenty of competition .

I've also had relationships with women my age or older and they were great. Those women were attractive, sexual, etc. Other men were interested in them too.

Women in their 50s have options.
Anonymous
Plenty of divorced men in their 50s that I know are dating hotties in their 20s.
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Who cares? I’m happily married but would not want to date if I divorced
Anonymous
50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.
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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.


Imagine spending your beautiful Saturday afternoon coming on the internet to talk about people who are invisible to you.
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Anonymous wrote:A beautiful 50's woman might be prettier than other 50's women, but she is nowhere near a 20's woman in terms of beauty. I was one of the best D1 tennis players at UCLA in 2001, and in 2025, I would be embarrassed on the tennis court by the worst player on the UCLA men's tennis roster.

Any guy with options will choose a 20's over a 50's woman. Leo DiCaprio or John Mayer can do that because they have money and talents. That translates into options. The vast majority of men and women choose people around their age because they have very limited options.


First of all, can we stop being bringing Leo? He’s gay and has contracts with these women so really bad example.

But that’s the same for women. Gorgeous women of the world don’t settle for DCUM dad bods in their 40s and 50s. You act like men are settling…. The flipside of that is whoever you are with is settling too.

That said, there are tons of attractive, celebrities who stay with their husband or wife and father and mother of their kids. You can’t tell me Kevin Bacon could not be banging hot women in their 30s or younger if he wanted.

And eventually, even Tom Brady got left for a younger guy and his younger sperm lol. It’s not just a guy thing.

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Anonymous wrote:Plenty of divorced men in their 50s that I know are dating hotties in their 20s.


LOL okay.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.


I feel similarly about most men in their 50s. Most women do. Shrug.
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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.


Imagine spending your beautiful Saturday afternoon coming on the internet to talk about people who are invisible to you.


You have no idea where this person is or what the weather is like there. They could be in Manitoba whre it is currently pouring and 39 degrees. But their comment hurt you. LOL.
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Anonymous wrote:50 yo old women and fat women are invisible to me. Honestly they are an annoyance that they exist. All they do is creat more traffic and make lines longer.


Imagine spending your beautiful Saturday afternoon coming on the internet to talk about people who are invisible to you.


You have no idea where this person is or what the weather is like there. They could be in Manitoba whre it is currently pouring and 39 degrees. But their comment hurt you. LOL.


This is your come back? Uh, ok. Even sadder than I thought.
Anonymous
This thread is just weird and sad. The fact is both men and women find the opposite sex most attractive in their 20s and 30s.

Once you age out of that, either you are married and aging along with your partner or you are divorcing and have a different dating pool.

Age comes for all of us who are lucky enough not to drop dead at 35 and it doesn’t have to be all bad. Everyone is so negative! Life is still worth living even if you aren’t young and hot anymore. Some of you need to touch grass.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Plenty of divorced men in their 50s that I know are dating hotties in their 20s.


You are possibly confusing them with paid escorts.. “dating”..
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