This was in reference to 50 something women dating younger men. If an attractive interesting 34 yo man is choosing a 53 yo woman over a 32 yo woman, that 53 yo woman better have a lot to offer (and it assumes the man doesn't want a family eventually). Those men are pretty rare. |
There is no need for me to be alone. I enjoy sex and company of both of them. Yes I have sexual needs and prefer them met in partnered sex if I can find safe longer term partners. I can still date others. Last year I was busy with other stuff in my life and was single. Not sure what’s your problem. |
That’s funny. I have no problems. I just find it humorous how you don’t even see that you keep making PP’s point. |
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The PP has no point they are just trying to equate “being social, needing physical sex and enjoying non- monogamous lifestyle” with “scared to be alone”. |
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I'm the PP. I know a woman who lives her life like the woman who's been sharing some details of her life here. That other woman says many of the same things. That other woman is also scared to be alone. I don't know the woman here. Also, being alone is scary to me so I wouldn't criticize the woman here for finding it scary.
I do wonder whether the woman here actually would be happier if she found one man who checked all her boxes, or whether that would just make her anxious. Again, I don't know her and I don't know much about how she feels and thinks. I'm not criticizing. |
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A beautiful 50's woman might be prettier than other 50's women, but she is nowhere near a 20's woman in terms of beauty. I was one of the best D1 tennis players at UCLA in 2001, and in 2025, I would be embarrassed on the tennis court by the worst player on the UCLA men's tennis roster.
Any guy with options will choose a 20's over a 50's woman. Leo DiCaprio or John Mayer can do that because they have money and talents. That translates into options. The vast majority of men and women choose people around their age because they have very limited options. |
We’re not tennis players or cars or just our age. |
Even Elon Musks options are limited. He fornicated with a not very attractive twenty something single mother of a toddler. A famous and gorgeous 20s model didn’t pick him. The last gorgeous woman he dated was Amber Heard and there are only 12 years apart |
99.999% of women would pick John Mayer over Elon Musk. |
I mean if they had a gun to their head. The vast majority would pass on both. |
30 and 55-60 is very different. Lmaof. I have kids and nephews in their early 30s. When I was 30 I wouldn’t be caught dead partying with the yacht club crowd. |
Agree, as a woman I dated 20s and 30s in my 20s. 40-50s men looked ANCIENT to me regardless of their accomplishments or looks |
The last time I went to a John Mayer's concert, the line of women waiting to bone him was very long. |
And? Star bangers still line up for Mick Jagger. |
Because he’s rich which proves the prior point. 20s women would only sleep with much older men if they can offer something material: fame, money career opportunities etc |