If you are a sugar baby why did you decide to be one?

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

you’re serially dating women who are more or less following standard dating tropes. but you’re getting off on calling it “sugar” because you like the idea that you control her via money. it’s basically a (gross) kink.

There is no control. Each party can walk away at any time. There was a study done a while ago on sugar power dynamics and it found there are two power centers in sugar relationships (1) extremely hot young and smart women (2) the super wealthy rich men. The hot women probably have more power because they would have lots of wealthy men competing over her.

Here you go:
One of the study’s most intriguing revelations concerns the power dynamics within sugar dating. Contrary to expectations, it was found that sugar babies frequently hold significant negotiating power, derived from their desirability and ability to set the terms of the arrangement. This challenges the stereotypical view of benefactors holding all the control due to their financial leverage. If anything, the power dynamics seem to work in reverse in most cases, with the sugar baby yielding more perceived power than the sugar daddy.


https://www.zmescience.com/science/news-science/sugar-dating-psychology/

Come on, the article says an average she difference is 20 years . Of course these women wouldn’t have dated him splitting expenses. This is when women actually have choice and power- independence, self respect is everything

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

I’m not triggered, just having a discussion.
You are the one who got triggered by my travels and suggested I’m a trust fund baby. As if women are incapable making this sort of money on my own.

The dude is fooling himself that SB he sleeps with has a great chemistry with him. He needs to be realistic that is not why they sleep with him (with 20+ years age difference). No matter how attractive a man is, 20 years is a huge difference

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As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

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Anonymous wrote:As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

Read above - these 15-20 years older sugar daddies are also hookups. See the 50 yo dude message how he’s going to meet his 15 years younger sugar baby tonight and tell right in her face that he’s now going to look for a replacement new younger model.

That’s a very emotionally hurtful route and not worth it for cheap vacations that he offers.

I would recommend you to focus on your career and a higher paid field while still single. You’ll keep your body safe and clean, and your mental health intact

It’s okay for a woman to be single

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Anonymous wrote:As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

Statistically, in reality very few sugar daddies are truly wealthy to really spoil. They don’t have private jets etc. The guy above spends 100k/year on several women he f..ks. That’s nothing .

Just go try yourself by creating a male profile on seeking. You’ll get bombed by female intros. Many are hot. That means there are way more sugar babies needing money than sugar daddies willing to pay. A lot of men pretending to be daddies are scammers hoping to get free sex tonight.

When my husband and I were dating in early 2000s, our combined credit card bill was 60k for a year just dating expenses (split roughly equally). Hes only 9 years older

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Anonymous wrote:As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

Read above - these 15-20 years older sugar daddies are also hookups. See the 50 yo dude message how he’s going to meet his 15 years younger sugar baby tonight and tell right in her face that he’s now going to look for a replacement new younger model.

That’s a very emotionally hurtful route and not worth it for cheap vacations that he offers.

I would recommend you to focus on your career and a higher paid field while still single. You’ll keep your body safe and clean, and your mental health intact

It’s okay for a woman to be single

Hi I’m the 50yr old guy. For the record I am very upfront and transparent with all my sugar babies. These are short term and temporary relationships

And I’ve already mentioned to my sugar baby months ago about future plans she is OK with it she knows how sugar dynamics go. She isn’t going to be mopping about when our sugar ship ends she likely will find an older and even richer guy who can give her a lot more than I ever did! It works both ways. As long as you are upfront with wants needs and expectations it works out really well. Like I said in an earlier post no need for games, lies or deception in sugar dating. Each party puts their cards on the table

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

I’m not triggered, just having a discussion.
You are the one who got triggered by my travels and suggested I’m a trust fund baby. As if women are incapable making this sort of money on my own.

The dude is fooling himself that SB he sleeps with has a great chemistry with him. He needs to be realistic that is not why they sleep with him (with 20+ years age difference). No matter how attractive a man is, 20 years is a huge difference

We all agree that at a 20-year age difference, the "chemistry" is transactional; even the 50-year-old guy posting about his experience understands that the women he's with only see him for the financial things he provides. Heck, I have a 50-something girlfriend who is dating an adorable man in his thirties, and she too understands the limitations of their relationship (she's never going to marry him, and she doesn't hand him cash, but as her current boyfriend, he enjoys a lot of financial perks).

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

I’m not triggered, just having a discussion.
You are the one who got triggered by my travels and suggested I’m a trust fund baby. As if women are incapable making this sort of money on my own.

The dude is fooling himself that SB he sleeps with has a great chemistry with him. He needs to be realistic that is not why they sleep with him (with 20+ years age difference). No matter how attractive a man is, 20 years is a huge difference

Hey! So I’ll be 50 in a couple months and my current sb just turned 35 last month. Technically less than 15yr age gap😇

I appreciate your comment and my answer is who cares if she really is into me or not. I get the best sexual experiences I’ve had in decades:

She is always up for multiple rounds of sex and for hours. A lot of women complain about their viagra taking husbands and bfs. My sugar baby can take it all and more 😈

She doesn’t say no to anything I want to do. I’m a bit kinky but she is kinkier than me 😈😈 imagine every sexual fantasy you have had be fulfilled. Then imagine experiencing fantasies you’ve never even imagined before 😉

She kisses me like my first gf did when we were late teens early 20s. Literally hour plus of kissing and making out each time we meet. On our first sugar date I told her kissing is my love language and she said me too! Ha 😇 not only that but the way she keeps her eyes locked on mine with a coy and cute smile constantly all day long when we meet. Not even my bestest past gfs or ex wife gave me that.

my ex wife and I had a great sex life too. Ex wife and I loved to do it in public. Think about the bishops garden in the national cathedral 😈 yeah we did it there a few times. my sugar baby is even more of an exhibitionist and up for sex clubs etc. I’m thinking about it 😈😈😈 my ex wife would never entertain that

So do you seriously think I care if she actually is into me or just faking it. Who cares if I am fooling myself. If she is faking it for the little bit of money I give her it’s the best f’in investment in myself ever!😂 and this is not a one time thing this has been going on for 6+mo. Sure not a lifetime but best 6mo since my divorce a couple yrs ago

And for the record she has a 6 figure 9:5 job herself. She is hot, beautiful face and hourglass perfect bikini figure like that sports illustrated blonde girl from a few yrs ago. Forgot her name but you know who I’m talking about

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Anonymous wrote:As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

Read above - these 15-20 years older sugar daddies are also hookups. See the 50 yo dude message how he’s going to meet his 15 years younger sugar baby tonight and tell right in her face that he’s now going to look for a replacement new younger model.

That’s a very emotionally hurtful route and not worth it for cheap vacations that he offers.

I would recommend you to focus on your career and a higher paid field while still single. You’ll keep your body safe and clean, and your mental health intact

It’s okay for a woman to be single

Hi I’m the 50yr old guy. For the record I am very upfront and transparent with all my sugar babies. These are short term and temporary relationships

And I’ve already mentioned to my sugar baby months ago about future plans she is OK with it she knows how sugar dynamics go. She isn’t going to be mopping about when our sugar ship ends she likely will find an older and even richer guy who can give her a lot more than I ever did! It works both ways. As long as you are upfront with wants needs and expectations it works out really well. Like I said in an earlier post no need for games, lies or deception in sugar dating. Each party puts their cards on the table

If there are stupid women out there willing to sell themselves cheap for a Hawaii trip, only to be disposed and told of it right at their face that there are better versions upcoming, I can’t help it. That would be too much use on my body, mental health and taxing on my time which is very valuable. I make half a million a year as a single F.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

I’m not triggered, just having a discussion.
You are the one who got triggered by my travels and suggested I’m a trust fund baby. As if women are incapable making this sort of money on my own.

The dude is fooling himself that SB he sleeps with has a great chemistry with him. He needs to be realistic that is not why they sleep with him (with 20+ years age difference). No matter how attractive a man is, 20 years is a huge difference

Hey! So I’ll be 50 in a couple months and my current sb just turned 35 last month. Technically less than 15yr age gap😇

I appreciate your comment and my answer is who cares if she really is into me or not. I get the best sexual experiences I’ve had in decades:

She is always up for multiple rounds of sex and for hours. A lot of women complain about their viagra taking husbands and bfs. My sugar baby can take it all and more 😈

She doesn’t say no to anything I want to do. I’m a bit kinky but she is kinkier than me 😈😈 imagine every sexual fantasy you have had be fulfilled. Then imagine experiencing fantasies you’ve never even imagined before 😉

She kisses me like my first gf did when we were late teens early 20s. Literally hour plus of kissing and making out each time we meet. On our first sugar date I told her kissing is my love language and she said me too! Ha 😇 not only that but the way she keeps her eyes locked on mine with a coy and cute smile constantly all day long when we meet. Not even my bestest past gfs or ex wife gave me that.

my ex wife and I had a great sex life too. Ex wife and I loved to do it in public. Think about the bishops garden in the national cathedral 😈 yeah we did it there a few times. my sugar baby is even more of an exhibitionist and up for sex clubs etc. I’m thinking about it 😈😈😈 my ex wife would never entertain that

So do you seriously think I care if she actually is into me or just faking it. Who cares if I am fooling myself. If she is faking it for the little bit of money I give her it’s the best f’in investment in myself ever!😂 and this is not a one time thing this has been going on for 6+mo. Sure not a lifetime but best 6mo since my divorce a couple yrs ago

And for the record she has a 6 figure 9:5 job herself. She is hot, beautiful face and hourglass perfect bikini figure like that sports illustrated blonde girl from a few yrs ago. Forgot her name but you know who I’m talking about

You are a very primitive person and have no clue which model you are talking about. I don’t have time for such shallow transactional arrangements in my life.

And if you actually were so happy with her as you describe, you wouldn’t be exchanging her for a 20s model the same day she turned 36.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

I’m not triggered, just having a discussion.
You are the one who got triggered by my travels and suggested I’m a trust fund baby. As if women are incapable making this sort of money on my own.

The dude is fooling himself that SB he sleeps with has a great chemistry with him. He needs to be realistic that is not why they sleep with him (with 20+ years age difference). No matter how attractive a man is, 20 years is a huge difference

Hey! So I’ll be 50 in a couple months and my current sb just turned 35 last month. Technically less than 15yr age gap😇

I appreciate your comment and my answer is who cares if she really is into me or not. I get the best sexual experiences I’ve had in decades:

She is always up for multiple rounds of sex and for hours. A lot of women complain about their viagra taking husbands and bfs. My sugar baby can take it all and more 😈

She doesn’t say no to anything I want to do. I’m a bit kinky but she is kinkier than me 😈😈 imagine every sexual fantasy you have had be fulfilled. Then imagine experiencing fantasies you’ve never even imagined before 😉

She kisses me like my first gf did when we were late teens early 20s. Literally hour plus of kissing and making out each time we meet. On our first sugar date I told her kissing is my love language and she said me too! Ha 😇 not only that but the way she keeps her eyes locked on mine with a coy and cute smile constantly all day long when we meet. Not even my bestest past gfs or ex wife gave me that.

my ex wife and I had a great sex life too. Ex wife and I loved to do it in public. Think about the bishops garden in the national cathedral 😈 yeah we did it there a few times. my sugar baby is even more of an exhibitionist and up for sex clubs etc. I’m thinking about it 😈😈😈 my ex wife would never entertain that

So do you seriously think I care if she actually is into me or just faking it. Who cares if I am fooling myself. If she is faking it for the little bit of money I give her it’s the best f’in investment in myself ever!😂 and this is not a one time thing this has been going on for 6+mo. Sure not a lifetime but best 6mo since my divorce a couple yrs ago

And for the record she has a 6 figure 9:5 job herself. She is hot, beautiful face and hourglass perfect bikini figure like that sports illustrated blonde girl from a few yrs ago. Forgot her name but you know who I’m talking about

Since you're being so forthcoming, what do you pay her? $100k a year?

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Anonymous wrote:As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

Read above - these 15-20 years older sugar daddies are also hookups. See the 50 yo dude message how he’s going to meet his 15 years younger sugar baby tonight and tell right in her face that he’s now going to look for a replacement new younger model.

That’s a very emotionally hurtful route and not worth it for cheap vacations that he offers.

I would recommend you to focus on your career and a higher paid field while still single. You’ll keep your body safe and clean, and your mental health intact

It’s okay for a woman to be single

Hi I’m the 50yr old guy. For the record I am very upfront and transparent with all my sugar babies. These are short term and temporary relationships

And I’ve already mentioned to my sugar baby months ago about future plans she is OK with it she knows how sugar dynamics go. She isn’t going to be mopping about when our sugar ship ends she likely will find an older and even richer guy who can give her a lot more than I ever did! It works both ways. As long as you are upfront with wants needs and expectations it works out really well. Like I said in an earlier post no need for games, lies or deception in sugar dating. Each party puts their cards on the table

“Sugar ship”. Yes of course you are a troll.

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Anonymous wrote:As a late 20yr old attractive educated and healthy woman I find most men my age don’t have their life together emotionally or financially. And most of them just want sex or uncommitted short term relationships or basically hook up anyway. Dating even 5-7yr within my age is full of guys who are either charmer/players or unattractive incel types. Yes the good ones are taken! I have been dating “with intent” for the past 6 years since my college bf and I broke up but finding a serious loving and committed partner is not easy.

I find the idea of dating a mature wealthy man intriguing. Not too old, maybe 15-20yr older tops. I make good money and have a full time job/career but it’s not something that offers anything remotely luxurious. I don’t want a cash for sex relationship but I don’t mind a wealthy slightly older man doting over me and treating me to things I might not experience any time soon.

Read above - these 15-20 years older sugar daddies are also hookups. See the 50 yo dude message how he’s going to meet his 15 years younger sugar baby tonight and tell right in her face that he’s now going to look for a replacement new younger model.

That’s a very emotionally hurtful route and not worth it for cheap vacations that he offers.

I would recommend you to focus on your career and a higher paid field while still single. You’ll keep your body safe and clean, and your mental health intact

It’s okay for a woman to be single

Hi I’m the 50yr old guy. For the record I am very upfront and transparent with all my sugar babies. These are short term and temporary relationships

And I’ve already mentioned to my sugar baby months ago about future plans she is OK with it she knows how sugar dynamics go. She isn’t going to be mopping about when our sugar ship ends she likely will find an older and even richer guy who can give her a lot more than I ever did! It works both ways. As long as you are upfront with wants needs and expectations it works out really well. Like I said in an earlier post no need for games, lies or deception in sugar dating. Each party puts their cards on the table

If there are stupid women out there willing to sell themselves cheap for a Hawaii trip, only to be disposed and told of it right at their face that there are better versions upcoming, I can’t help it. That would be too much use on my body, mental health and taxing on my time which is very valuable. I make half a million a year as a single F.

I don't think it's fair to call all of these women categorically stupid, but the woman who is selling herself for a cheap Hawaii trip to a guy who tells her upfront he intends to replace her for something better is very damaged and lacks self-worth.

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Anonymous wrote:Sooo… how does one go about this in their 40s? lol.. no but seriously… groceries ain’t cheap

I’m a long time sugar daddy. I would not date you atm because I’m 40s too and I go for the 20s-early 30s but I imagine when I’m coming up on 60+ I’d go for a hot milfy 40 something sugar baby

Best bet is to have awesome pics and sign up on seeking.com DC unlike most of the country is a sugar baby market meaning that odds are better for SBs than they are for SDs. Because DC is high income and high education area there are plenty of rich daddies but not enough quality SBs (because the quality ladies in DMV tend to already have high income/education) so you will have better luck here than in places like NYC or LA where there are 10 hot SBs to each legit SD

There are so few truly attractive women on seeking. Not sure who wants to pay for these 20 year olds that look like cheap baristas. Being 20 doesn't make you more beautiful. If a wet P is the only criteria, then you can get this for free on tinder

No one offers allowance or $ to average fat or ugly girls. You are right most of DC area seeking profiles are ugly. Just like tinder lol. The rare hot women are hard to land but they are there. and that is why I said earlier that DC is a hot market for genuinely attractive sugar babies regardless of age. Go to LA and I’m swimming in 22yr old 9-10-11/10 hotties, new one every week if I want.. Here in DC the hot ones are hard to find think like 2-3mo of effort lol vs 2-3 days in LA or NYC

Why dont they sleep with you for free?

Well I’m 50 and only interested in under 32-33 at the most. I’ve got a dad bod, and not super photogenic so don’t get a lot of hits on the dating apps. I’m super busy and don’t have time to socialize and get dates in real life. This is so much easier. The women are much hotter and girls who sugar are definitely kinkier and more sexually open than vanilla dating girls. Instead of wasting lot of time effort and $ on things like dinners, shows and normal courting activities I just give the sugar baby the cash. And the keyword here is time. My work hour is worth 600 and so if I’m spending 2-3-4hours courting a vanilla woman with no guarantee of xxx vs giving a sugar baby 500-1000 and getting straight to xxx it’s definitely worthwhile for me. We both get what we want and need.

Bs troll here. Lots of these posts are trolls trolling along.

What exactly is trolling here? It’s all very simple logical practical and if you put your old frumpy hag ego away then makes complete sense:

Men who have money will pay to have sex with hot young sexy sugar babies

Men who have money will most always go for hot and young vs old and frumpy

Most men who have money are older and older men usually are not the hot guys killing it on tinder hookups so why not use the money for getting what they want

When men who have money get really old (60+) they will settle for the older 40+ milfy types because even lots of money is not going to attract hot 28yr old to a geriatric sugar daddy

But no, the average 40-50s sugar daddy is unlikely to spend his hard earned cash on 40+ milfy babies

Seriously what is trolling about stating the facts of sugar life?

For the record I’m 50 and meeting my super hot favorite 35yr old baby tonight. She will sleep over and my blue pill lets me go all night long + mornings too. We’ve been sugar dating for about 6-7mo and I’m pretty open with her and let her know that I’ll probably be looking for a young hot replacement soon. She actually loves the idea of us finding a baby sugar baby for threesome. Like mommy daughter and daddy type 3some fantasy 😈 I guess she is all talk though. I expect drama if I do find a young one but the thing I love about sugar dating is that all the cards are on the table there is no games lies and deception

Gosh how disgusting. I’m 46, met a guy yesterday online who is 55. Professor at Ivy, we spoke about our travels, his exploration of Sistine Chapel, best hikes we’ve done, scuba diving, his kids and college choices. You know, truly nice and educated men are not only looking for xxx they need connection, too.

But to each their own.

Sure. Call me disgusting. My sugar baby and I spent a week in Hawaii last month. We hiked, kayaked, took a helicopter ride around the island, spent time at the beach, had sex in the 5 star hotel pool at midnight (you know it’s 6hr behind so we were literally up all night lol). We talk about her work, her family, my kids, her mom and dad, my mom and dad, her sister, my brother, we do normal couple things. Except we also share with each other our vanilla dating stories and support each other emotionally with affection and caring. And we have lots and lots of amazing kinky sex 2-3 times a day. Non stop. Just like our talks and chats, non stop.

Truly nice educated men who have a sex drive need the whole package. Not just an old lady who wants to explore the Sistine chapel (btw done that too with another baby I had last yr- ha😈)

I have all this on my own (traveled to Virgin Islands, Alaska with helicopter rides, Middle East including staying at a 5* across B. Kalifa at $1200/night, all this year alone). I do this with my family when single. Don’t need a 20+ older unattractive man and his balls to accompany me, leaving alone sharing with him my stories. This Christmas in Portugal. Next year heading to Argentina and Chile for a month. Tango shows, icebergs and hiking Machu Picchu

I’m dating someone except the guy would be someone I’m actually want and attracted to. I date exceptionally good looking men around my age (max 10 years age difference).

So no, you are not a unique proposition - you are someone that a woman like me wouldn’t bother to split travel expenses.

We all would prefer to have a rich dad and a trust fund if that is what you are describing (you mentioned doing great stuff with your family when single). I mean, that is the dream!

Short of that, by all means, make your own money and live it up. But, in the dating market, a beautiful, single, intelligent woman in her twenties might has all the power, and the ones who know it aren't giving it up for free.

Great how you concluded I’m a trust fund daughter. My dad is in Europe living modest life of an engineer. I make my own money.
When I was in my 20s I was already doing well. Own an apartment, traveled etc. And dated very successful young men with marriage potential. We were splitting expenses. I married well.

Why are you so triggered? I make my own money and married an equal, and this doesn't bother me. Men have been exploiting women since the beginning of time. At least sugar babies are demanding payment for their time. I would only be triggered if I found out my husband paid for one (using marital property because that's all we have), which would abruptly end our marriage.

I’m not triggered, just having a discussion.
You are the one who got triggered by my travels and suggested I’m a trust fund baby. As if women are incapable making this sort of money on my own.

The dude is fooling himself that SB he sleeps with has a great chemistry with him. He needs to be realistic that is not why they sleep with him (with 20+ years age difference). No matter how attractive a man is, 20 years is a huge difference

Hey! So I’ll be 50 in a couple months and my current sb just turned 35 last month. Technically less than 15yr age gap😇

I appreciate your comment and my answer is who cares if she really is into me or not. I get the best sexual experiences I’ve had in decades:

She is always up for multiple rounds of sex and for hours. A lot of women complain about their viagra taking husbands and bfs. My sugar baby can take it all and more 😈

She doesn’t say no to anything I want to do. I’m a bit kinky but she is kinkier than me 😈😈 imagine every sexual fantasy you have had be fulfilled. Then imagine experiencing fantasies you’ve never even imagined before 😉

She kisses me like my first gf did when we were late teens early 20s. Literally hour plus of kissing and making out each time we meet. On our first sugar date I told her kissing is my love language and she said me too! Ha 😇 not only that but the way she keeps her eyes locked on mine with a coy and cute smile constantly all day long when we meet. Not even my bestest past gfs or ex wife gave me that.

my ex wife and I had a great sex life too. Ex wife and I loved to do it in public. Think about the bishops garden in the national cathedral 😈 yeah we did it there a few times. my sugar baby is even more of an exhibitionist and up for sex clubs etc. I’m thinking about it 😈😈😈 my ex wife would never entertain that

So do you seriously think I care if she actually is into me or just faking it. Who cares if I am fooling myself. If she is faking it for the little bit of money I give her it’s the best f’in investment in myself ever!😂 and this is not a one time thing this has been going on for 6+mo. Sure not a lifetime but best 6mo since my divorce a couple yrs ago

And for the record she has a 6 figure 9:5 job herself. She is hot, beautiful face and hourglass perfect bikini figure like that sports illustrated blonde girl from a few yrs ago. Forgot her name but you know who I’m talking about

You are a very primitive person and have no clue which model you are talking about. I don’t have time for such shallow transactional arrangements in my life.

And if you actually were so happy with her as you describe, you wouldn’t be exchanging her for a 20s model the same day she turned 36.

That’s how we know it’s all fake. Best investment of his life and he’s ready to send her on her way? The troll is writing to get reaction.