This wedding is beautiful. Will kopelman (Drew's ex) and Allie Micheler

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Anonymous wrote:She looks very healthy and pretty. Some of you ladies sound jealous.

I agree. I can't believe people are tearing apart her appearance and face/body. These same people are horrified about fat and body shaming and images young girls see.

Pathetic.

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Anonymous wrote:She looks very healthy and pretty. Some of you ladies sound jealous.

I agree. I can't believe people are tearing apart her appearance and face/body. These same people are horrified about fat and body shaming and images young girls see.

Pathetic.

There's space between "tearing apart her appearance" and "she is the ideal white beauty with a gorgeous face and if you disagree you're jealous". She's not disfigured but she's not exceptional either. She's just . . . thin and blonde and connected.

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Anonymous wrote:She looks very healthy and pretty. Some of you ladies sound jealous.

I agree. I can't believe people are tearing apart her appearance and face/body. These same people are horrified about fat and body shaming and images young girls see.

Pathetic.

There's space between "tearing apart her appearance" and "she is the ideal white beauty with a gorgeous face and if you disagree you're jealous". She's not disfigured but she's not exceptional either. She's just . . . thin and blonde and connected.

And by all accounts, included by her husband's ex-wife, she is an incredibly warm, loving and kind person. It's just ridiculous anonymous keyboard warriors want to belittle and attack people's appearance constantly. And we wonder why there is a mental health crisis in this country.

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For all the people upset that (1) there are women do not want to look like her (2) a WASPY wedding in Nantucket is not their ideal, get over yourselves. Different people find different things attractive! In 2022, please don't be upset that some people are not accepting of a certain aesthetic being crammed down their throat as "ideal". It doesn't make them jealous or even critical to say that this whole thing, is not their thing. There are even (gasp!) plenty of rich white blond women who would vomit at this aesthetic as well.

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Anonymous wrote:For all the people upset that (1) there are women do not want to look like her (2) a WASPY wedding in Nantucket is not their ideal, get over yourselves. Different people find different things attractive! In 2022, please don't be upset that some people are not accepting of a certain aesthetic being crammed down their throat as "ideal". It doesn't make them jealous or even critical to say that this whole thing, is not their thing. There are even (gasp!) plenty of rich white blond women who would vomit at this aesthetic as well.

Only crazy ones. Most people would say not my style. But vomiting? Calling them pigs and masculine and skeletal? Nope. This shows deep insecurity and rabid anger at something unattainable. I went to several Lebanese extravagant weddings and, while they were so over the top and definitely not my style, I was happy for the family and honored to be invited. I didn't even dream to think that they needed my acceptance and the last thing that crossed my mind was to critique their makeup, hair, or clothes. And no, I didn't vomit looking at the flower arrangements. But I don't have a mental disease.

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Anonymous wrote:The wedding may be generic but the bride and groom look great. She’s very pretty and slim and he’s good looking in that wasp-y patrician sort of way. His hair looks good, her outfits are cute, flower girl dresses are sweet …. Really have to dig for something to not like here. Haters are gonna hate, I guess.

Will Kopelman, WASPy? Okay. Do you know what WASP is?

Um, yes, I do. And despite being of Jewish decent, the groom is clearly going for that New England Anglo look, with the hair, the slight tan, and the J. crew suit, and nary a kippah or chuppah ANYWHERE nor to mention the aesthetic of the wedding. An observation, not an insult.

- A Jew

Maybe they're not observant Jews? Is that allowed?

- another Jew

Sure, of course. But the observation up thread that it’s a WASP-y aesthetic has been met with people calling out that the groom and family is Jewish and that poster is “stupid.” The groom and family are 100% downplaying any Jewish or religious roots in favor of a more New England WASP vibe. That’s fine, I’m a non practicing Jew too. But it doesn’t negate the observation.

His family is very religious and this is a big reason why the marriage with Drew didn't work out, as she didn't convert. The girls are raised Jewish and traditional. Allie's mom is Jewish of Russian descent. Maybe this is the wedding that she wanted.

Drew reportedly struggled with a lot of the traditional elements deeply embedded in her marriage to koppelman. She wanted the traditional life (in theory) and adored the security and stability of him and his family, craved it probably but when living it in reality, just could not bear it and felt trapped. She has said as much. Region may have been a piece of it but it likely extended beyond that.

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Anonymous wrote:You guys are crazy - she's absolutely gorgeous. And she has legs for miles.

She’s very plain Jane.

She is the classic blue eyed, blonde, tall, athletic with long legs. There are maybe 0.1% of all women in the US who have all these. She's basically the ideal beauty. And her hair is thick. Not damaged. I had a neighbor like this and also saw Claudia Schiffer IRL and those tall, all legs blondes are striking IRL. Look at Hollywood and the most attractive, famous ones have always been the blondes. Forget about your WASPs, all men are obsessed with white blondes - AA men, Asians, and especially Middle Easterns. It's like the ultimate trophy.
I don't have a bone in the fight, as I'm brunette with green eyes.

You do realize she's not really a blonde, right? If you count bottle blondes it's way more than 0.1% of women in the US, unless you don't consider the South part of the US for some reason. This thread made me realize she's kind of the living embodiment of that Tina Fey joke that if you put a blonde wig on a radiator some guy would start humping it. She's got a strangely shaped, masculine face, but she's skinny and "blonde" so she's an "ideal beauty"? Mmkay.

Welcome to the real world, Tina Fey is right. It's not only the men, Amber Heard is like the ultimate fantasy for gay women. Portia de Rossi is the trophy wife. I live in the South and most women here are bottle blonde but 99% have brown eyes. This one is a dark blonde, there are pictures with her roots showing online. Her face shape is round and this is why she looks so much younger. There's nothing masculine about her face; she looks like a young Christie Brinkley. She is an ideal beauty pretty much all over the word. It's not right, it's not fair, but this is the reality. Why do you think Asian women break down their faces, change their eyes, and elongate their legs using painful surgeries? Why do you think light skin is considered more beautiful not only in the Black community here, but also even in Africa? The occidentalisation of beauty standards is alive and well. Don't shot the messenger.
But ultimately, why is it so hard for us, women, to admit that someone else, who doesn't look like us, is beautiful? Why do we have to spit venom on someone just because we feel bitter because she's beautiful, rich, and married into a famous family? All this bitterness doesn't make us more attractive or desirable, you know.

Well said.

I am sure in his lifetime, that he has been around beautiful women since forever. That he picked this one, after a very painful divorce he likely did not want, suggests their bond is likely a powerful one, no matter what she looks like. He's not 18, let's trust he knows what he's doing...he's not an idiot. Like everyone getting married, he sees more than we see. Hard to see a person dissected like this...

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Anonymous wrote:The wedding may be generic but the bride and groom look great. She’s very pretty and slim and he’s good looking in that wasp-y patrician sort of way. His hair looks good, her outfits are cute, flower girl dresses are sweet …. Really have to dig for something to not like here. Haters are gonna hate, I guess.

Will Kopelman, WASPy? Okay. Do you know what WASP is?

Um, yes, I do. And despite being of Jewish decent, the groom is clearly going for that New England Anglo look, with the hair, the slight tan, and the J. crew suit, and nary a kippah or chuppah ANYWHERE nor to mention the aesthetic of the wedding. An observation, not an insult.

- A Jew

Maybe they're not observant Jews? Is that allowed?

- another Jew

Sure, of course. But the observation up thread that it’s a WASP-y aesthetic has been met with people calling out that the groom and family is Jewish and that poster is “stupid.” The groom and family are 100% downplaying any Jewish or religious roots in favor of a more New England WASP vibe. That’s fine, I’m a non practicing Jew too. But it doesn’t negate the observation.

His family is very religious and this is a big reason why the marriage with Drew didn't work out, as she didn't convert. The girls are raised Jewish and traditional. Allie's mom is Jewish of Russian descent. Maybe this is the wedding that she wanted.

Well, it's obvious she didn't want a Jewish wedding! There's not a single photo of a chuppah, no mention of a rabbi, no mention at all of any ritual that you'd find in a Jewish wedding. If the groom is so religious, then it's amazing that there was no desire on the bride's part to honor that important tradition. I think that conspicuous, conscious decision to not display any bit of Judiasm in the wedding publicity is, well, very telling...

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Anonymous wrote:She looks very healthy and pretty. Some of you ladies sound jealous.

I agree. I can't believe people are tearing apart her appearance and face/body. These same people are horrified about fat and body shaming and images young girls see.

Pathetic.

There's space between "tearing apart her appearance" and "she is the ideal white beauty with a gorgeous face and if you disagree you're jealous". She's not disfigured but she's not exceptional either. She's just . . . thin and blonde and connected.

She is above average in appearance - very symmetrical facial features, tall, thin. Even without being blond, she is above average appearance.

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Anonymous wrote:The wedding may be generic but the bride and groom look great. She’s very pretty and slim and he’s good looking in that wasp-y patrician sort of way. His hair looks good, her outfits are cute, flower girl dresses are sweet …. Really have to dig for something to not like here. Haters are gonna hate, I guess.

Will Kopelman, WASPy? Okay. Do you know what WASP is?

Um, yes, I do. And despite being of Jewish decent, the groom is clearly going for that New England Anglo look, with the hair, the slight tan, and the J. crew suit, and nary a kippah or chuppah ANYWHERE nor to mention the aesthetic of the wedding. An observation, not an insult.

- A Jew

Maybe they're not observant Jews? Is that allowed?

- another Jew

Sure, of course. But the observation up thread that it’s a WASP-y aesthetic has been met with people calling out that the groom and family is Jewish and that poster is “stupid.” The groom and family are 100% downplaying any Jewish or religious roots in favor of a more New England WASP vibe. That’s fine, I’m a non practicing Jew too. But it doesn’t negate the observation.

His family is very religious and this is a big reason why the marriage with Drew didn't work out, as she didn't convert. The girls are raised Jewish and traditional. Allie's mom is Jewish of Russian descent. Maybe this is the wedding that she wanted.

Drew reportedly struggled with a lot of the traditional elements deeply embedded in her marriage to koppelman. She wanted the traditional life (in theory) and adored the security and stability of him and his family, craved it probably but when living it in reality, just could not bear it and felt trapped. She has said as much. Region may have been a piece of it but it likely extended beyond that.

Well HELLO, Drew has so much dysfunction and baggage from her incredibly crazy mother and childhood. She seems like a really caring/lovey person who has openly admitted the struggles she's faced from all she lived before she was even 15.

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I wanna know where they got their moolah!

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Anonymous wrote:The wedding may be generic but the bride and groom look great. She’s very pretty and slim and he’s good looking in that wasp-y patrician sort of way. His hair looks good, her outfits are cute, flower girl dresses are sweet …. Really have to dig for something to not like here. Haters are gonna hate, I guess.

Will Kopelman, WASPy? Okay. Do you know what WASP is?

Um, yes, I do. And despite being of Jewish decent, the groom is clearly going for that New England Anglo look, with the hair, the slight tan, and the J. crew suit, and nary a kippah or chuppah ANYWHERE nor to mention the aesthetic of the wedding. An observation, not an insult.

- A Jew

Maybe they're not observant Jews? Is that allowed?

- another Jew

Sure, of course. But the observation up thread that it’s a WASP-y aesthetic has been met with people calling out that the groom and family is Jewish and that poster is “stupid.” The groom and family are 100% downplaying any Jewish or religious roots in favor of a more New England WASP vibe. That’s fine, I’m a non practicing Jew too. But it doesn’t negate the observation.

His family is very religious and this is a big reason why the marriage with Drew didn't work out, as she didn't convert. The girls are raised Jewish and traditional. Allie's mom is Jewish of Russian descent. Maybe this is the wedding that she wanted.

Well, it's obvious she didn't want a Jewish wedding! There's not a single photo of a chuppah, no mention of a rabbi, no mention at all of any ritual that you'd find in a Jewish wedding. If the groom is so religious, then it's amazing that there was no desire on the bride's part to honor that important tradition. I think that conspicuous, conscious decision to not display any bit of Judiasm in the wedding publicity is, well, very telling...

How do you now it wasn't HIS CHOICE? I have a few Jewish friends that married Christians that had a Christian wedding and they have a Christmas tree and do more things with the Christian side of the family than the Jewish.

Some Jews, just like Catholics and Protestants are lapse ones and it isn't a huge part of their life even if they were raised a certain way as a child. And, you didn't see an entire video of the ceremony and reception so you have no idea if any elements and other traditions were incorporated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wanna know where they got their moolah!

Here's how:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arie_L._Kopelman

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Her face reminds me of the Wirkus twins that were on the first season(s?) of Summer House.

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He's a cardiac surgeon: https://blog.salaryexpert.com/blog/top-10-highest-paid-medical-professionals-at-nonprofits-2021/